"Her Cycle Stopped!" With Lisa Kai at Arise Girls Night In

"Her Cycle Stopped!" With Lisa Kai at Arise Girls Night In

November 7, 2026 · 45 min

You can recognize the cycle. You can talk about the cycle. You can even pray about the cycle. But until you confront it, change your response, and allow God's Word to transform you, you'll keep repeating it. You cannot break what you refuse to confront. It's time to stop the cycle.  What if the very thing you've been praying to break is the same thing you kee prepeating? It's time to stop the cycle. In this powerful message, Pastor Lisa Kai challenges us to take an honest look at the patterns we've allowed to repeat in our lives. Drawing from Mark 5:21-34, she shares the story of the woman who suffered for twelve years before reaching out to touch the hem of Jesus' garment. From cycles of hurt, anger, unforgiveness, people-pleasing, fear, control, and self-protection, Pastor Lisa reminds us that recognizing a pattern isn't the same as breaking it. Sometimes we know what needs to change, but knowing isn't enough. We must allow God's Word to change how we live, how we respond, and how we move forward. Because you cannot break what you refuse to confront. In this message, you'll be challenged to ask yourself: ● What patterns keep repeating in my life? ● What do I repeatedly do when I feel hurt, afraid, overwhelmed, or disappointed? ● What needs to change if I truly want the cycle to stop? ● Am I allowing God's Word to transform my responses? Not every painful pattern is your fault. Some cycles are rooted in trauma, circumstances, and things outside of our control. But with God, we can begin creating new patterns. Your cycle won't change until your response changes. It's time to stop repeating what God is calling you to overcome. Welcome to I AM Her Podcast. 00:00 – Welcome to Ladies Night In: Girl, You're So Full of It! 02:45 – Speaking Blessings Over the Women Around You 04:10 – ARISE 2027: The Word for Next Year Is "Sealed" 06:55 – Building the Next Generation of Women 08:15 – The Message: It's Time to Stop the Cycle | Mark 5 14:41 – Recognizing Your Patterns and Choosing Change 16:21 – Breaking Relationship Cycles: Learning to Be Alone With God 18:57 – Breaking the Cycle of Avoidance and Finding Your Voice 21:42 – You Cannot Break What You Won't Confront 28:08 – Cycles of Hurt, Self-Protection, Anger, and People-Pleasing 31:20 – Breaking the Cycles of Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Fear, and Control 32:53 – Not Every Painful Pattern Is Your Fault 35:33 – Choosing Grit, Commitment, and Longevity 37:04 – Creating New Patterns and Breaking Old Habits 37:54 – When It's Time to Stop Addressing the Pattern and Give It to God 38:08 – Your Cycle Won't Change Until Your Response Changes 40:48 – The Seed: Activating the Word of God | Hebrews 4:13 43:58 – When the Word Starts Changing You, the Cycle Stops 45:33 – The Woman Who Reached for Jesus | Mark 5:25–34 54:33 – Breaking Free From Insecurity and Intimidation 58:12 – Closing Prayer If this message speaks to you, share it with a woman who needs the reminder that her past patterns do not have to determine her future. Subscribe to I AM Her Podcast for more messages, conversations, and encouragement to grow in faith and become everything God has called you to be