What Your Wife Actually Wants | S3E26 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

What Your Wife Actually Wants | S3E26 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

April 9, 2026 · 57 min

In this all-guys episode of Beyond I Do, Adam is joined by Sammy and Aaron for a real conversation about what it actually looks like to celebrate your wife well—and why most men miss it. They talk anniversaries, milestone birthdays, and the behind-the-scenes sacrifices wives make that are easy to overlook (especially in busy seasons with work, church, and kids).The guys also get practical: don’t just give what you would want—learn what she wants. That means paying attention, asking better questions, and understanding how your wife’s past (and even trauma) can shape what feels loving vs. overwhelming. The goal isn’t “big gestures” for show—it’s thoughtful pursuit, consistent honor, and building a home where your wife feels seen, celebrated, and safe to be herself.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Connect with Sammy & Chandler Rodriguezhttps://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/https://www.instagram.com/chandlerbrod/--Connect with Aaron & Erica Levyhttps://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/https://www.instagram.com/erica.levy_np/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

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Adam Mesa is Lead Pastor of Patria Church and speaks to a congregation of 12,000 about how the gospel of Jesus Christ brings purpose to every life. Patria