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- 1694032 Live Unstoppable!Life hits hard, and it can knock the wind from your sails in a blink. But you don't just have to get back up—you get to. Because this life is too short, too precious, to stay down longer than necessary. So why settle for anything less? Live unstoppable! You are created for more—carved out with a purpose that only you can fulfill. This is not some pep talk or fluff; it's a fact stamped deep within your spirit. Your failures and shortcomings don't define you. They don't get to dictate your story. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com When chaos surrounds you, it's easy to lose your footing. But what if you chose to see beyond the noise? What if in the mess, you looked for the yellow flicker of possibility? Those flickers are blessings in disguise—and they show up because you're looking. The Bible says it plainly: "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" (Jeremiah 29:11). This promise is your rock—lean into it. Even when the weight feels unbearable, remember this: "Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me" (Psalm 23:4). God's presence is your steady guide—the unshakable force that calms your fears and strengthens your spirit. So rise with courage, knowing you're held by a power greater than any storm. Live unstoppable! The K.I.S.S. ~ Live unstoppable! Even when storms rage and the path ahead is shrouded in uncertainty, you are never alone. God's presence is your anchor, steadying you when life tries to pull you under. He didn't give you a spirit of fear; He gave you one of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). That means you are equipped—not just to survive but to thrive. Living unstoppable isn't about perfection or an unbroken record of wins. It's about showing up, day after day, in spite of the setbacks. It's about refusing to let yesterday's failures steal today's hope. Each morning offers a fresh start, a new chance to step into the purpose God laid out for you from the very beginning. So what does unstoppable look like? It means embracing your scars as signs of survival, your struggles as lessons, and your doubts as invitations to deepen your faith. It means running the race set before you with perseverance, fixing your eyes on the hope ahead rather than the weight behind. "Let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith" (Hebrews 12:1-2). Your life is your message—a bold statement of resilience, courage, and unwavering trust in the One who holds your future. Don't wait for the perfect moment or the flawless plan. The power to live unstoppable is already inside you. Stand tall. Fight hard. Keep moving forward. Because you don't just get to live—you get to live unstoppable. And God's got you every step of the way. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1704031 When the Path Feels ImpossibleResilience is more than a mindset—it's a series of deliberate actions that push you through struggle and onto growth. Too often, people cling to the idea that simply "thinking positively" or "staying strong" is enough to bounce back from setbacks. But here's the truth: resilience doesn't live in your head alone. It demands muscle, sweat, and the willingness to take consistent steps forward—even when the path feels impossible. Think about how many times dreams wither quietly under the weight of shame for giving up. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Life doesn't stop throwing punches. Responsibilities pile up, distractions multiply, and suddenly what you have left isn't fuel for thriving—it's just enough to get by, day after day. If that sounds familiar, it's time to stop spinning your wheels in survival mode and start moving toward resilience that leads to growth. So, where do you learn to thrive when all that's been left behind is exhaustion and frustration? How do you pull yourself together, put on your "big girl panties," and get to work on what you're really called to do? The K.I.S.S. ~ Do something! Let's be real: nothing worth having comes easy. Nothing grows from doing nothing. If your desire is to bloom despite the chaos, the answer is to do something—three things, to be exact—that build your resilience and clear the way to thrive. 1. Choose Small, Consistent Wins Resilience isn't about giant leaps. It's about showing up daily and knocking down small targets. When you focus on tiny, manageable goals—like writing one paragraph a day, making one sales call, or simply declaring an intention for the morning—you're training your brain and body to lean into success. These small wins build momentum and extinguish the shame and overwhelm that come from staring at the giant mountain all at once. 2. Create Boundaries That Protect Your Energy If responsibilities and distractions are stealing your power, take back control by setting clear boundaries. That means saying NO to toxic relationships, unnecessary commitments, and anything that drains your drive. Protecting your time isn't selfish—it's strategic. Resilience flourishes when you shield your focus and energy, so you have the fuel to take action on what matters most. 3. Build a Battle-Ready Support System No one will thrive in defeat alone. Surround yourself with people who push you to keep moving and hold you accountable when you want to quit. Whether it's a mentor, coach, or a community, having a tribe that gets real with you—and challenges your excuses—makes the difference between giving up and doubling down. Resilience is a verb. It is action layered on top of intention. Waiting to "feel" strong enough before moving forward is the lie that keeps dreams digging their own graves under shame and regret. Don't buy it. If you want to thrive, lean into the grind with focused, daily moves that strengthen your resolve, guard your energy, and fuel your forward motion. That's how you turn surviving into thriving—when the path feels impossible, become unstoppable. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1714030 Live a New LifeEaster is a pivotal moment in the Christian story—the resurrection of Jesus Christ, conquering death and sin. Yet so often we treat Easter as the final period of that story, as if the miracle of the resurrection is a one-time event we simply remember. But what if Easter was actually just the beginning—the doorway to live a new life? Jesus rose. And because of His resurrection, you don't have to stay stuck where you are. You don't have to carry the weight of defeat, failure, or fear anymore. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com The resurrection rewrites your story. It hands you the pen and invites you to choose your next chapter—a chapter where you walk in victory, not based on your success but on whose you are. The apostle Paul says it clearly: "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!" (2 Corinthians 5:17, NIV). This is not about trying harder or fixing yourself with your limited strength. It's a promise that because of Christ's resurrection, your identity has changed. The old, worn-out version of you is done. You are alive to something greater. Living a new life also means growth. God is not calling you to stagnate. You are designed to expand beyond your current limits, to be stretched and shaped into the person God intended you to be. "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" (Jeremiah 29:11, NIV). That hope is found in stepping forward, in faith, trusting that God's hand is guiding you through every stretch and challenge. The K.I.S.S. ~ Live a new life! Don't mistake the new life for an easy life. It requires choosing faith daily. Remember Jesus' words: "With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible" (Matthew 19:26, NIV). When life's trials threaten to hold you back, choose to believe that God can do what you cannot. Your strength and victory don't come from your own efforts but from the One who rose from the dead. So where do you go from here? Move forward. Walk in faith. Let Easter be the start of your bold new life, a life free from past chains, a life that reflects God's power and promises. This isn't about perfection—it's about progression. It's about living as a resurrected person in a world that desperately needs resurrection hope. Because Jesus rose, you don't have to stay the same. You get to live a new life. Every day is an opportunity to step into the victory that already belongs to you. God's got you—and that's the greatest reason to live a new life. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1724029 The Power of LaughterAre you someone who walks away feeling better after yelling at your spouse rather than laughing with them? If so, you're not alone. The stress, misunderstandings, and pressures of life sometimes drive us to lose perspective and forget the power of laughter. Especially in marriage, laughter isn't just a feel-good luxury — it's a strategic tool that can ease tension, boost connection, and make daily life way more enjoyable. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Let's be real: yelling might feel like an immediate release, but it often leaves behind frustration, wounds, and distance. Laughter, on the other hand, can reset the mood, disarm conflict, and remind both partners why they're in the relationship to begin with. How do you handle disagreements and arguments in your marriage? Are you one who is quick to point fingers? Or are you a willing participant to laugh at yourself more? If you want a marriage that grows deeper and wider together, you must laugh together more! The K.I.S.S. ~ Laugh together more! So how do you get more laughter and less yelling in your marriage? Here are three practical moves any spouse can make to lean into humor over hostility: Choose Playfulness Over Perfection Many arguments stem from unmet expectations or feeling like your partner "should" do things a certain way. When you catch yourself about to criticize or raise your voice, hit pause and aim to inject lightheartedness instead. Crack a silly joke, poke fun at your own quirks, or even exaggerate the situation absurdly. This breaks the cycle of pressure and reminds both of you that neither of you is perfect — and that's okay. Create Shared Moments of Fun Laughter isn't a byproduct of marriage. It's a muscle you have to intentionally exercise. Prioritize moments in your routine where you do something purely for fun with your spouse — like watching a goofy movie, playing a silly game, or recounting ridiculous memories. These pockets of joy build a shared reservoir of good feelings that diffuses future tension. Practice Empathy Wrapped in Humor When conflict does arise, strive to understand your spouse's feelings, but express your empathy with a sprinkle of humor. Saying something like, "I get it, you're hangry and a little terrifying right now," acknowledges the tension while lightening the mood. This approach lowers defenses, making real communication possible without escalating into yelling matches. Marriage isn't about never having arguments. It's about how you handle them. Yelling might feel loud, but laughter wins every time because it invites connection and peace instead of division. If you want to enjoy life with your spouse more—not just tolerate it—you've got to learn how to laugh together more than you yell. Now, what's your move? Start today by choosing one of those three moves. Play a little, create a funny moment, or soften a tough talk with humor. You'll be surprised how quickly laughter changes the game in your marriage. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1734028 Bring the Fun HomeParents carry a heavy load, creating special moments, making memories, and giving their kids a childhood worth remembering. With pictures of dreamy vacations, elaborate birthday parties, and nonstop family adventures everywhere, comparison amplifies the pressure to keep up. Inevitably, this comparison game leaves many feeling like they're falling short. But you don't have to leave your house or break the bank to bring the fun home and create the connection your family craves. Real life happens at home. And letting your family's joy and togetherness live inside your own walls is where the magic begins. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com The Struggle Is Real — But So Is Choice It's human to compare. You see another family on Instagram hiking exotic trails, baking Pinterest-perfect treats, or visiting amusement parks every weekend. It's easy to feel like you're missing out when your own "fun" looks like a Tuesday night pizza and movie on the couch. But other people's versions of fun don't have to control or overshadow yours. Your family's memories don't need to come from exotic places or costly experiences to be rich, meaningful, and ones your kids will carry forward. I get the whole idea that you want something worthy of posting, but what about what is kept in the heart? The K.I.S.S. ~ Bring the fun home! Fun isn't a destination. It's an attitude. You can spark laughter, wonder, and connection without packing bags or scrolling an expensive bucket list. What three things can you do to bring the fun home and build memories worth keeping? Create Mini Adventures Out of the Everyday Turn the ordinary into something unexpected. Take a backyard "camping trip" with a blanket fort, string lights, and a flashlight storytime. Host a themed dinner night — maybe a pretend trip to Italy with homemade pizzas and Italian music. Or transform a rainy afternoon by setting up an indoor scavenger hunt where each clue leads to a small prize or silly challenge. These small "adventures" give kids a sense of discovery and make what feels routine suddenly exciting and memorable. Make Screen Time Interactive and Social Instead of screens being passive distractions, make them tools for shared fun and bonding. Host a family game night with multiplayer video games or interactive apps that get everyone moving and laughing together. Or, discover kid-friendly cooking or craft tutorials that the whole family can try at once — then laugh, mess up, and celebrate the results over a homemade feast or gallery showing. This way, technology is a bridge, not a barrier. Build Traditions That Anchor Your Family Culture Meaningful memories come from rituals repeated and loved over time. Establish traditions that feel doable and authentic to your family — weekly ice cream social on Fridays, Sunday morning pancake art, or garden planting days. These traditions don't require fancy settings or expensive props. They do require consistency and intention, which build a sense of belonging, anticipation, and identity for your kids. Bring the Fun Home — Because That's Where Family Lives Memories aren't found in the number of stamps on a passport or the price of an amusement park ticket. They live in laughter around the kitchen table, goofy inside jokes born from backyard shenanigans, and the feeling your kids get when they know their home is a place of joy and connection. Leaving the house doesn't make you a better parent. Showing up — fully present, creative, and willing to reinvent what "fun" looks like for your tribe — does. So close your laptop, put down your phone, and bring the fun home. Your kids will thank you for it in ways far beyond photos or stories; it's when you see them create their memories with their families. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1744027 Hope is Found in ActionLife isn't always fair. Things don't always go our way, and it's easy to point fingers—blaming circumstances, other people, or just bad luck. What needs to be remembered is that no one's coming to save you. The power is in your hands. The difference between getting stuck and moving forward is the choice you make to act. Hope is found in action. When life hands you lemons, you have two options: complain about the sour taste or start squeezing. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Hope is defined as a feeling of desire, expectation, and confidence that something good will happen or be true. Hope is a muscle you build by making decisions that steer your life in the direction you want. Complacency is the enemy. Getting comfortable with your struggles, waiting for "the right moment," or convincing yourself that you've done enough just leads to being stuck—and stuck is where dreams go to die. You were created for more. Not some vague "more," but a clear, intentional "more" that only you can define and pursue. The path won't be easy. Nothing that's worth having comes without effort, without challenge. But the good news is you don't need a giant leap—a hundred small steps in the right direction add up. Choosing to organize your day, having honest conversations, learning a skill, or simply deciding not to give up today—all these seemingly small actions are the fuel for your hope engine. The K.I.S.S. ~ Hope is found in action! Clear minds make clear moves. When overwhelmed, the best thing you can do is get still, sort your priorities, and act decisively. Hesitation breeds doubt, doubt breeds fear, and fear paralyzes. Fight back with purpose. Fight back with action. The legacy you want, the impact you want, the life you deserve doesn't come to the passive or the lazy. It comes to the doers—the ones who take their lemons and roll up their sleeves to make lemonade, even if the kitchen is messy and the recipe isn't perfect. Don't give up on yourself. You're not here by accident. You are created on purpose with gifts and talents that require you to take action. Hope isn't some fairy dust sprinkled at the finish line; it's the fire you start when you decide to move forward, one brave step at a time. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo So today, choose movement over stagnation. Choose action over excuses. Choose to believe that despite setbacks, despite failures, your next move can rewrite your story. Because hope is found in action, in what you do, not what you wait for. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1754026 Life is a HighwayOftentimes, life is a highway; a vast road with countless exits, destinations, and detours. Each day, you choose your direction, determining who you meet, what you do, and where you end up. When you're cruising down your chosen path, life's open road feeling fuels your momentum. But what happens when you realize you're driving on the wrong side of the road? The highway you're on isn't aligning with the purpose you believe was laid out for you. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Many people have faced that exact crisis: recognizing that the route they're traveling wasn't their true calling. They expected a straightforward journey but encountered unexpected twists—job loss, broken relationships, health crises, or deep dissatisfaction. These moments test our resilience and demand course correction. Take, for example, the story of J.K. Rowling, who faced poverty and rejection before finding her true path as the author of the Harry Potter series. She didn't start her career intending to be a best-selling author, but after hitting the "wrong side" of the road in her life, she adjusted her route. Instead of giving up, she navigated toward a new path that brought fulfillment and success. Research backs this up: a 2019 study published in the Journal of Vocational Behavior found that career setbacks often motivate people to discover more authentic and satisfying professional paths, leading to greater happiness and productivity. Now, of course, this is not just about what you are doing in your career. You might say you don't have a career, you have a calling. However, look at it from the perspective of what God divinely designed for you. You get to decide what you do every day and how you do it. Personal or professional, you get to choose. So instead of being miserable and caught up in what everyone else is telling you to do, take a pit stop. The K.I.S.S. ~ Take a pit stop! What if you were to really think about what you are actively doing every day, what side of the road you're on, so to speak? What if you consider what's working and what's not? Maybe you need to watch the speed limit signs, too. Just doing the same thing over and over again is not going to make things better. Yes, you know what to expect. But that does not mean you should keep doing it. If there is a pothole in the middle of the road where you drive every day, do you think you should run over it just because it's there? NO! You can change lanes or swerve to avoid it. This whole idea of living your life with a miserable badge of honor makes no sense. Now, that also doesn't give you free rein to be reckless. Connect your head and your heart and see what you can do to move from the wrong side of the road where God is leading. So how do you move from the wrong side of life's road onto the one that aligns with the life that God—or your deepest sense of calling—created for you? Here are three no-nonsense steps: Stop and Reassess Your Direction You can't fix your journey while barreling forward blindly. Pause, get honest about where you are versus where you want to be. Ask yourself: What am I doing that feels off? What's the cost of staying on this route? Clarity comes from reflection, journaling, or talking with trusted mentors who won't sugarcoat your situation. Redirect with Intentional Action Once you see the wrong road, make deliberate moves to shift lanes. This could mean learning new skills, saying no to toxic relationships, or setting healthier boundaries. Don't wait for perfect conditions—momentum builds the minute you take clear steps away from what does not serve you. Build a Support System and Keep Course-Correcting Few people reach their intended highway solo. So surround yourself with people who encourage your growth and align with your vision. Remember, hitting roadblocks doesn't mean failure; it signals the need for adjustment. Stay flexible, keep your bigger destination in mind, and course-correct as life unfolds. In essence, life as a highway isn't about avoiding every bump or wrong turn; it's about steering yourself back, over and over, to the road that fits your true purpose. When you do, you stop drifting in frustration and start driving with confidence—knowing the road ahead was meant for you all along. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellspringWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1764025 Venture into Your GreatnessWhy is it that we have this burning desire to chase our dreams, yet often find ourselves hovering just outside the doorway of action? You know what's possible — the life you want, the impact you dream of making — but somehow your feet stay cemented in the comfort of where you currently stand. It's confusing and frustrating. However, you were made for more, for a purpose bigger than the habits and excuses that keep you stuck; venture into your greatness. But your actions haven't caught up with that reality yet. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Desire alone doesn't cut it. Dreaming about your greatness is easy. Doing the work, facing fear, moving forward when every part of you wants to stay small — that's where most people stall. Comfort is a sneaky trap. It whispers, "You're fine here. No need to risk. No need to fight." And when you listen, you become your own biggest enemy, locking yourself into a story of "what if" instead of "what's next." But what if you chose differently today? What if you decided to rise not just a little, but a whole level above your current self? That's what it means to venture into your greatness. It means showing up, not when you feel ready, but because you refuse to settle for less than you're capable of. It means trading hesitation for the boldness that breakthroughs demand. The K.I.S.S. ~ Venture into your greatness! Be an overcomer. Step beyond the comfort zone — not once, but every day. Because that's where real growth hides. That's where you find the version of you who can look back and say, "I gave it everything. I didn't quit. I dared to live bigger." The truth about greatness is that it's not a secret club reserved for a chosen few. It's a place you enter by doing the work others won't. It's shown by pushing through the uncertainty, deciding to fight even when the results seem invisible. It's in every small step outside your safe space, every no to procrastination, every yes to a challenge that seems bigger than you. You are more than your fears. More than your doubts. More than the comfortable excuse keeping you from the next level. It's time to stop hovering and start doing. Venture into your greatness. The only thing standing between you and what's possible is the courage to take that next step. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1774024 The Heart of Your AttitudeHow do you see the glass when you wake up in the morning — half empty or half full? This simple image holds a powerful key to your day, your choices, and ultimately, your life. The heart of your attitude determines whether you view life as a series of obstacles or a world full of options. It's more than just a mood; it's the lens through which you interpret every challenge and opportunity. Research makes it clear: your morning mindset sets the tone for what follows. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com A landmark study from the University of Pennsylvania found that people who start their day with a positive outlook show better problem-solving skills and increased resilience. When your attitude leans toward optimism, your brain is wired to look for solutions, not roadblocks — setting you up for proactive choices that drive progress. On the flip side, a negativity bias — dwelling on what could go wrong — can drain your motivation and cloud your judgment. Psychologists note that negative mindsets activate the amygdala, the brain's fear center, which narrows focus and limits creative thinking. Simply put, when you start with a half-empty view, you invite stress and hesitation. But here's the good news: attitude is a choice, and you can train yourself to cultivate the kind that best serves you. So how do you get the heart of your attitude attuned to what matters most? The K.I.S.S. ~ Choose your attitude for daily wins! You have got to find a way to have those daily wins. What is your battle cry? Here are three practical strategies backed by science: 1. Anchor Your Morning With a Purposeful Ritual How you begin your day matters. Studies show that people who engage in intentional morning routines—whether that's journaling, meditation, or a quick gratitude practice—report higher levels of positive emotion and better stress management throughout the day. By focusing on what you want to achieve or appreciate, you prime your mind to seek opportunities rather than obstacles. 2. Reframe Challenges As Growth Opportunities Neuroscience tells us that neuroplasticity—the brain's ability to change—thrives on perspective shifts. When you consciously reframe problems as chances to learn or improve, your brain builds new neural pathways associated with resilience and adaptability. Instead of "I can't do this," say, "This is tough, but I can figure it out." This subtle shift causes your attitude to lean into action rather than retreat into fear. 3. Align Daily Actions With Your Deepest Values The heart of your attitude beats strongest when it connects to what truly matters. Research from positive psychology identifies "values-consistent behavior" as a critical driver of well-being and motivation. Get clear on what matters most—be it family, creativity, freedom, or impact—and break your goals into small, daily steps that reflect those values. That clarity sharpens your attitude to focus on progress, not perfection. Ultimately, life will throw setbacks your way—there's no escaping that. But how you wake up to face them is your choice. When the heart of your attitude is tuned to see the glass as half full, to recognize options rather than obstacles, you write the script for a day filled with action and possibility. That's the heart of your attitude, creating those daily wins. Start now. Tomorrow morning, when your eyes open, decide which direction you're headed. The heart of your attitude is quietly taking root in that first moment. Make it count. Take a deep breath in; it's your day to conquer! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1784023 Find Hope in the Empty TombEaster is the heart of the Christian faith—a powerful reminder that death does not have the final word. It is a celebration of Jesus Christ rising from the dead, a victory over sin and fear, a promise that new life is available to all who believe. Find hope in the empty tomb. The story of Easter morning is etched in the Gospels with profound awe and hope, especially in the experience of Mary Magdalene and the other Mary who came to Jesus' tomb just as dawn was breaking. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com The Scriptures tell us in Matthew 28:1-7 (NIV): After the Sabbath, at dawn on the first day of the week, Mary Magdalene and the other Mary went to look at the tomb. 2 There was a violent earthquake, for an angel of the Lord came down from heaven and, going to the tomb, rolled back the stone and sat on it. 3 His appearance was like lightning, and his clothes were white as snow. 4 The guards were so afraid of him that they shook and became like dead men. 5 The angel said to the women, "Do not be afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. 6 He is not here; he has risen, just as he said. Come and see the place where he lay. 7 Then go quickly and tell his disciples: 'He has risen from the dead and is going ahead of you into Galilee. There you will see him.' Now I have told you." Imagine the shock and wonder in their hearts. They came expecting to mourn and care for a lifeless body, but found the tomb empty. They faced a choice: to linger in fear or step into faith. As they hurried back to share the news with the disciples, Scripture says: 8 So the women hurried away from the tomb, afraid yet filled with joy, and ran to tell his disciples. 9 Suddenly Jesus met them. "Greetings," he said. They came to him, clasped his feet and worshiped him. 10 Then Jesus said to them, "Do not be afraid. Go and tell my brothers to go to Galilee; there they will see me." (Matthew 28:8-10 NIV) Jesus met them in the midst of their confusion and fear—not with condemnation or silence, but with life and a command to go forth boldly. He was alive. They were not forgotten. The resurrection was a living hope, moving us forward; hope in motion. The K.I.S.S. ~ Find hope in the empty tomb! Too often, when we feel God's presence absent, it might be because we are the ones retreating—hiding in fear, doubt, or pain. Yet, God's presence never wavers. He is nearer than we realize. The problem is not with Him; it is with us withdrawing. But Easter reminds us: "Behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age." (Matthew 28:20b NKJV) If you feel like you're walking through a dark valley today, remember you are not alone. Jesus overcame death so that fear loses its grip. He calls you beyond the tomb of despair into resurrection life. He is risen. He is risen indeed. This truth changes everything—fear becomes courage, sorrow becomes joy, and hopelessness becomes promise. Easter is not just a historical event; it is the ongoing story of God's unwavering presence with you now. So hold fast to this hope. Wherever you are, whatever you're facing, Jesus is near. Don't hide—step into the light of His resurrection. There is no fear because God is always close, always powerful, always alive. He is risen. He is risen indeed. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #HappyEaster 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1794022 Rediscover The Love You Once HadMarriage can be comfortable—it can feel like a safe harbor in a chaotic world. But comfort is a double-edged sword. When we become complacent, assuming that our marriage will somehow maintain its course without active effort, we're setting ourselves up for trouble. It's not that love fades overnight, but it does become something we stop tending to, something we take for granted. And when we neglect love, it's not missing suddenly—it's slowly slipping away. So why not refresh your marriage and rediscover the love you once had? The truth is, no matter how strong or stable you believe your marriage to be, every relationship needs regular refreshment. It needs moments of pause and reflection, reminders to stay attuned to one another's hearts. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Unfortunately, when confidence turns into overconfidence—when you believe "everything's fine" or "nothing's wrong here"—that's often when things quietly unravel. Have you ever paused to ask yourself: just how badly do I want to love my spouse well, right now—in this moment, not just in memory? Maybe you recalled the eagerness before the wedding, when the future looked bright, and your love felt fresh and fierce. But those hours turned into months to years to decades. The newness wears off, distractions pile up—work, kids, stress—and it becomes easier to live in a habitual marriage than one that is truly alive. There's a powerful parallel here between the marriage relationship and the relationship God desires with each of us. Just as love between spouses requires constant renewal, so does our walk with God. The death and resurrection of Jesus Christ show us the ultimate example of love: willing to sacrifice, willing to rise again from the depths of difficulty, and willing to pursue reconciliation relentlessly. The K.I.S.S. ~ Let your marriage R.I.S.E.! If God continually invites us to return to Him—despite our mistakes, distractions, or complacency—what can we learn from that about loving our spouses? Here are four essential things any spouse can do to reconcile their marriage and tap into a deeper—not average—love: It's time to R.I.S.E.! R – Reach Out Daily Don't wait for "the right moment." Show up wholeheartedly every day. Listen deeply, speak kindly, and invest time in your spouse's world. Love thrives in consistent attention—not grand gestures alone. I – Initiate Forgiveness and Grace Take responsibility where you've fallen short. Open the door for healing by asking for forgiveness and extending grace without hesitation. This breaks the cycle of resentment and fuels emotional freedom. S – Strengthen Spiritual Connection Build your marriage on more than mutual interests—build it on shared purpose and faith. Pray together, seek spiritual growth, and invite God's love to infuse your relationship with strength beyond your own. E – Engage in Purposeful Growth Commit to growing—not just as individuals but as partners. Set goals together, face challenges as a team, learn from mistakes, and celebrate victories. A marriage that grows is a marriage that stays alive and passionate. Rediscovering the love you once had isn't about returning to a nostalgic past. It's about breathing new life into your daily relationship and choosing—every day—to pursue something greater than comfort or habit. The "average" love settles, but the love worth fighting for rises, falls on knees, asks for forgiveness, and rises again with divine strength. Your marriage deserves more than average. It deserves to be alive. It deserves intentional, fierce love that mirrors the relentless grace shown to us. So when you feel your marriage drifting into the "average" zone, remember to RISE, because love isn't just something that happens to you. It's something you get up and build every day. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1804021 Stay On TrackDefeat is often felt in the stillness of the storms — those quiet moments when exhaustion weighs heavy, and worries swirl about whether we're truly meeting our children's needs. Parenting is overwhelming. From sleepless nights to unexpected meltdowns to the endless what-comes-next questions, the journey demands more than just energy; it demands heart. Regardless of the stage our kids are in, staying on track is not optional; it's required. When weariness and fear try to convince you to run or hide, remember this: you are doing the best you can. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Parenting was never meant to be easy—otherwise, everyone would have dozens of kids. It's a path for those willing to sacrifice, to endure trials, and to keep choosing love every single day. This truth echoes the greatest story of sacrifice and steadfast love we know: God sending His Son to die on the cross for us. Christ's death was the ultimate act of surrender, done out of love for broken humanity. Just as He bore the weight of pain and rejection, we bear our own struggles as parents. But God doesn't leave us in the storm alone. He understands our pain deeply and holds the promise of victory beyond the trials. Hebrews 12:2 reminds us to "fix our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before Him, He endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God." Like Jesus, we face challenges with an eye on the hope and joy ahead. Our sacrifice in parenting is part of a greater story: one of redemption, grace, and purpose. The K.I.S.S. ~ Stay on track! So, how can parents stay on track amid chaos and exhaustion? Here are three actions to anchor your journey: Lean Into God's Strength Daily When your own reserves run dry, remember Isaiah 40:31: "But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." Let God's strength fuel you each day. Prayer, scripture, and honest surrender will keep you steady. Set Small, Clear Intentions Parenting isn't about perfection; it's about consistent forward motion. Decide what one thing you can do today to encourage your child or reinforce your values. Simple, achievable goals prevent overwhelm and create momentum. Celebrate Tiny Wins and Extend Grace Every moment of connection, every step forward counts. Celebrate the small victories quietly but intentionally. When you stumble, offer yourself grace—as God so often does for us. On this Good Friday, remember the cross is more than a symbol of sacrifice—it's a promise that after every storm, resurrection comes. The triumphs waiting for you and your family are within reach. Your efforts, though hard, are known and woven into a greater purpose. You're not alone. Keep going. Keep trusting. Stay on track. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1814020 All Things Are Made NewWho doesn't need a little pick-me-up in the middle of the week? A moment, a breath when the weight feels lighter, and the horizon looks a little bit brighter? We all carry burdens that stretch us beyond what feels bearable. But God carries whatever we cannot carry. And in His hands, all things are made new. This week, as we continue to walk through the sacred days of Holy Week, there's a special invitation to dig deeper—beyond routine, beyond the surface—to what God truly desires for our hearts and lives. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Tonight is Maundy Thursday. This day centers on the Last Supper, the final meal Jesus shared with His disciples before His crucifixion. In this intimate moment, Jesus didn't just gather His friends for a meal—He established Communion, offering bread and wine as powerful symbols of His body and blood, a promise of the new covenant between God and humanity. This act is the foundation for the hope we hold onto through Good Friday's darkness and Easter's light. But Maundy Thursday goes even further, as the very name points us to a commandment (mandatum in Latin) given by Jesus to His disciples: to love one another, just as He has loved us. Jesus humbles Himself to wash the dirty feet of His disciples, serving those who would soon scatter in fear. This footwashing is more than a simple gesture; it's a profound, deep-rooted call to love and serve one another with the same selfless heart He has shown. It's a spiritual reset—a chance to allow God's love to break through every hardened place in us and make us new. All things are made new. What if this Maundy Thursday, we followed His lead? What if we allowed ourselves to be vulnerable enough to accept His love—not just as a distant story but as an active force that floods in and breaks through every hard place? The K.I.S.S. ~ All things are made new! God doesn't leave us weighed down by yesterday's failures, today's anxieties, or tomorrow's unknowns. He promises restoration. Renewal. A fresh start in the very core of our being. When Jesus says, "all things are made new," He means everything—not just the big ticket items but the small cracks and worn places. The areas we tend to hide or neglect. This isn't about perfection; it's about presence. Being present to the grace that sweeps in and says, "You don't have to carry this alone." It's about courage to lay down old burdens and step into a future shaped by hope rather than fear. So, if you find your spirit lagging this week, pause on this day of Maundy Thursday. Remember the humble feet washing, the selfless love, the Last Supper's promise, and the certainty that no matter how tangled the struggle feels, God's hands are steady, ready to make all things new. Lean in. Receive that renewal, the refreshment. Let it fuel you to love more, forgive more, and live more fully. Because in God's kingdom, every broken thing can be healed—and every heart can be reshaped and refined; all things are made new. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1824019 The BOGO TrapYou've seen it a thousand times: Buy One Get One free. The offer pops off the shelf, your eye catches the deal, and suddenly, your cart is fuller than intended. But lots of these "deals" aren't deals at all. They lure you with the promise of abundance, but the truth is, you might not even need what you're buying, or worse, you might get stuck with what clutters your life or pulls you off course; it's the BOGO trap. In life, "buying into" anything like ideas, habits, and shortcuts, without pause, can lead you to a path that feels good for a moment but steals long-term value. And that temptation can be relentless. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com It keeps coming at you on so many levels. With this being Holy Week, I thought it was more than appropriate to reflect on how Jesus responded to what God had in store for His Son. Jesus' Journey: The Ultimate Lesson in What to Buy Into In the early stages of His ministry, after being baptized by John the Baptist, Jesus went into the wilderness, where He fasted for forty days and forty nights. There, He was tempted in the wilderness (Matthew 4:1-11). The devil offered Him physical relief, instant fame, and shortcuts to power—all seductive "deals." Yet Jesus saw through the smoke and mirrors and said no. He didn't buy into easy fixes or flashy bargains; He bought into God's plan: a path of endurance, truth, and salvation. The timing of this is important because it shows that Jesus began His mission by facing and overcoming the same temptations we do, laying a foundation of discipline and obedience that carried Him all the way to the cross, to the place where we celebrate at the end of Holy Week, His resurrection. Jesus facing this head-on is an example of the blueprint for resisting temptation and staying aligned with what's truly lasting and good. How Do We Resist Temptation and Discipline Ourselves? Resisting temptation and choosing the long game requires intentional choices. It's about training your mind and heart to recognize what serves God's divine design and His purpose for you, and what's a distraction dressed up as a blessing. The K.I.S.S. ~ BOGO God's way! At some point, we have to BOGO God's way, not our way. Here are three ways to "BOGO" in a way that aligns with God's desires and leads you on the right path: 1. Buy Into God's Word First—Before Anything Else The devil tempted Jesus with scripture (Psalm 91:11–12), yet misused it to serve selfish ends. Your first purchase must be the truth found in God's Word. Let scripture be your ultimate filter for every decision and offer. Action: Start every day by reading and meditating on scripture that reminds you to whom you serve and what matters most. Why: This grounds you in eternal truth and equips you to discern genuine value over empty deals. 2. Buy Into Purpose, Not Pleasure Temptations often come wrapped in quick pleasure or "easy wins." But Jesus prioritized purpose, God's Heavenly mission, over momentary relief. When you make choices anchored in your calling, you avoid the distractions that derail your journey. Action: Clearly define your God-given purpose. When an opportunity arises, ask: Does this advance my calling or just satisfy temporary cravings? Why: Choosing purpose over pleasure keeps your path straight and your living legacy unshaken. 3. Buy Into Community and Accountability Jesus didn't walk this road alone. He leaned on the Father's guidance and, before that, He spent time with His disciples. Surrounding yourself with a community that shares your values keeps you honest and aligned. Action: Build relationships with believers who challenge you to live rightly and call out when you stray toward false bargains. Why: Accountability is a powerful guardrail against the allure of short-term gains that cost more than they're worth. The Bottom Line: Choose What Lasts The "BOGO" mentality often comes with a hidden bill. If you want to walk the path God is calling you to, you have to be smart about what you're "buying into." Don't let the temptation of easy, flashy offers steal your focus. Instead, follow Jesus' footsteps: buy into truth, purpose, and community. And watch how in the moment everything changed. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellspringWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1834018 Choose Hope When the World Feels RestlessChaos and busyness have become the backdrop to our daily lives. The constant rush, the noise, all the things; it all piles up until it's easy to feel overwhelmed and powerless. But just because the world around us is untamed and crazy, doesn't mean we have to live like that inside. Choose hope when the world feels restless. You know that when you choose hope, it is an act of rebellion against the chaos. It's deciding that worry won't write the script of your story. It's a deliberate pause, a deep breath, a quiet moment to remind yourself that panic is not the answer. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com We know the real anchor beneath the storm is God. His presence is the steady hand that holds through uncertainty. But there's a trap many fall into—trying to micromanage every detail, wrestling control over outcomes, gripping so tightly that fear starts to creep in. That grasping breeds hopelessness and steals peace. Not today! The K.I.S.S. ~ Choose hope when the world feels restless! Instead, what if we loosen that grip for a moment? What if we lean into patience and trust the timing that is far beyond our control? God's blessings don't arrive wrapped in schedules we set. Miracles aren't confined to our plans. They come alive in perfect timing, often when we least expect. In this season of restlessness, breathe in that truth. Remember what God has established long ago—blessings that truly count, miracles that never cease. Choosing hope right now is a courageous stance toward life, anchored in faith, beyond the noise and chaos. So when the world spins fast and feels shaky, choose hope. And watch how in those moments everything changed. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1844017 The Moment Everything ChangedEver had a moment when the everyday noise around you fades away, and suddenly you realize there's a deeper question lurking beneath all the surface chatter and chaos? Not about the usual daily choices, but something that cuts to the core of who you are, where you are going, and who you are becoming. Those moments don't come often, but when they do, they shake everything up and force you to reckon with what really matters. It's in those rare instances that the story of your life can take a sharp turn—if you're willing to face what's really going on beneath the surface, the moment everything changed. This is Holy Week—for those who walk by faith, not by sight—a time heavy with the weight of history and meaning. As I reflect on the final days leading up to the crucifixion of Jesus, I can't help but think about the tension in every thought and decision of that week. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com So many moments could have turned out differently, depending on the choices made before them. That "moment everything changed" was a defining pivot not just in a story that shaped history, but in spiritual reality itself. Have you ever experienced a moment like that in your own life? A time when something just clicked inwardly, and you sensed that your path was about to shift forever? Most of us never grasp the magnitude of those moments in advance. We live through them, and only later recognize their impact. But what if you could? What if you gave yourself the space, even the permission, to wrestle with the unknown before the change hits? To reflect deeply when answers aren't clear, and decisions aren't obvious? How might that shift the outcomes you experience? Jesus faced this struggle in every breath during that week. Fully God and fully man, He carried the weight of eternal purpose and human uncertainty. His mindset was defined by surrender and clarity, but we don't often consider the mental wrestling He did ahead of the cross. Yet, I believe God leaves us clues to live with that kind of intentional awareness. Romans 12:2 tells us, "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." This renewal is where perspective shifts and life-changing choices become possible. You need to dig deeper into your thinking. The K.I.S.S. ~ Dig deeper into your thinking! So how do you dig deeper in your thinking—almost illogical, maybe even uncomfortable, but profoundly powerful? Here are three practices to get you started: Ask Brutally Honest Questions. Don't settle for surface answers. Ask yourself, "Why am I doing this?" and "What am I avoiding by staying the same?" The truth you uncover will steer your next steps. Create Space for Reflection Daily. Silence or journaling—even just five minutes—helps you detect the whispers of your deeper thoughts and divine nudges. It's in the quiet that clarity grows. Surrender Control to Embrace Possibility. Fighting for certainty can blind you to new directions. Letting go—even when it doesn't make perfect sense—opens doors to unexpected breakthroughs. As you continue through Holy Week, use Jesus' mindset as an example to challenge your own. Pose specific questions about why you do what you do. This isn't wishful thinking—it's strategic mental work that can lead to better choices, a better life. Look to Jesus, who accepted the ultimate gift of obedience and love. If you accept His gift, know this: you now hold eternal life in your hands. This week is your invitation to pause, reflect, and decide. Because often, all it takes is one moment to change everything. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. 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- 1854016 A Love So RealPalm Sunday marks the beginning of Holy Week—a sacred time to prepare our hearts for the incredible journey Jesus willingly took for us. It's easy to get caught up in the rituals and events, but if we stop there, we miss what truly matters: a love so real it changed everything. As Jesus entered Jerusalem riding on a donkey, the crowd shouted, "Hosanna! Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord!" (Matthew 21:9). Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com This was no ordinary arrival; it was the fulfillment of prophecy, a humble King stepping into the city knowing full well the road ahead. John 12:13 tells us, "They took palm branches and went out to meet him, shouting, 'Hosanna!'" But this was not a celebration of triumph as the world understands it—it was the start of a journey toward sacrifice. Jesus knew the path from Palm Sunday would lead to a cross. Luke 9:51 says, "As the time approached for him to be taken up to heaven, Jesus resolutely set out for Jerusalem." He wasn't forced into this; He chose it. For you. On Maundy Thursday, Jesus gathered his disciples to share the Passover meal. Amid this intimate moment, He gave a new command: "This is my body given for you; do this in remembrance of me" (Luke 22:19). And with the cup, "This cup is the new covenant in my blood, which is poured out for you" (Luke 22:20). Here, love becomes tangible—body broken, blood shed—so that we might live. The K.I.S.S. ~A love so real! The sobering silence of Good Friday is punctuated only by the words Jesus spoke on the cross: "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing" (Luke 23:34). When He could have called down angels or resisted, He embraced suffering and death. Isaiah 53:5 captures it clearly: "But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed." All of this for you. Then comes the hope that never fades—Easter Sunday. "He is not here; he has risen!" (Luke 24:6). Jesus conquered sin and death, opening the way for us to walk in newness of life (Romans 6:4). His resurrection is the ultimate proof of a love that refuses to be defeated. Holy Week is not about tradition or obligation. It's about a love so real that Jesus stepped into our broken world, bore our pain, and rose victorious—all to bring you into a relationship with God. This Palm Sunday, as you hold your palm branch or reflect on the crowds' cries, remember: God's love isn't a distant story. It's alive, personal, and powerful. Come with open hearts. Walk with Jesus this week—not as a checklist, but as a response to a love that changed everything. Because His love is so real. And it's for you. A Love So Real by Kristianne Wargo A whispered breeze through palm-lined streets, A humble King on dusted feet. No throne of gold, no shining steel— Just love in flesh: a love so real. The crowd's loud cries, a hopeful song, Yet in His heart, a knowing strong— This path will bend beneath a cross, Where hope is found in seeming loss. He broke the bread, He shared the wine, "My body given, this blood is mine." A silent gift, a sacred seal— A covenant of love so real. Upon the hill, beneath the sky, A thorny crown, a final cry. Forgiveness poured from nail-pierced hands, Love that frees, that understands. But dawn will break, the stone rolled wide, Death's dark shadow swept aside. He rose again, alive to heal— Love eternal, love so real. No greater gift, no deeper grace, No harder road in time or space. Just this: a heart that chose to feel— And give to us a love so real. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. 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- 1864015 Go with the FlowMarriage is a wild ride; no matter how many years you've been in it, you're always learning something new. Just when you think you've got your spouse all figured out, life throws a curveball like a change in circumstances, mood, or priorities. The automatic reaction might be to resist, argue, or complain, but real strength lies in learning how to go with the flow. Easier said than done, right? Marriage: the joining of two very different people, each with their own views on how life should go—that's a recipe for some tension. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com A little friction is normal and healthy; it sparks growth and keeps things interesting. But too much friction is a burnout waiting to happen, making you question why you're even in the relationship. Going with the flow doesn't mean giving up or becoming a pushover. It's a mindset shift. It's about embracing change as part of your shared journey and choosing harmony over constant conflict. The K.I.S.S. ~ Go with the flow! What happens in your household when something unexpected happens? Do you both get all bent out of shape and become defensive about the situation? Or are you reasonable to work with and calm to figure it out together? Most of us are everything in between. Very rarely does the simplest of thoughts and actions occur. And you could chalk that up to being the "unexpected" part of life. Here are three powerful actions any spouse can take to master the art of flowing together. Shift Focus from Being Right to Being Connected Often, tension arises because both partners are locked into their own point of view. Instead of doubling down on winning the argument, lean into curiosity. Ask yourself, "What is my spouse really feeling? What's underneath their reaction?" When you prioritize connection over being right, you open the door for empathy. That creates space for compromise and understanding—ingredients that smooth the flow of your relationship. Practice Flexibility—and Recognize What's Worth Holding Onto Flexibility isn't weakness; it's strength wrapped in adaptability. Sometimes plans change, moods shift, and priorities evolve. Practice saying, "Okay, let's try it your way this time," without seeing it as a loss. But flexibility doesn't mean losing your identity or values. Know where your non-negotiables lie and stand firm there. Flow is about navigating change gracefully, not being a leaf blown randomly by every gust. Choose Peace Daily—Even When You Don't Feel Like It Going with the flow is a practice that sometimes requires conscious effort. When irritation flares, take a breath and remind yourself: Is this worth sparking a fight over? Often, the answer is no. Committing to peace means choosing calm over chaos, patience over frustration, and love over ego—every single day. That consistency builds a reservoir of goodwill that carries you through rough patches. Marriage isn't a smooth crystal stream; it's a river with bends, rapids, and quiet pools. When you learn how to go with the flow, you don't just survive the current—you ride it together, stronger and more connected on the other side. So next time change hits, resist the urge to push against it. Let it flow around you, carry you both forward, and deepen the bond that makes your marriage worth everything. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1874014 More to Life than Screen TimeKids glued to screens more than they engage in real conversations is a crisis disguised as convenience. With the rise of technology, including computers and phones, the natural order has been flipped upside down, leaving a generation increasingly ill-equipped to navigate the human connections that truly matter. There's more to life than screen time. This isn't just a gripe about kids and screens; it's about the quality and depth of human connection they're missing out on. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com When children spend hours navigating virtual worlds, scrolling feeds, or tapping out texts, they're not just passing time; they're trading away opportunities to develop the very skills that make us human. Real conversations, face-to-face and voice-to-voice, build empathy, social awareness, and critical thinking in ways screens simply can't replicate. It's these interactions that teach kids how to read emotions, respond thoughtfully, and build trust. So what's at stake is more than just screen time limits; it's the foundation of how our kids will relate to family, friends, colleagues, and even themselves as they grow. We have to find a way to balance technology's undeniable benefits with deliberate efforts to foster genuine connection. And this is your wake-up call to step in and create environments where human interaction beats screen time, not just for discipline, but for survival in an increasingly isolated digital age. The Screen Dilemma: Why It's So Backwards Research isn't shy about the consequences. A study published in JAMA Pediatrics found that adolescents who spent more than three hours per day on electronic devices were at a significantly higher risk of experiencing mental health problems, including anxiety and depression. Meanwhile, a decline in face-to-face interactions directly impacts their ability to develop empathy, emotional intelligence, and the confidence required for real-world communication. A report from the Pew Research Center showed that teens today are far less interested in talking on the phone, with 73% admitting they prefer texting or social media messaging. This avoidance of direct verbal communication has a real-world cost. College professors report students struggling with oral presentations and conversations, and employers note a deficit in interpersonal skills essential for career success. When texting becomes the go-to mode of communication, kids avoid the nuance of tone, timing, and body language. These aren't just "soft skills"—they're foundational to building trust, negotiating conflicts, and forming meaningful relationships. It's time to intervene with a pattern interrupt. The K.I.S.S. ~ Intervene with a pattern interrupt! That means you are not letting your children do whatever they want or even self-regulate. You need to be watchful and guide them as they grow. And as they move out and come back to visit, you can still model what needs to happen in human connections and interactions. What Can Parents Do? Three Sharp Moves to Protect Kids from Screen Overload While Teaching Real Communication Establish Structured Screen-Free Times and Zones Don't just vaguely ask kids to "use screens less." Get specific: ban devices during meals, before bedtime, and during important family moments. This creates guaranteed pockets of human connection. Research in Developmental Psychology confirms that family dinners without screens boost kids' language skills, decrease risky behaviors, and increase emotional bonds. Model Real Conversations—No Half Measures Kids mimic what they see. Make your communications count. Put your phone away when someone's speaking. Use eye contact. Show kids how to handle a conversation with patience—even during uncomfortable topics. If home is a training ground for how to connect, your child is more likely to carry that skill into school, work, and friendships. Create Opportunities for Face-to-Face Socializing Outside Digital Screens Sign kids up for team sports, drama clubs, volunteering, or other group activities with real human feedback. A study from the University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA) showed that social engagement offline promotes better mental health and communication skills than online interactions. Encourage your child to face challenges and conflicts in person to build resilience and conversational agility. This is about more than limiting screen time. It's about preparing kids to thrive in a world where real human connection isn't optional—it's essential. If you don't teach them to talk, listen, and share without a screen buffering the moment, don't be shocked when they grow into adults who struggle to connect, negotiate, and lead. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1884013 Love Your LifeCircumstances have a way of dragging us down. When worries pile up, enthusiasm doesn't stand a chance. Hope gets shoved aside by the constant rush of life, making you want to throw in the towel and quit altogether. You don't have to fall in love with the season you're living through to actually love your life. Loving your life isn't automatic. It's not a byproduct of perfect days or effortless joy. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com It's a daily decision—a choice you make every morning when you wake up and take that first breath. Breathe in what God has given you—the gift of this day—and breathe out the heavy weight of what you can't control. That simple, rhythmic exchange is where love and life can coexist, even when life feels anything but lovely or likable. This doesn't mean ignoring the tough stuff. It means holding space for both—the hard and the hopeful. It's the "and" that matters: you can face hardships and still find reasons to be grateful. You don't have to wait for better seasons or easier circumstances to start appreciating the life you're living right now. The K.I.S.S. ~ Love your life! Remember, you're not walking this path alone. Letting God walk beside you changes the experience from unbearable to manageable. It's in that partnership—your willingness to show up and God's strength to carry you—that you find the courage to push forward. You can handle more than you think. You're stronger than your struggles. So make that daily choice: love your life, even when it's messy, even when it's hard. Because loving your life is the boldest act of defiance against the chaos—and the first step to changing it. You've got this. God's got you! Love your life. Love Your Life by Kristianne Wargo Some days the sky feels heavy, and the light is hard to find. Worries crowd like thunder clouds, dimming hope in heart and mind. But here's a truth to hold close— love doesn't wait on perfect days. It wakes with every morning breath, and chooses life's wild ways. Breathe in deep the gift you've got, exhale what's out of reach. In the space between the storms, you'll find the grace to teach— That love lives not in ease alone, but in the fight, the "and." The hard and hopeful holding hands, the steady, rising stand. When seasons press so heavy, and hope feels thin and small, remember—you are not alone, alone you'll never fall. God walks with every step you take, in darkness and in light, carrying you through the hard, toward dawn from endless night. So breathe, and choose to love your life, the broken and the whole, because within that daily choice, you heal. You grow. You're whole. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1894012 Change is a Good ThingWhy do we often run from change as if it's something dangerous to avoid? The sprint away is so instinctive that even when we stumble, we'd rather keep running in fear than pause and face what's new. Instead of running from something like fear, failure, or discomfort, why not run toward what you want? Because change is a good thing. We are wired as creatives and learners. But if we keep thinking we cannot change something or do it differently, it holds us back. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com When we convince ourselves that we can't change a circumstance or try a fresh approach, we trap ourselves in the quicksand of "stuck." And that quicksand becomes a well of despair where only our tears accumulate. But you're worth more than that prison. You deserve to break free. What lights you up? What do you care about so deeply that it pulls you out of bed, no matter how tired you are? Change becomes good exactly when it creates room for what truly matters to you. Life will always throw struggles your way; that's a given. But change gives you permission to move beyond surviving those storms and start finding good marks along the journey, not just the scars. Better things aren't just a fantasy; they're waiting on the other side of a shift in your mindset and actions. But better requires change. Knowing who you are and becoming who you are means changing the patterns, the routines, and sometimes the people around you. Take a chance on change. The K.I.S.S. ~ Take a chance on change! If you're wondering how to start believing that change is worth taking a chance on, here are three practical moves you can make today: Visualize Your Possible Future: Take five minutes daily to picture the life you want. The clearer the image, the more real it feels. This creates hope and a magnetic pull toward change because your brain starts aligning with what's possible instead of what's comfortable. Make Small Changes, Not Overhauls: Start with one tiny change—a different morning habit, a new way of approaching a task, or a conversation you've been avoiding. Small wins build confidence and prove that change isn't some giant monster but a path forward. Surround Yourself with Evidence: Read stories, listen to podcasts, or connect with people who have successfully changed their lives. Seeing examples of real change helps you believe in the good before you experience it yourself. Change is a good thing. Change is not easy, that's why it scares us and why we hesitate. But it's a good thing when it breaks the cycle of being stuck, when it fills your well with hope instead of tears, when it makes room for the life that only you can create. So, stop running from what frightens you. Take a deep breath, face the unknown, and sprint toward what you really want. Change isn't the enemy. It's the next step to who you're meant to be. Believe it before you see it. Change is a good thing. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellspringWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1904011 It's Never Too LateJust because life is hard doesn't mean you have to give up your smile. No sugarcoating it; you got bills, responsibilities, and all the things you don't want. Hang on! It's never too late to smile more, live with purpose, and truly enjoy the breath of each day. This is a lifeline that you need to grab onto for your tired soul. You might be on spring break right now, but that doesn't mean you are getting the break you need. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com But if your days off look like just more to-do lists or exhaustion disguised in leisure, you're not alone—and more importantly, you're not stuck. Life moves fast. It zips by whether you're ready for it or not. It's a relentless tide pulling you in a million directions at once. Staying afloat can feel impossible, let alone steering the ship. No matter how quickly everything speeds by, it's never too late to grab the wheel and take back control of your focus. Forget the idea that you need a perfect plan or a massive life overhaul to turn things around. Small shifts matter—a genuine smile, setting a clear intention, making room for a moment of peace, or simply deciding that today you're worthy of joy. This is not something that feeds the ego, it's fuels the soul. You don't have to be swimming in the tsunami of emotions. You get to rise above the tide. The K.I.S.S. ~ It's never too late! Maybe you've been running on autopilot, reacting to life instead of directing it. Maybe you feel like you're always behind on "what should be." The reality is that this is your story. Only you hold the pen to write it. The starting line isn't yesterday. It's right now. So what's your move? How will you reclaim the day and the energy that's yours to spend? It's never too late to choose a different rhythm. It's never too late to focus on what matters. It's never too late to give yourself permission to smile through it all. You don't have to wait for the perfect moment or the fairy-tale break. Life will always be hard—but you get to decide exactly how you face it. Start today. Create your now! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1914010 Miles that MatterLife's toughest challenges don't just test your body; they strain your mind. When stress piles up and struggles knock hard, it's easy to cling to what feels safe and familiar. Sometimes that safe place lives right in your own head, in the form of self-talk that keeps you stuck. If you want to walk the miles that matter, the real journey begins inside your mind. Your mindset is the foundation. If your thoughts don't match your goals, your feet will never hit the road that leads to meaningful progress. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Self-talk is not just background noise in your head—it's the steering wheel driving your actions. If your internal dialogue is negative, doubting, or filled with limiting beliefs, it's like driving with the parking brake on. You think you're moving forward, but you're barely gaining traction. Research confirms this hard truth. A 2018 study published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology showed that negative self-talk directly impacts performance and motivation. Participants who engaged in self-critical thoughts before tackling challenges were more likely to quit early and report higher stress levels. The brain takes these messages seriously—they shape not just how you feel but what you're willing to attempt. In other words, your mind believes what it says, and if you tell yourself "I can't," you've already lost half the fight. On the flip side, positive self-talk has been linked to improved resilience, focus, and even physical endurance. According to sports psychology research, athletes who practiced motivational self-talk could push through pain and doubts better than those who didn't. This drives home the power of your internal voice: it's either your quarterback, calling the plays that win the game, or the coach who tells you that you don't belong on the field. From a Biblical perspective, the power of words—especially those from within—is clear and undeniable. Proverbs 23:7 warns us, "For as he thinks in his heart, so is he." This verse acknowledges that your deepest thoughts shape your identity and your outcomes. Likewise, Philippians 4:8 instructs believers to focus their minds on "whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right," pointing to the importance of choosing empowering, constructive thoughts. When your self-talk is toxic, it forms mental barriers disguised as truths, creating a prison you can't see but feel every day. It's why so many people get stuck running in circles—plan after plan with zero progress. These mental roadblocks hold you hostage to fear, doubt, and insecurity. But when you harness self-talk and make it work for you instead of against you, it becomes a launchpad—blasting you through limits and closer to the life you want. "If you want to walk the miles that matter, you must first master the words within your mind." ~ Kristianne Wargo The K.I.S.S. ~ Shift your mindset! Shifting your mindset does not have to be a mystery; it's a choice backed by deliberate action. Here are three no-nonsense ways to rewire your thinking so it works for you, not against you. Catch and Challenge the Lies We all have that inner critic spinning stories about why we can't, won't, or shouldn't. The problem? Most of these stories are total fiction dressed as facts. Your first job is to catch these toxic thoughts as they arise—"I'm not good enough," "This is too hard," "I always fail." Once caught, challenge them. Ask yourself: Is this really true? What evidence do I have that proves otherwise? Replace lies with hard truths about your capability, resilience, and growth potential. Create a Future-Focused Dialogue Your mind can get stuck in past mistakes or current discomfort—both dead ends. Flip the script with future-focused self-talk that speaks directly to the results you want. Instead of "I'm overwhelmed," try "I'm capable of handling one step at a time." Shift from "I've never done this" to "I'm learning and getting better every day." This kind of dialogue rewires your brain to aim for what's next, not what's behind. It tether your mindset to progress, not pain. Anchor Your Mind with Daily Rituals Mindset shifts don't happen overnight—they build with consistent practice. Create daily rituals that prime your brain for success. It could be reading powerful affirmations, journaling your wins and lessons, or visualizing the life you're working toward. These rituals act like miles on a mental odometer, marking steady progress and making your goals feel more real and attainable over time. Without these anchors, it's too easy to slip back into the old, "easy" self-talk that stalls growth. Walking the miles that matter isn't about quick fixes or magic formulas. It's about fighting through the mental resistance that convinces you to give up or settle. It starts with tough conversations with yourself and the willingness to challenge long-held beliefs. Your thoughts decide your steps—so make sure your mindset is strong, clear, and aligned with where you want to go. "Every meaningful mile begins in the mind." ~ Kristianne Wargo "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 1924009 Trust in the LordThere is so much going on nowadays that the only thing we can be confident in is God's love for us. We can't control everything, but we can "Trust in the Lord with all our heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6)" Trust is the one thing that builds our faith. Faith comes by hearing. We walk by faith, not by sight because of the trust we have in Jesus Christ. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com If you are drowning in all the things right now, I want you to hear and know that God loves you! He is with you through thick and thin. You will get through whatever has you staying up late at night, tossing and turning, thinking negative thoughts, or even just feeling blah. The K.I.S.S. ~ Trust in the Lord! God's got you! Always and forever! But you must trust in the Lord. You have got to let go of what you can't control and do with what you can, and trust. Show up so God can show you. He wants to walk with you in your life. So Trust in HIm. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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