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- 2653936 Live Fully AliveOftentimes, we push ourselves at breakneck speed—racing to check boxes, chasing the next big win, believing that if we just move faster, work harder, and try more, success will finally land in our lap. But as John De Paola said, "Slow down, and everything you are chasing will come around and catch you." In a world obsessed with hustle, this is not a call for complacency. It's an invitation to step off the relentless carousel and rediscover the power of intentional living; live fully alive! Too many of us tie ourselves to the chains of past failures, letting every missed shot dictate what we pursue next. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com The misconception is that success hides only in the unexplored, the unfamiliar, and the untried. Ironically, this chase often leaves us exhausted and disillusioned—burnt out by the pace yet no closer to our goals. But what if you gave yourself permission to slow down? What if instead of grinding harder, you paused long enough to take stock? Imagine the freedom to experiment, to win and lose without fear, without letting setbacks define your journey. Imagine clearing the clutter from your mind and heart to see what is truly possible, right here, right now. Create your now! The K.I.S.S. ~ Live fully alive! The start of a new year is the perfect moment for this kind of reset—not by setting rigid rules about what you can't do, but by making space to let go of what hasn't worked and embracing what might. This isn't about less ambition; it's about smarter ambition. It's about trusting that your goals will meet you when you slow down enough to focus, refine, and prepare. You are created for more. Settling for less is a choice, not a destiny. The paradox to all of this: slowing down might be exactly what you need to accelerate your progress. Slow down to speed up. So take a deep breath, clear the noise, and show up for yourself with intention. Everything you're chasing isn't a moving target—it's waiting patiently for you to catch up. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2663935 Winning the Wrong RaceEvery New Year, millions write down the same resolution: lose weight, get healthy, finally take control of their lives. Yet, by spring, those goals often wilt like forgotten gym memberships. Why? Because too often, we're winning the wrong race. Bad habits are the easy path. They require no thought, no discomfort, no extra effort. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com You don't have to wrestle with tough choices or push through resistance. You just do what you've always done — reach for convenience, skip the workout, indulge the craving. And as a result, everything you say you want slips further from reach. That's the wrong race. Racing toward temporary fixes while ignoring what really drives lasting change. Living fully alive isn't about hitting some number on a scale or squeezing into last year's jeans. It demands deliberate, confident decisions and pulling your weight in the long haul. That hard work is exactly where most stumble. Life's daily chaos throws distractions your way, and it's tempting to retreat to what's easy. But what if you could refuse the easy path? What if you could break free from the habitual trap and live fully alive — on your terms? The K.I.S.S. ~ Live fully alive! Ultimately, isn't that what it's all about — feeling fully alive? Because if you continue self-sabotaging your efforts or making excuses for your bad habits, you are going to stay confined within the old habitual habits that cause you to fail more. You can do better!! However, you must make some changes to live fully alive. Here are three moves to reset your race and claim real health beyond the scale: Define health as vitality, not just weight. Stop obsessing about pounds lost or calories burned. Instead, zero in on how you feel: more energy, clearer mind, stronger body, better sleep. When your focus shifts from a number to a state of being, motivation deepens. You want to feel alive, not just lighter. You're gaining what matters and losing what doesn't in the long run. Choose one habit to master before adding more. Trying to overhaul your entire life overnight is a surefire shortcut to burnout. Pick the one habit that will move the needle most — drinking more water, walking 15 minutes a day, cutting out sugary drinks — and nail it with stubborn consistency. Once that becomes automatic, layer the next. Success builds momentum. But remember, success comes in little steps with greater impact. Own your why, daily. Why do you want health? For your kids, your career, your confidence, your future? Keep that reason front and center every single day. When your why is bigger than your cravings or excuses, your hard work feels purposeful instead of painful. Remember, the race you want to win isn't against some external standard or the scale — it's against the old habits that keep you stuck. It's about gaining your health back in a way that sticks. You want the sticky stuff to be the right stuff. The right race demands patience, persistence, and a refusal to settle for "good enough." This year, don't just write down a resolution. Choose to win the right race. Make every choice count toward feeling fully alive, no matter what the scale says. Because now, you're ready to win the right race! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2673934 Quit Waiting for a GuaranteeLife doesn't hand out guarantees. No matter how much you want a smooth ride or a sure win, it simply doesn't work that way. Success, growth, and reaching your goals come from one thing above all else—intention. How you think, decide, and act every single day shapes whether you make it across the finish line. So quit waiting for a guarantee. When you're chasing something brand new—whether it's launching a business, changing careers, or mastering a skill—there's no autopilot. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Waiting for the perfect moment or wishing for a guarantee is a fast track to nowhere. Instead, you have to get sharp and stay intentional. Every thought you entertain, every decision you make, every move you take must be purposeful. This isn't about luck or magic; it's about deliberately building momentum one step at a time. Intentionality is not only about doing the big, sexy moves. It's downright tempting to just focus on the hard stuff, but it's the consistent grind of doing the easy stuff that builds your resilience and drive. Showing up daily and choosing actions that align with your goal—even when motivation dips—is what separates finishers from quitters. The K.I.S.S. ~ Quit waiting for a guarantee! Think of it like building muscle. You don't add pounds overnight; you start with manageable reps and grow stronger over time. Also, your mental strength and determination develop through regular practice of intentionality. This consistent practice trains your mind to keep pushing forward when the path gets rough and the results aren't instant. Quit waiting for a guarantee because there isn't one. Instead, get clear on what you want and commit to being intentional every day. Control your thoughts, make wise choices, and stay relentless in your actions. When setbacks come (and they will), rely on the muscle you built through steady intentionality. Keep going, keep learning, and don't stop doing the easy stuff that builds your foundation. No one crosses the finish line without putting in the work—without being intentional. Your results won't be handed to you. They'll be earned, one deliberate step at a time. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2683933 How Grief Affects Your MindsetGrief isn't just about losing a loved one. It's a full-body, mind-consuming response to any meaningful loss: a job, a home, a relationship, a dream gone sideways. If you don't understand how grief rewires your mindset, it can trap you in a mental box where all you see is what's broken—and how far you are from climbing out of that dark hole. When you understand how grief affects your mindset, you get why you're paralyzed, stuck replaying the what, why, and how over and over, missing the possibility of what's next. So let's get real: grief is brutal, disorienting, and exhausting. Science and psychology confirm that grief triggers massive shifts in our brain chemistry and cognitive patterns, clouding judgment, sapping motivation, and amplifying negative thinking. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Studies show the mind under grief can experience heightened anxiety, trouble focusing, and a pervasive sense of hopelessness. That's why grief can feel like a cage—it hijacks your mental resources, making it nearly impossible to envision a future beyond the loss. But here's the catch: grief is a process, not a permanent state. The depth of the pain doesn't have to define how far you fall or how long you stay down. You can honor the grieving process without letting it swallow you whole. The key is learning how grief shapes your mindset and taking actionable steps to prevent it from overruling your entire life. How Grief Messes with Your Mindset Narrowed Focus on Loss: Your brain gets stuck zooming in on the loss and what you can't change. This tunnel vision blocks out new opportunities and solutions. Slowed Cognitive Processing: The emotional weight distracts your brain's executive function, making decision-making and problem-solving feel overwhelming. Heightened Negative Bias: Your brain goes into a "threat" mode, causing you to focus on risks and downsides rather than potential gains. Erosion of Motivation: Feeling depleted and sad drains your energy to take action or chase goals. Disturbed Sense of Identity: When dreams or roles disappear, you can stumble into an identity crisis, unsure who you are or what you want moving forward. The Hidden Grief Behind Losses Beyond Death Losing a job, relationship, or home can trigger grief just like losing a person. These losses are wrapped in shattered security, unstable plans, and broken trust. Your mind cries out, but often silently, because society tells us to "move on" from these losses faster than grief naturally fades. That denial only deepens the mindset trap. At some point, you need to rise up and prevent grief from hijacking your mindset while still honoring it. The K.I.S.S. ~ Hijack your mindset! 3 Ways to Prevent Grief from Hijacking Your Mindset — While Still Honoring It Set Boundaries with Your Grief: It's okay to feel devastated, but don't let your mind camp out there 24/7. Schedule "grief time" where you allow yourself to feel and process—then shift your focus to small, actionable steps in your day. For example, journal your pain for 20 minutes, then outline one micro-goal you can do right after. Reframe Your Mindset With Empowering Beliefs: Grief feeds on fixed thinking ("I'm broken forever," "Nothing will get better"). Actively challenge those thoughts. Remind yourself, "This is painful, but it is temporary," and, "I am more than my loss." Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) studies show this shifting perspective rewires the brain's response to trauma and loss. Anchor Yourself in Daily Meaningful Action: Moving feet forward counts more than waiting to "feel ready." Consistent small wins—whether a walk, a call to a friend, or starting a creative project—build momentum and counteract paralysis. Movement shakes up the brain's stagnant grief loops, creating room for hope and healing. This Too Shall Pass — But Only If You Move Grief is rarely a straight line, and it will knock you down hard. But lurking in that darkness is the chance to rebuild stronger, wiser, and clearer. You're made for more than surviving loss—you're made for living beyond it. Let your heart have room to mourn. But don't get cozy there. Your dreams deserve air. Your mind deserves freedom. Your future deserves you showing up—ready, restless, and ready to rise. Remember this: grief doesn't own your story. It's just a chapter. And the next chapter is waiting for you to start writing it. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2693932 Stand Firm on God's Holy GroundWalking in step with God is never a passive journey, especially when the world around you seems determined to pull you off course. Jealousy, deceit, and manipulation are real weapons some wield to fracture your spirit and cloud your vision. When hearts turn bitter and minds play cruel games, it's easy to get trapped inside a warped reality that feels impossible to escape. So how do you hold your ground in these moments? How do you fight this spiritual battle without losing your soul? Stand firm on God's Holy ground. You must begin to recognize the battlefield beyond the visible, only what you can see. And then understand that the conflict isn't just earthly—it's spiritual. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Ephesians 6:12 warns us, "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places." When people lash out, driven by jealousy or their own brokenness, they're often unwitting instruments of a deeper darkness. Your fight isn't against them personally but against the evil trying to undermine your faith and purpose. Cling to God's Truth, Not Their Lies It's tempting to absorb every whisper, every shadow of doubt they cast on your character or calling. But remember Jesus' words in John 8:32, "You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." The truth isn't shaped by gossip, envy, or manipulation—it's rooted in God's word and your identity as His child. When the world distorts reality, anchor yourself in scripture. David's story shows us how to respond. Saul's jealousy reached dangerous heights; he hunted David relentlessly, though David was innocent and chosen by God to be king (1 Samuel 18-26). Yet David didn't retaliate with bitterness or deceit. Instead, he trusted God, avoided unnecessary conflict, and waited for God's timing. His heart remained pure through prayer and reliance on God's justice, not man's. The K.I.S.S. ~ Stand firm on God's Holy ground! Guard Your Heart, But Don't Harden It Proverbs 4:23 says, "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." Protecting your spirit means you don't absorb or reflect the toxic attitudes around you. Yet guarding doesn't mean closing off. It means staying tender to God's leading while discerning who and what you let influence your mindset. When Jesus faced false accusations and betrayal, He didn't respond with violence or bitterness; He showed grace and kept His mission clear (Luke 23:34). That doesn't mean you tolerate abuse or manipulation, but that you maintain your own integrity and compassion even when attacked. Pray for those who seek to derail you—that's your power move. Fight With Weapons God Gives You Paul instructs believers in Ephesians 6 to take up the full armor of God: truth, righteousness, peace, faith, salvation, and the word of God. These aren't metaphorical niceties—they're your spiritual tools for standing firm. When your environment is hostile, saturate yourself in prayer, scripture, and the fellowship of believers who reinforce your faith. James 4:7 says, "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." Resist deception and discouragement by submitting fully to God's guidance. Remember that spiritual battles are won in moments of surrender, not struggle. Remember Your Identity and God's Purpose The pain inflicted by others can make you question your worth or mission. But God's plan is bigger than their interference. Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Holding on to that promise gives perspective beyond the current storm. Jesus warned, "In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world" (John 16:33). When you walk with Him, you walk as a conqueror, not a victim. Your Next Step Don't let the jealousy and confusion around you steal your momentum or your peace. Stand firm by anchoring deeply in God's word, guarding your heart without bitterness, and wielding His armor daily. The spiritual battle is tough and often invisible, but your victory is assured when you refuse to be derailed by people's faults and choose God's path instead. You're not alone in this fight—God goes before you. His light pierces the darkest schemes. Keep walking, keep trusting, and keep your eyes on Him. That's how you win. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2703931 Dream Bigger TogetherThe new year brings that electric buzz of new beginnings and fresh possibilities. When you're married to your person—the one you dream about and build life with—it only makes sense to dream bigger together. Because, really, who wouldn't want a richer, more exciting life for themselves and their spouse? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com But here's the truth: It's easy to fall into the trap of "we've always done it this way." And sure—that's comfortable. Maybe even safe. But if you want to go beyond the status quo, if you want more out of this life you're building together, those same old dreams won't get you there. So why not dream bigger as a team? Simply put—you're better together. Let's stop letting the new year's magnificent magic slip through the cracks. Aim higher. Dream wider. Shoot for something you've never gone after before. When married partners dream big and are in sync, everything changes. The energy shifts. You create momentum that neither of you could have mustered alone. It's the time to create your now and dream bigger together! The K.I.S.S. ~ Dream bigger together! And that means you are doing it together!! It might sound weird to say that, but when all you do is what you've done, you must be intentional about what needs to change in how you live your life together. And that's the key: living life together! You cannot dream the life you want to live if you don't do it together; otherwise, it's only your dream. Here are 3 powerful moves you can make right now to dream bigger together—and make this new year your best yet: 1. Share Your Wildest Dreams Out Loud (No Judgment Allowed) Forget what's reasonable for a moment. What would you dream if you knew you couldn't fail? Drop the sensible, practical masks and get real. Then share those dreams with your spouse—no criticism, no shutting down, only curiosity and encouragement. When you put your dreams into words, they become real. And when you lay them side-by-side, you'll find common ground, overlap, and unexpected new ideas. This raw honesty builds connection and opens the door to bigger possibilities. 2. Pick One Bold Goal To Chase as a Team It's tempting to try to tackle 10 things at once, but dreams expand way faster when you focus. So get laser-focused. Agree on one big goal that excites both of you—something that lights a fire in your hearts and pushes your limits. Whether it's saving for a dream home, starting a business, or training for a marathon—having a shared target aligns your efforts and energy, fuels daily action, and keeps you accountable to each other. This is when dreams become your reality. 3. Create a Dream Ritual to Keep the Momentum Dreams don't turn into reality by accident. They need regular attention. Set a monthly or quarterly "dream date" where you review your progress, celebrate wins, adjust goals, and dream even bigger. This ritual keeps your partnership sharp and motivated. It makes dreaming a constant priority, not just a New Year's resolution that fades by February, or earlier. The big secret? Your marriage isn't what holds back your dreams—it's the very thing that can launch them into orbit. When you dream bigger together, you don't just add value to your marriage—you multiply your chances of living a life most only wish for. So, no more solo resolutions. No more settling for "good enough." This year, make a pact with your spouse: To dream big. To support each other relentlessly. To chase something worth getting up for every day. Because your biggest, boldest dreams are always done better together. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2713930 Intentional Parenting that Moves MountainsEvery new year brings a fresh chance to hit the reset button — including how you show up as a parent. But let's be real: parenting is hard, exhausting, and often thankless. If you coast through it, thinking your kids will "figure it out," you're setting everyone up for frustration and chaos. Kids need more than just food and shelter; they need consistent guidance, love, and boundaries; it's intentional parenting that moves mountains. Because when you slack off, what you get is exactly what you put in — kids who push limits, test boundaries, and fill the void left by absent parenting. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com It's easy to slip into complacency. Maybe it's been a long day, or your schedule feels relentless. Maybe you convince yourself that letting kids "run free" is healthy or that they just need space to express themselves. But here's the truth: unchecked freedom without clear limits is a breeding ground for problems. It's not love or respect to let them run wild; it's neglect disguised as kindness. Parenting with intention doesn't mean you have to be perfect or never tired. It means showing up consistently with unconditional love, firm boundaries, attentive teaching, and yes, forgiveness when mistakes happen — for both them and yourself. The K.I.S.S. ~ Parent intentionally! So if you want your kids to grow into adults who impact the world in a meaningful way, here are three no-excuses moves every parent can make — even on the rough days: Set Clear Boundaries and Follow Through Boundaries aren't about control; they're about safety and structure. When kids know the line and see you consistently enforce it, they gain a sense of security and learn responsibility. Maybe it's screen time limits, chores, or manners at the dinner table — whatever it is, be firm, clear, and consistent. If you say no, mean no. When boundaries are shaky, so is their confidence and respect for rules. Invest Daily Time to Teach and Connect Quality time isn't just about being in the same room. It's about focused, intentional moments. You don't need an hour; ten minutes of undivided attention can change the day. Teach them something — how to tie a shoe, handle frustration, or make wise choices. Ask open questions and listen. This is how you build trust and teach life skills that stick long after childhood. Forgive Fast — But Don't Excuse Bad Behavior Mistakes will happen. You will slip up, and so will your kids. When they mess up, hold them accountable—but always with grace. A parent who forgives and follows through teaches resilience and humility. And don't forget to forgive yourself. Parenting fatigue is real; but giving yourself grace means you'll show up stronger tomorrow. At the end of the day, the energy and effort you pour into your parenting show up in your child's character and the living legacy they create. Lazy parenting might look easier now, but it costs far more in the long run — as you trade real influence for temporary peace. This new year, commit to the hard stuff. Show up. Set limits. Connect. Forgive. Because what you put in now is what you — and your child — will get out forever. No shortcuts, no excuses. Just real, intentional parenting that moves mountains. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2723929 The Best Is Yet To ComeThe first day of a new year holds something rare—a stillness amid the noise, a quiet space where hope and possibility stretch out like an open road. It's a day wrapped in excitement but tinged with uncertainty. The unknowns can flip the script, spin your stomach, and test your courage. But here's the beautiful, unshakable truth: The best is yet to come. You might hear this phrase a ton. But it's not just a feel-good phrase. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com It's a call to show up with presence, grace, and fierce faith. Presence grounds you in the here and now, turning every moment—whether filled with calm or chaos—into a stepping stone toward what's next. Grace reminds you that you don't have to have it all figured out. You don't have to be perfect. You just have to be willing. The New Year invites you to quiet reflection, pure clarity, and resilience. It demands determination rooted in a deep knowing that nothing is impossible when God's divine plan is at work. That plan moves through you—but only if you're willing to answer the call. "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." ~ Jeremiah 29:11 The K.I.S.S. ~ The best is yet to come! This means showing up daily. Putting in the time. Doing the work you were created for. The breakthroughs, the progress, the miracles—they're waiting on the other side of your commitment. But don't rush. Rest now. Rejuvenate. Let your soul catch its breath. Today, at this precise moment, marks the beginning of the trip of a lifetime—one that leads to all the things that matter most. So, take this day as a gift. Lean into the presence you carry. Let grace guide your steps forward. Your best isn't behind you. It's proudly standing just ahead, ready for you to claim it. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo From my family to yours - Have a healthy, blessed, and healthy new year!! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #HappyNewYear 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2733928 What If Forward Progress Requires Forgiveness?Every New Year arrives heavy with promises! However, let's be honest, you've gotta fair share of frustration, too. For millions, those well-meaning resolutions quickly unravel, leaving behind guilt and the familiar cycle of "I failed again." But the harsh truth is that pushing yourself to "fix" every flaw with iron willpower only sets up a battle you can't win long-term. So what if forward progress requires forgiveness in your healthy living? Well-being doesn't emerge from beating yourself into a different person. Yet all too often, that's exactly the approach New Year's resolutions demand: a hard reset, a checklist of drastic changes. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com This approach misses a vital element—what if forward progress actually requires forgiveness? Forgiveness breaks the cycle of self-sabotage. It shifts the narrative from enemy territory—where you fight against yourself—to a place of internal kindness and trust. It's not about excuse-making; it's about opening the door to real possibility by becoming your own ally. "When you forgive the stumbles, you make space for momentum to grow rather than crumble under the weight of shame." ~ Kristianne Wargo Here's a better way forward rooted in compassion and consistency: The K.I.S.S. ~ Root yourself in compassion and consistency! Here's a better way forward rooted in compassion and consistency: Commit to small, sustainable habits. Forget drastic leaps. Pick tiny, daily actions you can maintain—a glass of water first thing, a 5-minute stretch, a mindful breath. These wins build quietly but powerfully. Build your tribe. Accountability isn't punishment; it's connection. Find a friend, coach, or community to walk beside you—someone who holds you accountable with encouragement, not judgment. Give yourself grace for setbacks. Slips aren't failure; they're proof you're trying. Forgiving yourself means facing the pause, learning what pushed you off track, and gently choosing to carry forward. Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us: "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Your wellness journey is part of that plan, designed not for perfection but for thriving. Take Sammie's example. Years of broken resolutions crushed her optimism until she embraced small habits—daily walks and nightly healthy snacks—and invited a friend into her journey. When setbacks hit, she forgave herself instead of spiraling. The result? Energy returned, joy resurfaced, and progress stuck. "Wellness needs to be sticky for transformation to occur." ~ Kristianne Wargo Wellness isn't about becoming someone else overnight. It's about loving who you are becoming—mind, body, and spirit—through discipline tempered by forgiveness. So here's the question you can't dodge: What bold, forgiving step will you take today to honor your whole self? Make it real. Make it consistent. Make it yours. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2743927 Get Back Up!You're probably all too familiar with the grinding season—the one where your to-do list feels like Mount Everest, your energy dips, and then the holidays roll in like a relentless tide. It's the time when surviving feels like a win. But what if you didn't just survive? What if you conquered this season with your heart still beating loud and your goals clearly in view? Get back up! Here's the truth: heart and hustle aren't enemies of your well-being; they're the secret weapons for a life that's full without breaking you. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Your heart keeps you connected to what matters, and your hustle pushes you forward when the world demands more. Zig Ziglar said it so well, "People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing—that's why we recommend it daily." "Motivation alone won't carry you. You need heart—purpose rooted deep—and the relentless hustle that refuses to quit, day after day." ~ Kristianne Wargo The K.I.S.S. ~ Get back up! But even the fiercest heart and the strongest hustle can wear thin without something greater holding you steady. That's where faith steps in. Max Lucado reminds us that God's presence isn't a distant idea but a living, breathing strength in our weakness. Isaiah 40:31 says it plainly: "Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary; they will walk and not be faint." This isn't just a blanket to make you feel calm, cozy, and comfortable. It's an unshakable promise. Let me wrap this up with a story. A woman I know was overwhelmed to the point of collapse during a busy holiday season—family needs, work pressures, personal goals slipping away. One evening, exhausted and ready to quit, she closed her eyes and whispered a prayer for strength. The next morning, she got back up, not because the stress vanished, but because she remembered her purpose and felt the quiet assurance of something bigger than herself. She didn't just get through the holidays; she showed up fully alive, every step fueled by heart and hustle, carried by faith. "Every step you take is fueled by heart and hustle, and carried by faith. One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo This season, don't settle for survival. You are made for more. You're meant to conquer with spirit intact and eyes locked on your dreams. When you fall, get back up. And keep soaring. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2753926 How to Honor Your Past and Prepare for the PresentEvery December, most of us find ourselves trapped in the chaos—exhausted, overwhelmed, and haunted by a list of unfinished goals. This is the time for closing the chapter: how to honor your past and prepare for the present. Our minds scramble through the mess of failures and successes alike, begging for answers that never seem to come. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com But here's the truth: fear does not have to freeze you in place. You were created to move forward, to step boldly into what's next. The power lies in embracing the new while intentionally saying goodbye to the old. What did this past year look like for you? Be honest. What were those wins and losses? A football team cannot get better from one game to the next, unless they reflect on the plays that worked, and the plays that failed. Reflect on the wins that showed your strength and the losses that taught you where to grow and where you need to be stretched. It's not about perfection—it's about clarity. The K.I.S.S. ~ Clarify to see straight! Here are three ways to prepare for the new year while honoring the year behind you: Review and Release: Take stock of what no longer serves you. Let go without guilt or judgment. Holding onto what's finished only weighs down your future. Anchor Your Lessons: Identify the key insights from your experiences—both good and bad—and figure out how to apply them now. Lessons are only valuable when they change your direction. Set Intentional Priorities: Choose a small number of meaningful, manageable goals that align with who you want to be. Focus your energy where it will count most. Don't get stuck fretting over what's behind you. Instead, apply the wisdom it offers to your present and future. You were created for more than repeating last year's story. Every new year can be better—but it depends on one thing: your mindset. Choose to close this chapter well. Choose to open the next one with hope and determination. The best is yet to come. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2763925 Anchor Your Joy in What LastsAs the final Sunday of the year fades into twilight, it carries with it a weight that feels heavy for many—a mix of reflection, regret, relief, and even anticipation. Life never promised a smooth journey. Each year comes with its own share of battles, setbacks, and moments when the road feels unbearably steep. But struggles don't have the final say on your joy or hope. Anchor your joy in what lasts. Far too often, we let our circumstances dictate how we feel—a volatile foundation for anything lasting. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Feelings come and go like passing seasons, but joy and hope that endure aren't hinged on the calendar flipping or circumstances changing. They are rooted much deeper and come from a source steadfast and unshakeable. The Apostle Paul reminds us in Philippians 4:4-7 to "Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." That peace is not a fleeting emotion or a wishful thought. It's a promise sustained by a love that never wavers, a hope anchored outside of time and circumstance. The K.I.S.S. ~ Anchor your joy in what lasts! As you face this turning point, remember: the end of the year is not a full stop; it's a comma in your story. It's a chance to close one chapter while opening another. Jeremiah 29:11 offers a beacon when uncertainty looms: "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." No matter how hard this year may have been—no matter what losses or disappointments it carried—the horizon still holds adventures not yet imagined, victories waiting to be claimed, and joys ready to take root in your heart. Prepare your heart for this new season. Let go of what drags you down, and hold tight to the truth that your worth and hope aren't tethered to your circumstances but to the One who holds tomorrow. Stand firm in that hope. Step forward with courage. Because the best isn't behind you—it's just around the corner. The new year is a gift, wrapped not only in possibility but in the unchanging grace that lights your way. So as you worship and reflect on this last Sunday of the old year, embrace the promise that whatever is ahead, you are not alone—and you are poised to live it fully, joyfully, and with hope that will not quit. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2773924 Reflect, Reconnect, and Reignite Your MarriageThe end of the year is more than just a calendar checkpoint. It's an invitation for you to pause and take stock of your journey together; how to reflect, reconnect, and reignite your marriage. After years of shared experiences, it's easy to let presence slip through the cracks, assuming love just happens. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com The truth is, unconditional love doesn't appear by accident. It demands intentional reflection, connection, and the willingness to serve each other daily. Take this moment to look back—not to assign blame or dwell on what went wrong—but to honestly celebrate what worked and learn from the challenges. This is your opportunity to renew the foundation of your marriage with peaceful reflection and deliberate action. The K.I.S.S. ~ Renew the foundation of your marriage! Here are three practical ways to close the year strong: Create a "Marriage Highlights" Journal Together, write down moments that stood out—both struggles you overcame and celebrations you shared. Revisiting these memories makes presence tangible and reminds you how far you've come, what has changed, and what is possible. Share Appreciations Daily Make gratitude the fuel for your connection. Speak aloud what you value in your partner, even the small, everyday things that often go unnoticed. Plan a Cozy "Year-in-Review" Date Set aside uninterrupted time, a quiet evening, or a weekend morning to discuss your reflections and hopes for the coming year. Use this space to listen and recommit to showing up for each other with intentional love. Your marriage is a work in progress—a living story that grows richer through presence, perseverance, and sacrifice. Closing the year strong isn't about perfection; it's about choosing presence over complacency and pushing forward with a heart ready to serve and love. Intentional love takes work, but it's the strongest gift you can give each other as you step into a new year together. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2783923 Christmas is Over—Now What?Christmas has come and gone. The lights are turned off, the wrapping paper has been tossed, and the house finally breathes again. Christmas is over—now what? Yet, the heart of the season—the faith, the gratitude, the connection—doesn't have to fade with the decorations. This is the perfect time to pause and reflect on the moments that really mattered. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com What surprised you about your family's heart this Christmas? Was there a new spark of gratitude? A fresh sense of wonder? Maybe a quiet moment when faith felt real in the everyday busyness? Hold onto those moments. They are the seeds for your family's faith in the year ahead. The K.I.S.S. ~ Carry Christmas with you every day! Now, take that reflection and ask yourself: What are one or two small, faith-centered goals you can set for your family? Maybe it's a simple weekly prayer time, A nightly bedtime story about God's promises, Or carving out space to talk honestly about faith and feelings. Remember, this isn't about pressure—it's about progress. Faith grows in everyday steps, not giant leaps. Choose what feels doable, and watch as those little habits shape a year filled with more meaning and connection. You're not just moving past Christmas, boxing it all up only to wait another year. You are carrying the heart of Christmas into each new day. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2793922 God's Presence Among UsEvery so often, a story comes along that changes everything—then turns right around and changes your life. The birth of Jesus is one of those stories. But far from being a quaint holiday tradition or a distant fairy tale, this is the moment God interrupted history to say, "I'm with you." For centuries, prophets declared this truth. Now, it's no longer about pages of ancient text—it's about the real, raw presence of God in your life today; God's presence among us. This isn't a story you watch from the sidelines. It's an invitation to step into the heart of a divine plan that includes you. The story of Jesus' birth isn't just a cozy holiday scene or a fairy tale—it is history written in prophecy centuries before it came to pass. Isaiah spoke over 7 centuries before Jesus was born: "The people walking in darkness have seen a great light" (Isaiah 9:2). God was announcing a hope deep in the world's shadow, a light no darkness can overcome. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Isaiah didn't stop there. He foretold the miraculous sign: "The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel" — which means "God with us" (Isaiah 7:14). Micah pinpointed the place: a humble town called Bethlehem, "whose origins are from of old, from ancient times" (Micah 5:2). The birthplace of the King who rewrites history. This story carries immense significance—and it now includes you. For you to be you, you're a miracle. A 1 in 400,000,000,000,000 miracle. This is the odds that you even exist. But you do because God is writing the story. God isn't an untouchable deity watching as a spectator. He is the Creator who chose to enter our messy world as a vulnerable infant, born among shepherds and outsiders in a barn. This wasn't just an event at a moment in history. It is God stepping directly into human chaos, pain, and hope. The K.I.S.S. ~ God's presence among us! Too often, we treat this as a story to admire from afar—too miraculous, too good to be real. But what if it's not? What if this tiny babe actually is the Savior come to stand with you? To be Immanuel—God with us—not just then, but now. LUKE 2:1-20 2 In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. 2 (This was the first census that took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria.) 3 And everyone went to their own town to register. 4 So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. 5 He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. 6 While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, 7 and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them. 8 And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. 9 An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. 11 Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. 12 This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger." 13 Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, 14 "Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests." 15 When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, "Let's go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about." 16 So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. 17 When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, 18 and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. 19 But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. 20 The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told. Every day, life throws fear, loneliness, and doubts our way. Yet Advent invites us to live knowing God's presence is not distant but immediate. This truth demands everything from us: surrender fear for trust, despair for hope, apathy for bold action. This Christmas, don't just admire the nativity scene. Step into the story God is still writing. Let that presence close the gap between your doubts and faith. Walk forward with the undeniable truth: you are not alone—God is with you. That's not nostalgia. That's a declaration. God is writing this story—and you are in it. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #MerryChristmas 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. 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- 2803921 A Sacred StillnessChristmas Eve. For many, it's the crescendo of the holiday whirlwind—the last-minute preparations, wrapping, cooking, and hosting. But it doesn't have to be that way, not when you have a sacred stillness. Amid the busyness, Christmas Eve offers a sacred invitation: to pause, to be still, to receive rest and renewal. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Psalm 46:10 reminds us, "Be still, and know that I am God." At what point are you going to release your anxious grip on the season's frenzy and rest in something bigger? Think about the Christmas story itself. Jesus was born quietly, resting in a manger, embraced by peace at just the right time. That's a sacred stillness that can stir your heart for life. The K.I.S.S. ~ A sacred stillness! What if this Christmas Eve, instead of adding to your checklists, you created a new ritual grounded in stillness and gratitude? Light a candle. Share stories with loved ones. Pray or meditate in silence. "This Christmas, let presence replace pressure." ~ Kristianne Wargo Give yourself the gift of rest and renewal. Let Christmas Eve be your sanctuary from the storm—a moment to breathe, appreciate, and embrace the true spirit of the season. A Gift for You on Christmas Eve by Kristianne Wargo You, who carry all the lists, The plates, the plans, the endless gifts— Who paints the smiles on every face, While your own heart quickens its pace. Tonight, the world will spin and race, But here's a quiet, sacred place: A candle's glow, a whispered prayer, A moment caught between the care. Be still. Release the toils, the hurry, The fevered wrap, the tired scurry. This night was made for peaceful rest, For weary souls to be refreshed. Remember how the story goes— No trumpet blares, no rush or shows— A newborn wrapped in humble grace, Resting in a quiet space. So lay your burdens gently down, Let silence be your Christmas crown. In stillness find your heart's delight, And hold this calm through Christmas night. Give yourself the gift you crave: Presence, peace, your soul to save. Tonight, you're more than all you do — This Christmas Eve is just for you. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2813920 Find Joy When Life Feels MessyChristmas Eve is nearly here, and for many of us, the holiday season carries a mixed bag of emotions. The bright lights and festive songs promise joy, but behind the scenes, life might feel messy, exhausting, and overwhelming. When weariness weighs down your mind, body, and spirit, it's natural to default to the easiest option—often kind of numb survival that distances you from what really matters. Yet, you can still find joy when life feels messy. You get out of life what you put into it. When you choose to lean into the beauty amid the chaos, you reclaim the heart of Christmas—the reason for the season itself. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com The Bible reminds us in Galatians 6:9, "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." That "harvest" is the joy and peace that come from holding steady through life's storms. But what if you're too tired to keep going? What if the mess is drowning out the music and dimming the lights? It's okay to acknowledge that struggle. Faith isn't about perfection or having it all together. It's about choosing to see the blessings even when life's mess tries to convince you otherwise. Psalm 34:18 offers this comfort: "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." You don't have to buy into the chaos. The mess is real, but it's not the whole story. The heart of Christmas is about hope, love, and a promise made thousands of years ago—a promise that life can be renewed, that light can break through darkness. The K.I.S.S. ~ Find joy when life feels messy! Remember the story of Jesus's birth. It unfolded not in a palace but in a humble stable, surrounded by the noise and disorder of everyday life. Even there, in the middle of the mess, God's greatest gift was given. That's not a coincidence. It shows us that joy is possible no matter the circumstances. If you're struggling this season, consider this your invitation to be a living legacy, to breathe hope into your days. Romans 15:13 says, "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." It may feel hard to believe right now, but joy is not reserved for perfect moments. It's for the tired, the worn-out, the overwhelmed. It is there waiting to be claimed. So this Christmas Eve, as the world rushes and your energy wanes, choose to fix your eyes on the blessings rather than the mess. Celebrate the small victories: a kind word, a shared smile, a moment of peace. The season isn't just about decorations or presents—it's a chance to step into the enduring joy that outshines any difficulty. Your effort to embrace this season's true meaning is the seed you plant now for a harvest of lasting hope. You've got what it takes to carry that light this year and into the new year. The mess might be loud, but your joy can be louder. Keep going. The best is yet to come. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2823919 How to See Straight When the World is SpinningThe holiday season should bring joy and meaning. Yet, all too often, it feels like the world is spinning faster than ever. Sometimes it's hard knowing how to see straight when the world is spinning. That's where the pressures are mounting, events piling up, and endless distractions keep pulling your attention every which way. A spinning top is a real thing, even if you don't want to admit it. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com When everything around you is out of control, how do you stay grounded in what matters? How do you still make an impact, even in the chaos? Here's the truth: You don't have to lose who you are this Christmas just because the world feels wild. Impact isn't about changing the whole planet in one swipe. It's about doing what matters most in the circles you touch — your family, friends, neighbors, church, colleagues, and community. You are meant for more. But you must be willing to find harmony in the spinning. The K.I.S.S. ~ Find harmony in the spinning! The craziness and chaos do not stop just because you wish them to. It requires you to find a way to slow down so you spin your wheels less. Here are three powerful ways to see straight when the world feels dizzy—and to let your light shine steadily, no matter the season. 1. Take Control of Your Mindset, Even if You Can't Control the World Chaos and noise outside don't have to dictate your inner world. You always control your attitude and your choices—those are your real superpowers. Paul nailed it in Philippians 4:8: "Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things." Make your mind a fortress of hope and gratitude, especially when everything seems upside down. Example: Start each morning by listing three things you're grateful for. This simple act re-centers your focus and sets the tone for the day, no matter how out of control the world gets. 2. Simplify Your Holidays to Highlight What Truly Matters The holidays don't need to be a never-ending checklist of parties, gifts, and stress. Too often, we lose sight of the core of the season: connection, generosity, and reflection. What feeds your soul? You don't want to leave out the most important things. So stop overlooking what you value during this holiday season. Put what feeds your soul at the top of the list. The rest? Cut loose. Example: Pick two or three traditions that bring real joy and let the rest go. Maybe it's a quiet family dinner, a volunteer day, singing Christmas carols, reading the Bible, or just giving yourself time to unplug. When you strip away the excess, the good stuff shines brighter. 3. Make Small Acts of Love Your Holiday Impact You don't have to fix the vast swirling problems of the world. What matters is the difference you make right where you are—with small, intentional acts that ripple outward. Mother Teresa said it best: "Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love." This season, your impact is in those small moments. Example: Write a sincere note to someone who needs encouragement, donate winter clothes, or listen attentively. These simple acts keep you connected to the purpose and spread light when everything else feels dark. Remember: You're not powerless because the world spins wildly. You see straight when you take charge of your mindset, refuse to be distracted from what counts, and show up with love in your corner of the world. Isaiah 40:31 reminds us, "But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint." Patience, faith, and focused action will keep you steady when the world tries to pull you under. This Christmas, impact starts with you. Not because you control everything, but because you control the difference you choose to make. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2833918 Love—The Greatest GiftLove is the word that's everywhere at Christmas, wrapped in songs and shiny cards, but too often it feels like a hollow echo. What if this love isn't just a sweet feeling or a seasonal mood? What if real love is the boldest, most demanding choice you make—one that shakes your world and changes everything? Get ready to feel that kind of love, the kind that moves, sacrifices, and breaks every boundary in its path; love—the greatest gift. John 3:16 says, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com This is love in action—God giving what mattered most, stepping into the messy human history vulnerable and exposed. That's the real deal. Remember the story of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37). Love isn't about just feeling sorry or saying nice words. It's about choosing to act—even when it's inconvenient or uncomfortable. Loving others means breaking down walls, crossing social boundaries, and showing compassion where it's least expected. God gave you and me the greatest gift, LOVE!! The K.I.S.S. ~ Love—the greatest gift! Love won't always feel good or easy, but it's the choice that will change your relationships, your community, and in time, your world. This Advent, don't settle for a love that's just background noise. Step into the love that moves, acts, and sacrifices — just like God showed us, and continues to show us every single day. When you begin to question, 'Where is God?' and 'Does God really love me?' — Go back to where it all began. Remind yourself of the sacrifices and deliberate actions God made, the gift He gave, and the God winks that are around you every day. Love is a daily challenge for all of us, yet it's the greatest gift you can give and receive. When you lead with love, you live out the heart of Christmas every day. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2843917 Falling In Love All Over AgainThe holidays can be a spinning mess. One moment, you're sipping hot cocoa, planning festive fun, and feeling optimistic that everything will go smoothly. Next, you're in the middle of a heated argument, wondering how two people who share the same space can feel so disconnected. It's this familiar trap amidst the chaos of Christmas where it's easy to lose sight of what truly matters. For couples, remembering the real meaning of the season is more than a challenge; it's a chance for renewal and falling in love all over again. Christmas often brings out the best and the worst in relationships. It's a mirror reflecting both your deepest hopes and your rawest frustrations. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com The pressure to "make it perfect" can trigger disappointments, and the pile-up of tasks leaves little room for patience. Add busy family schedules, travel stress, and well-meaning but intrusive advice from relatives, and it's no surprise couples sometimes reach their breaking point. But it doesn't have to be that way. Christmas is more than gifts and glitter; it's an opportunity to root your marriage in grace and a deeper love that withstands storms. It's a chance to reboot your connection—to fall in love all over again by focusing on what really counts: kindness, presence, and intentionality. Love isn't found in grand gestures alone. It's found in the small, daily choices to be kind, to listen, and to nurture one another. It's about making the space to truly see your partner beneath the noise of the holidays. When couples remember this, the season shifts from a source of stress to a wellspring of hope. The K.I.S.S. ~ Shift your season by connecting! Here's how you can deepen your connection during this busy season—and beyond. 1. Choose Grace Over Grievance "The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love." —Psalm 103:8 In the frenzy of the holidays, imperfections become magnified. Your partner forgets to pick up a gift Tension mounts over family logistics Frustration bubbles under the surface But falling in love again starts with choosing grace instead of grudges. Remember, grace isn't ignoring problems; it's opening space for healing. When tempers flare, pause and breathe. Instead of escalating conflict, say to yourself: "I'm choosing love over being right." An original truth to hold on to: Love grows when we give it the room to breathe, not the weight to suffocate. Extend forgiveness freely—because holding on to small hurts only sinks the connection. 2. Create Meaningful Moments Amid the Madness "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up." —Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 Connection isn't just about big displays; it's built on small actions. Whether wrapped up in holiday errands or catching the end of a Christmas movie, these little moments create "sticky" bonds that glue hearts together. Think beyond gifts: Share a quiet walk after decorating Cook a meal together Write down what you appreciate about each other. These acts signal, "You matter to me," stronger than the most expensive present. As I often say, "Life gets messy, but love is built in the moments you're both fully present—even if it's just for five minutes." Seek those pockets of genuine connection every day. 3. Speak Words That Nurture and Build "Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones." —Proverbs 16:24 Words carry enormous power in relationships, especially during stressful seasons. It's easy to default to criticism or complaints. But what if you flipped the script? What if your words became the bridge, not the wedge? Make a habit of sincere compliments, encouragement, and affirmations. Tell your partner what you love about them, what you notice they do, and how they make your life better. Speak life into your marriage. "Your voice can either deepen love or drain it—choose to speak as if your words water a garden." ~ Kristianne Wargo "Whether you're together in the same room or miles apart this Christmas, opportunities to love are woven into your daily actions." ~ Kristianne Wargo Those connections, small yet profound, make life sticky. And a sticky marriage is one that lasts. So this season, leave behind the holiday chaos as an excuse. Instead, let Christmas be the season you fall in love all over again—rooting your marriage not in perfection, but in grace, presence, and heartfelt words. That's the best kind of gift there is. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2853916 It's the Christmas Countdown!With the complexities of the holidays, families are caught in the whirlwind of the kids bursting with excitement, the house in a constant uproar, and the clock that keeps ticking down. It's the Christmas countdown! So don't lose sight of the heart of the season. Now, if we do, the heart of the season will get shoved aside because you're too busy. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Christmas demands your attention; it deserves your family's focus. And the good news? You don't need elaborate plans or perfect Instagram- or Facebook-worthy reels. What you need are intentional, standout traditions that pause the chaos and plant the real meaning of Christmas deep in your family's heart. The K.I.S.S. ~ Plant the real meaning of Christmas! It matters! So don't hold back when you think about traditions or experiences during the holidays. Secure your indescribable moments with actions. Here are three unique, extraordinary things your family can do during this final stretch—the kind of moments no one forgets and keeps the reason for Christmas front and center: 1. The "Gift of Gratitude" Jar Most families do an Advent calendar or a countdown chain. Here's a twist: start a "Gift of Gratitude" jar. Each day, every family member writes down one thing they're deeply thankful for or one way they see God's love at work. Drop it in the jar. On Christmas Eve, gather around and read these out loud. It's raw, it's real, and it redirects everyone's hearts away from the frenzy to the blessings they already have. 2. Create a Living Nativity Family-Style Forget a generic Christmas pageant. Make your home the stage. On one evening, gather as a family, assign roles, and act out the nativity story with a creative twist—improvise, use household items as costumes or props, make it fun and memorable. Not only does this bring the story alive in a fresh way, but the laughter and teamwork make the true meaning stick firmly in your family's minds and hearts. 3. The Midnight "Light and Hope" Walk When the house finally quiets and the world outside feels still, take a simple walk together under the stars. Bring flashlights. Talk about how Jesus is the light shining in the darkness. Let each kid say one hope they have this Christmas—for themselves, the family, or the world. This moment of quiet reflection cracks open space for peace amid the chaos—and builds a memory that will shine long after the holiday rush. The Christmas countdown isn't about rushing through; it's a call to pause to make the season matter. Don't treat these like just activities. They're heart-work. Seeds of faith and focus that outlive the wrapping paper and glitter. So amid the whirlwind, don't just survive—be bold and create your now; those moments that anchor your family in the true, beautiful reason of Christmas. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2863915 Oh, Sugar Cookies—Presence over Presents!The holidays have a way of whipping us into a frenzy. Heartbeat racing, lists in hand, and Google tabs open on every store from here to the North Pole, chasing that ONE perfect gift. The one that will say, "You matter," "I love you," and "This year will be the best ever." Only to find it's backordered, out of stock, or mysteriously vanished from every website. Oh, sugar cookies—presence over presents! We scramble to fix what feels broken but miss what's already whole. The real gift this holiday season isn't wrapped and tied with a bow. It's your presence. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Yes, you showing up. Sitting down. Laughing, listening, and simply being there—with no agenda to perfect the moment or achieve Pinterest-worthy magic. "Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also," says Matthew 6:21. It's a simple but profound reminder that what we invest our time and energy in is what truly counts. Worrying over getting the perfect present often steals us from what really matters—unwrapping moments with those who love us, messy and real. Remember the timeless holiday classic, "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas"? It's not about the gifts but the warm presence of loved ones. The song urges us, "Through the years we all will be together if the fates allow." It tells us presence sustains joy beyond any fleeting object. The K.I.S.S. ~ Oh, sugar cookies—presence over presents! You're not alone in the pressure cooker of perfection. From sugar cookies burning in the oven to dashed shipping promises, chaos is part of the holiday story—just like the night in Bethlehem when there was no room at the inn. Yet, in that seeming scramble, the most sacred gift was given: Emmanuel, God with us. So if you're staring down a pile of "to-buys" and feeling the anxiety rising, pause. Take a breath. Your presence—the time, attention, and heart you offer—is a gift that can't be backordered or lost in shipping glitches. It's the only gift that matters. This season, give yourself permission to let go of the perfect presents. Instead, carve out space for imperfect, unforgettable moments. Sit down for hot cocoa. Tell that "uncle joke" again. Pick your battles and pass on the madness of the perfect wrapping paper. As Charles Dickens wrote in A Christmas Carol, "I will honour Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year." Your presence—steady, patient, engaged—is the real magic that lasts beyond wrapping paper and blinking lights. Oh, sugar cookies, this year choose presence over presents. Because no gift can compare to the gift of being truly there. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2873914 Create Mental Peace in the Holiday ChaosThe holidays don't just exhaust your body—they can wreck your mind if you don't fight back. Between rushed shopping, noisy family gatherings, and relentless pressure, stress hits an all-time high. Peace isn't something someone else can give you. You have to claim it on purpose. Time to create mental peace in the holiday chaos. Waiting for calm to "show up" or hoping a perfect season will magically fix your frazzle? That's wishful thinking. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Protecting your mental and emotional well-being is your job, especially when the chaos is screaming for your attention. That means knowing when to pause, when to say no, and how to carve out quiet space for your mind and soul. This isn't just feel-good fluff. Jesus said it clearly: "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you" (John 14:27). This is an invitation to tap into a calm deeper than your circumstances—a peace that exists even when everything around you feels out of control. Meet Rachel. Last Christmas, she was overwhelmed by nonstop family demands. She made one simple but powerful choice: she said no to a draining event and spent that night journaling and praying, grounding herself in gratitude. The result? She showed up the next day refreshed, less reactive, and fully present—a rare gift in the holiday madness. You don't have to accept holiday exhaustion or social burnout as your default. So, build in these mental rest points throughout your day. The K.I.S.S. ~ Build in mental rest points! Think about what you have been doing up until today. What has worked and what hasn't? Here are three mental health moves you can make now: Practice daily gratitude. Write three things you're thankful for each morning to shift focus from stress to abundance. Create a tech detox window. Even 30 minutes unplugged daily can quiet the noise and recharge your brain. Set clear boundaries. It's okay to say no. Protect your peace by limiting social events or demanding conversations. When you build these mental rest points into your holiday calendar, you don't just survive December—you claim it as a season of peace and joy. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
- 2883913 Hope in the HustleDecember screams at us with a million demands—end-of-year wrap-ups, gift lists that stretch forever, parties, commitments, and the constant pressure to "do it all." The noise is deafening. It's easy to lose sight of what truly matters. But life isn't about doing all the things—it's about doing what's worth doing; hope in the hustle. At some point, you have to step back and be okay with simply feeling the spirit of Christmas. That feeling—quiet, humble, and real—deserves the front seat in a season that so often feels chaotic. It's what holds the true meaning of the holidays: connection, presence, and hope. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Maybe you feel a little like the Grinch. Tired? Overwhelmed? Feeling "blah" or like the Grinch really did steal Christmas? You're not alone. The weight of expectations can suck the joy dry fast. But here's the thing: hope is still alive, quietly waiting in the cracks of your overwhelmed heart. That hope comes from a little baby born in a manger—an ancient, powerful reminder that even in the darkest, busiest, most complicated times, light breaks through. It doesn't come with glitter or fanfare. It comes quietly and calls you to be still, to be present, and to let go of what you can't control. The K.I.S.S. ~ Hope in the hustle! Let Go of the Past—Create Your Now Don't carry the weight of holiday disappointments, old regrets, or "should-have-beens." They're chains that keep you stuck in a season that's already happening. Instead, be present for the people who are right in front of you. Your family, your friends, even yourself. Presence is the real gift—not perfection, not overdone decorations, not a mile-long to-do list checked off. Presence means showing up with your heart and mind. It means listening without distraction. It means choosing connection over chaos. Be Encouraged This Christmas, give yourself permission to slow down. To say no to the noise. To embrace what matters most: hope, peace, and love in action. When everything else pushes for the front, choose what sustains you. Hold onto hope—not because everything is perfect, but because grace is always enough. The story of a baby in a manger is a story of new beginnings, fresh starts, and a gentle reminder that light still shines in the darkness. So don't be the one holding onto the chaos of yesterday. Be the one who brings your full presence to today. After all, presence is what matters most. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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