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0:26 Welcome home to Create Your Now TV. I'm Christyann Wargo, and I am super excited that you're here. Oh, yes. Mahalo. Where have you been on my days, in fact? Well, come on in and sit with me. And by the way, mahalo is0:38 thank you in Hawaiian. If you didn't know, I'm from Hawaii. Well, anyway, let's get comfortable. Come on. Put on your muumuus. Kick off your shoes. And if you want a snack, grab that too because you know what? My door is0:49 always open for you. And as crazy as our schedules get, I don't know about you, but oh my goodness, the last few months have been chaotic. I mean, it would just keep1:01 going and going and going and going, and I'm like, I don't know where I am. And my children are like, mom, are you gonna be home? Where are you gonna be? That's a good question. Right? You probably know exactly. Right?1:09 But take note. It's alright. Because guess what? Every week, we can hang out right here. Oh, yes. We can. And by the way, it's no accident that you're here. I have been praying for you. Yes. I know schedules get1:21 crazy, but you are on my crazy schedule. It's called my crazy prayer schedule. So thanks for showing up today and just being you. I don't take you for granted. No. I don't. And I'm glad you're here. There is so much to1:33 tell you, but we don't have 24 hours. I mean, come on. Between the struggles and troubles, the twists and turns, there are always blessings. God is good all the time. Yes, even the craziness and the chaos. And like I1:45 said, you know I would love to hang out more and longer. Right? And so we have been working on our live virtual event where you don't even have to travel. You show up in your comfies, maybe even your1:57 p j's. Oh, yes. Comfort in God's presence. So stay tuned for more information. You can follow us here and get all the announcements you want. So be sure to click that follow button here because you don't wanna2:08 miss it here on pray, and then a hot come over here, and we've got so many other things happening. Come on. In the meantime, you're always invited to our home. Do you know where we live? Let me tell you, create your now2:19 dot com. You can always check us out on social media and drop me an email, connect at create your now dot com. Be on the lookout for, oh, all those mini connections and events we've2:31 got coming up. Kairos to PJ parties to AIM and you can put the daily podcast in your ears. Oh, yeah. Oh, wait. They're smaller now, aren't they? They don't have the big things except those are coming back in store. Did2:42 you notice that? Yeah. People are wearing those big okay. That will leave that for another episode, but seriously, my friend, you are precious to me. Can you tell I'm excited that you're here? I just oh, I just wanna hug2:53 you, and I also wanna pray for you. So if you have a prayer or praise request, come on over and you can submit that at creator now dot com. Well, as I said, there is so much I want to share with you but3:05 first, I want to know where you are. Like seriously, what battle are you fighting in your mind? Where do you feel like you're struggling because of something3:17 you lack? You've been waiting and waiting and waiting and waiting. And between the dinner dishes and dogs, the laundry, the kids, the career, the bills, is it really worth the wait?3:34 Living in a broken world gives us plenty of reasons to armor up, shut down, and numb out. But God wants more for us than just getting by. Author Shariah Rush3:46 of Courageously Soft explains that when we harden ourselves to the world, we not only close ourselves off from the good things God intends for us, but we also close off avenues God wants to work3:58 through in others' lives. With deep empathy and encouragement, Sherea Rush invites us to experience the countercultural path of staying open and vulnerable to the goodness4:10 of God and the miracle of staying tender in a tough world that only God can bring about. If you've been feeling exhausted, bitter, or beaten down by disappointment, betrayal, or suffering, this4:22 grace filled book will help you find your way back to a posture of love, trust, and hope. Courageously soft, daring to keep a tender heart in a tough world, something4:34 you want on your table. You know, sometimes it's easier to come at the world like a lion because a lion has control.4:46 At the same time though, the world needs a gentle sweet lamb. Where is the balance of action action and waiting? Well, today, let's look at our scripture. It comes from4:58 Psalm chapter 27 verse 14.5:11 Wait for the Lord. Be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord. Dear heavenly father, why is it5:23 so challenging that we don't get the answers in the manner we desire? We ask and ask and ask, and honestly, at times, it seems all has gone dark. All is5:34 quiet. Lord, we know you walk with us every day and every way regardless of our circumstances or challenges. Our list so long, but your heart is5:45 strong. Today, show us that waiting is a time of worship with you, that in the midst of what seems impossible, you already have figured it out. Increase our patience5:57 and keep our hearts to the fire knowing that you've got us in the waiting always. It's in your precious and holy name we pray. Amen.6:13 You know, if you read the Bible, there is a lot of waiting. A lot. David, that little shepherd boy, he waited. 16:25 of those times of waiting is seen during his pursuit of becoming king of Israel. Following Samuel's anointing of David as a future king, David faced numerous trials and challenges6:37 as he awaited the fulfillment of God's promise. And despite being anointed, David had to wait many, many years before actually ascending to the throne. And during this time, he6:48 experienced intense opposition from King Saul who sought to kill him, kill him, out of jealousy and fear of losing his reign. Can you imagine waiting and then the7:00 prospect during the wait is death? Doesn't sound very promising. Well, David's journey of waiting unfolded in various settings from hiding in caves to seeking refuge in foreign lands. Lands.7:12 Despite the uncertainty and danger surrounding him, David held fast to his faith in God's promises. In these moments of waiting, David penned many Psalms, many that7:24 we have talked about even today, 1 we read, pouring out his heart to God in prayer and praise, seeking strength and guidance. 1 prime example of David's7:36 trust in God's timing can be found in the story of his encounter with Saul in the cave of Ein Gedi. Now, despite having the opportunity to kill Saul and seize the throne,7:48 David chose to spare Saul's life, respecting God's appointed timing for his kingship. This act of faith and patience showcased David's unwavering belief that God's plans8:00 would come to fruition in his perfect time. It wasn't about David. It was about God. Through David's story of waiting on God, we learn significance of trusting in God's sovereignty8:12 and timing even when circumstances seem bleak. And maybe you're sitting there right now. But you see, his example reminds us that waiting on God involves surrendering our desires and8:24 agendas. You know, let go of those to do list and timelines and embracing his will with the patience and faith. David's perseverance in the face of adversity serves as a8:36 timeless reminder that God's promises never fail and his timing is always perfect. But you still may be wondering, is it really worth the wait?8:52 In a world where chaos is greater than calm, number 1 New York Times bestselling author, Harris Faulkner, shares how we need reminders of God's power now more than ever. We often think9:04 about prayer as a wish list with God as Santa Claus. The reality is that the power of prayer reminds us not only how small we are, but also how big God is. Prayer9:16 is hope put into action and prayer works. From the aftermath of the devastating earthquake in Haiti to the theater shooting in Aurora, Colorado, believers testified to how God inspired hope9:28 even when all seemed lost. Others speak to how prayer helped them navigate family trauma, overcome abuse, and cope with mental illness and depression. Historical accounts of9:40 miracles testify to God's power throughout time, and Faulkner recounts the role of faith and prayer in her own life and the life of her father. Along with these stories of God's9:51 presence, a prayer booklet was created to reflect the current times and provide a road map for putting those lessons and those stories into action. God's light shines through the10:03 darkness, and through these testimonies, we learn prayer isn't just a ritual. It's a vital spiritual strategy in a world that wants us to give up the fight. But remember, faith10:15 still moves mountains, something you want on your table. So how do you keep moving and staying in action when you don't10:27 feel like you're getting what you've asked of God? You gotta trust. You gotta have faith like David. You gotta have faith like a mustard seed. You have to be willing to10:39 surrender to God's calendar and agenda. Yeah. Not yours over here, you know, or the 1 right here. Now, that doesn't mean you sit back and do nothing. You take the next step that's right10:50 in front of you. Oh, my friend, 1 step at a time leads to miles of greatness. And I know it's hard and sometimes you're like, I just wanna rush through this. I just wanna get to the other side. But let me tell you,11:02 it's a process and you gotta trust God's process. So what does it look like in real life when you trust him? Number 1, trust in the Lord while taking action.11:14 You know, trusting the Lord with all your heart means surrendering your plans and desires to God while actively seeking his guidance and decision making. It involves stepping out in faith knowing that God's11:26 ways are higher than your own. Right? Implementing this action step involves prayerfully aligning your actions with God's will and seeking his wisdom through his word.11:38 Trusting God's promises and his faithfulness even when circumstances seem uncertain. You know, 1 of these verses I absolutely love, Proverbs 3 verses 5 and 6, trust in the Lord with all your heart11:50 and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways, who do you acknowledge? Acknowledge him and he shall direct your paths. It's all about trusting in the Lord while taking12:02 action. Number 2, seek patience in action. Notice there's a little pattern happening here. Embracing patience means understanding that waiting on the Lord12:14 is a journey that requires perseverance and prayer. Like a farmer who waits for the harvest, cultivate a spirit of patience in your own actions. And that requires you12:26 to practice patience in everyday situations by pausing before making impulsive decisions, seeking God's timing, and persevering through challenges with faith. Allow patience to shape your interactions12:37 and your responses. There's a time to jump and there's a time to walk. James chapter 5 verses 7 and 8 says, Be patient therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord.12:49 See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, being patient about it until it receives the early and the late rains. You also be patient. Establish your13:01 hearts for the coming of the Lord is at hand. Seek patience in action. Number 3, find strength in action while waiting. I13:13 told you, there's a little bit here of a repetition. Right? You are in action even though you're waiting. So as you wait for the Lord, find that strength and renewal by focusing on his promises and13:24 faithfulness. Recognize that God is at work in the waiting season, shaping and equipping you for his purposes. You can implement this action step by leaning on God's strength in the moments13:36 of weakness, seeking encouragement from his word. Yeah. Come on. Pick it up. It's kinda heavy, I know. But he's got you right here. Allow the waiting season to be a time13:48 of spiritual growth and empowerment. Remember, waiting is a verb. It requires action. Isaiah chapter 40 verse 31 says, but they who wait on the Lord shall14:00 renew their strength. They shall mount up with wings like eagles. They shall run and not be weary. They shall walk and not faint. By combining the trust and patience and finding the strength14:12 in your waiting season, you can actively wait on the Lord while continuing to take intentional actions aligned with His will and His purpose. So how would you14:23 answer the question, Is it really worth the wait? Sprinter, long jumper, and Paralympian Scout Bassett shares the lessons she's learned14:35 battling the toughest challenges facing young women today in her book Lucky Girl. As an infant in China, Scout Bassett survived a fire that took her right leg. She spent the next 7 years in an14:47 orphanage before being adopted and whisked away to the United States where she felt foreign in every way. Though she defied the odds and became a gold medalist and world record holder, Scout fought14:59 against adversity her entire life and mostly off the track. As a person with disability, a minority, and a woman, she struggled in a culture that can make anyone, no matter who15:11 you are, feel like an outsider. Scout shares 10 lessons she's learned to help you overcome some of the most difficult challenges in life today with vulnerability, humor, and warmth. She15:23 addresses issues of identity, loneliness, image, purpose, and high expectations and offers advice for how to face them. As Scott began her journey to embrace who she is, you too can15:34 overcome the odds and build a limitless future. Lucky girl, something you want on your table. Now the time has come. What?15:46 Yes. You, my friend, are called beloved. God loves you regardless how many tears you cry, how mad you get at him, how harsh of questions, and all during the waiting period. God's15:58 shoulders, have you noticed? They're pretty broad and they're broad enough to take whatever you dish out. But understand this, you want to make sure you are communing with16:10 God every day. Whether it's in the shower, on your pillow, cooking dinner, or driving the kids to another activity, God is with you. So don't leave him behind in16:22 the waiting because, yes, it is worth the wait. But in order for us to understand more deeply, we've gotta understand where we are.16:34 You gotta check your emotions. You gotta check your actions, your thoughts, and words knowing that you are moving in the direction God desires for you in the waiting. It's all about reflection.16:46 Taking the time to see where you are and then making adjustments to be who you are becoming, who God has called you to become. So, let's pause here for a16:58 moment. I want you to use this time as an opportunity to get in the nitty gritty of life. Get your hands dirty. I know that means you gotta wash them and get your heart dirty too in the right manner. Come on. Stick with17:09 me here. Remember, this is deep diving. Right? And reflecting can kinda be a little uncomfortable. So if you want to have more time with this, I have a gift for you. Head on over to create17:21 your now dot com and you can download these questions, sit with them a little while longer. But for a moment, let's take a look at these questions and dive deeper. Number 1, am17:33 I actively seeking God's guidance in my waiting? For example, taking time for daily prayer, seeking counsel from trusted mentors, and meditating on scripture to discern God's17:45 direction. Proverbs 3 verse 6, in all your ways acknowledge him and He shall direct your paths. You gotta stay connected to God as much as you are17:57 connected to your phone. I'm just saying. I mean, we pick these things up and it's like, Who is it? Who is it? What's next? Oh, I missed something. Oh, wait. I missed that. Right? It's all about this. We're all looking18:09 down. How can you see the vision of what God has if it don't get out of your phone? I'm just saying. Right? Point taken? Great. Number18:21 2, am I practicing patience and trusting in God's timing? Choosing to wait on God's promises with a steadfast heart even when faced delays or18:32 uncertainties, are you doing it with clarity and confidence? Psalm 27 verse 14, wait for the Lord, be strong and take heart, and wait for the Lord.18:44 Maybe you need to wear God's watch, not your own. Maybe you need to change the batteries on what you're really following. Maybe you need to18:55 unplug to all of this stuff and plug into more of what God's telling you. Number 3, am I finding strength and growth in the midst19:07 of waiting? For example, drawing on God's strength in times of weakness, allowing challenges to deepen faith and reliance on him. Isaiah 40 verse 31, but19:19 they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength. God will give you the strength to get you through whatever season you're lingering in, whatever it is. And I promise you it'll be better than you trying to do19:31 it yourself. I promise you can sit here and say, well, if I just do this and if I have this control, let me tell you, if you're trying to control it, you haven't given it to God. Linger in his19:43 presence. See what happens. Number 4, am I surrendering control and embracing God's plan for my life? Yeah. Letting go of those19:55 personal agendas and trusting God's sovereignty and, you know, so He overcomes everything and we're not trying to overcome, aligning with His actions and His purpose. Proverbs 16 verse 920:06 says, the heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps. Are you 1 who says, I got this. I know what stone I'm stepping on. I got this. I don't care where20:18 I'm going because I'm gonna get myself there. Maybe you need to call on God and say, hey, God. Let's do this together. Number 5, am I20:30 encouraging others in their seasons? You know, it's interesting. Offering support, prayers, and words of encouragement to those navigating their own waiting periods can actually help us20:42 too in our own waiting periods. First Thessalonians chapter 5 verse 11 says, therefore, encourage 1 another and build 1 another up just as you are doing. God20:54 wants to be there for you, my friend. But have you given him permission? Are you willing to let him stand next to you? I mean seriously, think about that. This is your time of21:06 honesty. God already knows the answers, but are you willing to admit them? I don't know. Number 6, am I finding joy and peace in the present moment?21:19 Cultivating gratitude and contentment amidst waiting, focusing on God's faithfulness and blessings in the present will really allow you to kinda see, okay, which side of the spectrum am I on? Am I too21:31 far this way? Am I too far this way? Or no, I kinda have a happy medium. And guess what? Every day is a new day, and you've gotta make these choices21:42 every single day. Just because you did it today at this moment in time, maybe just before you're listening to me, doesn't mean that you'll repeat it tomorrow. You have to make a choice. We get free will every21:54 single day to make the decisions. Philippians chapter 4 verse 7 says, and the peace of God which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. The joy isn't in the22:06 destination. It's in the journey with God. Who's walking beside you? And finally, number 7. Am I hopeful for the future knowing God is22:18 faithful? Are you holding on to the promises of God's faithfulness and provision? Facing the future with confidence and trust in Him? Knowing that, yes, He's got you. Not just saying22:30 it, but like, yes Lord, I'm all in. Because I know if you say, oh, yes Lord, I'm all in, is that gonna get you anywhere? Don't scramble your22:42 confidence with God. Have faith in Him. Hebrews 10 verse 23 says, Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for He who promised22:54 is faithful. I am here to tell you God is faithful. I know. I have personally experienced it across all walks of my life.23:06 Good, bad, ugly, extreme, death defying? We'll get to that another episode. Seriously. But when you allow yourself to dive into these reflective questions and23:17 examples, it can help you assess where are you? Are you in alignment with God's will and His purpose? Are you actively waiting on him? Actively is the key. Right? You need to be in23:29 action. And by pondering these aspects, you can cultivate a deeper faith, trust, resilience, and a reliance. Right? You've got to have the resilience to the crap that's being dished out23:41 to you. Right? The CRAP of life. But when you're in this process of waiting, this journey of waiting, you know God's got you. So take that time.23:55 I want you to confidently be able to answer, is it really worth the wait? In the whispers of the morning light, God paints the sky with colors bright, a masterpiece24:06 unseen by hurried eyes, a symphony of grace that gently lies. Is it really worth the wait, we ask, when time slips through our hands like sand, yet in the stillness24:18 God's hand unseen crafts wonders beyond our wildest dream. While we tread the path of doubt and fear, God walks beside his presence near. In24:29 moments small, his love unveiled in whispers heard and storms assailed. For in the quiet of each dawn, God promises are ever drawn, renewing24:41 strength, restoring faith, guiding steps through time and wrath. The seeds we plant with patient hand in God's own time will surely stand, for he who holds24:53 the universe works miracles in waiting's curse. So, trust in him with hearts open wide. In the unknown, let faith abide, for in the waiting, God's25:04 hands create. A story of love in every weight. Go on peace, my friend. Be present. Be incredible. Be you.25:20 For those of you who are interested, go to create your now dot com where you can learn more about resources that will help you in your walk with God every single day. I look forward to seeing you here at pray dot25:32 com and also on our website at create your now dot com.26:11 Hello. Hello, my sweet friend. I am so excited to26:14 see you here, but the question still remains, is it really worth the wait? Are you willing to do what God has in store for you? Because you26:20 know what? I look at26:21 these beautiful flowers here behind me. And you know what? It's taken months for them to rise up. And then on top of that, it's taken weeks for them to get the nutrients that they need to bloom into26:33 this gorgeous beautiful flower. But sometimes I think we just, you know, assume that, you know what, God's just gonna provide immediately. It's gonna be instantaneous. We pray. We ask for it. It should arrive. Really?26:44 Should it? If you look in the Bible and you read and you read, there were decades upon centuries where it stood the test of time, God's faithfulness. Meaning that26:55 they had to wait. Is it really worth the wait when you're waiting on God? Are you waiting for that perfect job interview? Are you waiting for that next step in your business? Are you waiting for your marriage27:07 to be healed and to be reconciled with your husband again? Where are you in waiting with God? Because honestly, if you're sitting here thinking, you know what? I got it all put together. God already knows. I don't have27:19 to pray about it. Don't have to think about it. Because you know this flower, it just blooms. Right? And so am I. I'm just gonna bloom. Yes. You are. But in the waiting, God requires us to take action. So today, I want27:29 you to think about what you can do to take action. Maybe you need a little extra nutrients, and maybe you need to get out and take action in a manner that maybe you haven't done before. Maybe you need to look at it27:39 through God's lenses, the heavenly lens, and say, you know, what can I do differently? Where can I show up where God wants me to be? Not in the manner of who I am, but who I am becoming. God has something27:51 incredible for your life, life, my friend. And if you're willing to look in and grasp what he has for you, oh my goodness, nothing is impossible. But you have to be willing to28:03 wait, to wait on the Lord because then you get28:06 these beautiful blooms. Go in peace.28:09 I love you so much. We'll talk to you soon. Bye bye.
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