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Kristianne Wargo

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  1. 6973505 Time Will TellWhy can't the stuff you're teaching your children have a quicker impact on their decisions? As parents, we often find ourselves seeking immediate results, expecting our efforts to yield instant success. But time will tell. No matter the emotions, growth, or challenges, the reality of raising children is far from predictable. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  It's a gradual process that unfolds over time, shaping the individuals our children will become. But as we wait with frustration and uncertainty, it's crucial to remind ourselves of one simple truth: time will tell. Each interaction, lesson, and experience with our kids contributes to their growth and development in ways we may not immediately see. The seeds we plant today will eventually blossom tomorrow, reminding us to stay patient, kind, and authentic in our parenting journey. Plant what you want to see bloom! The K.I.S.S. ~ Plant what you want to see bloom! 1. Be Patient in Your Actions - Take the time to listen actively to your child's concerns and thoughts without rushing to provide solutions. - Allow your child to make mistakes and learn from them, resisting the urge to intervene at the first sign of struggle. - Embrace the journey of growth and development, recognizing that progress takes time and consistent effort. 2. Be Sweet in Your Words - Express your love and appreciation for your child through kind words and gestures, reinforcing their self-worth and confidence. - Encourage positive communication by creating a safe space for your child to express their feelings and emotions without judgment. - Use words of encouragement and praise to uplift and motivate your child, fostering a sense of positivity and support. 3. Be Sincere in Your Attitude - Lead by example by demonstrating honesty, integrity, and authenticity in your words and actions. - Show genuine interest in your child's interests, hobbies, and experiences, building a strong bond based on trust and mutual respect. - Approach parenting with a sincere and open heart, being fully present and engaged in each moment you share with your child. Remember, time will tell the story of your dedication, love, and unwavering commitment to consistency in shaping a bright future for your child. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.18 min
  2. 6983504 Luck Follows the BraveAre you showing up the way the world needs to see and hear you? Getting stuck in what comes easy can derail us from what needs to happen today. Rise up! Luck follows the brave!! Why do we always play the second-guessing game. It's so easy to bamboozle yourself in overthinking to the point of overwhelming what to do next. When really all that needs to be done is the next thing. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo Now, I get how challenging it is not to look side to side, or compare yourself to what others are saying. In fact, you have probably thought more than once this week, "Am I good enough?", or "Why should I be the one to do this?" This is real life, and know that you do not have to run from real life. You can embrace it with bravery because you are willing to do what needs to be done now, so you can create your now. The K.I.S.S. ~ Luck follows the brave! So, where are your challenges? What are your hang-ups? Where do you need to say NO, so your YES can be definitive? Life doesn't have to derail you. In fact, you get to put the rails on life and lead according to your dreams, values, beliefs; your mission and vision for life! I hope you hearing this excites your heart. Luck follows the brave! Why not show up courageous every day? Be the one who you are becoming every day. "You set the tone of your day. You set the rules on how you play. You catch the wind to feel its sway. You are the one who must show up today!" ~ Kristianne Wargo If you want something different than where you are right now, then know the work must happen with consistency, compassion, and conviction, igniting the flame within. This is where you will discover the truth and hope that sets you apart.  Luck follows the brave! Are you ready to show up today? "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.10 min
  3. 6993503 What Are You Dwelling On?It's hard to stay on track all the time. But in the moments where you stray from your healthy living, is it something that you quickly recover from or do you remain stuck? What are you dwelling on? Here's the thing--You can dwell on the good, bad, or ugly. Any of it can lead you in one direction or another. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  It's 3 PM on a Wednesday, and you're eyeing that chocolate bar in your drawer. You've been eating clean for weeks, but today, the stress got to you. In the split second when you decide to indulge, what goes through your mind? Is it guilt, self-loathing, or acceptance? What are you dwelling on in that moment of weakness? In the journey of healthy living, it's not always smooth sailing. There are bumps, detours, and sometimes full-blown roadblocks. But it's not about the slip-ups; it's about what you do next. Do you wallow in self-pity or use it as a learning experience to propel yourself forward? You have to understand what you are dwelling on in order to move in a different direction. If that is you, then you have got to break the silence! The K.I.S.S. ~ Break the silence! Break the silence on what you're hiding from yourself or others. And it doesn't have to be bad.  You have got to own what is good, bad, and ugly. What is serving you and what isn't. This is the only way change can occur. But it doesn't come without a cost. Right? Sometimes, you have to hit a brick wall. Sometimes, you have to fail more than you succeed. Sometimes, you have to see it to believe it. Sometimes, you have to try it before you buy it. Sometimes, you just have to own it. Whatever you are dwelling on, break the silence. 1. Reflect and Pivot: Take a moment to reflect on your actions without judgment. Understand the triggers that led to your deviation from healthy habits. "It's not about the mistake; it's about the recovery." ~ Kristianne Wargo Use this setback as an opportunity to pivot towards a more mindful approach to wellness. 2. Create Tiny Habits: Shift your focus from dwelling on the negative and look to something that inhabits your healthy living. What can you do that's easy. Set yourself up for success by allowing yourself to have more wins than losses.  3. Set Clear Intentions: Define your goals by being honest and set clear intentions for your health and well-being. Whether it's committing to regular exercise, mindful eating, or self-care practices, clarity in your intentions can guide you towards sustainable lifestyle changes. "You have to understand what you are dwelling on in order to move in a different direction." ~ Kristianne Wargo In the realm of healthy living, it's not about perfection but progress. By breaking the silence, it gives you permission to know who you are and where you are right now, so you have clear direction on who you are becoming and where you are going. You get to empower yourself! "Don't let a moment define you. Let it refine you." ~ Kristianne Wargo So, the next time you reach for that chocolate bar, pause, reflect, and choose to dwell on the path that aligns with your well-being. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.16 min
  4. 7003502 Dream Bigger Than YesterdayIn the grand theater of life, the sunrise signifies a new act, a fresh scene waiting to be written. Yesterday's failures or successes no longer hold sway. They are now mere footnotes in your every day. Dream bigger than yesterday. Today, the stage is set now--for new beginnings, for aspirations that stretch beyond the ordinary, for dreams that defy the constraints of yesterday. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  Embrace the present with open arms, for it is a canvas waiting to be painted with vibrant strokes of determination and resilience. Let go of the shadows that linger from yesterday, for dwelling in the past only hinders the light that today seeks to illuminate the way. The K.I.S.S. ~ Dream bigger than yesterday! Today is not just another day; it is an opportunity, a blank page yearning to be filled with tales of courage and triumph. In every obstacle lies a hidden path, waiting to be discovered by those who dare to dream bigger than yesterday. Embrace the challenges, for they are the stepping stones to greatness. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo Make today a great day! Look for the opportunities in the middle of the obstacles. See what's possible in the improbable. For it is in the midst of uncertainty that your greatness rises, where innovation thrives and creativity blossoms. Today is your chance to defy the odds, to rewrite the story of your every day life with boldness and conviction. As the sun rises on this new day, let your spirit soar on wings like eagles to heights unknown. Fly into the storm to rise above the storm. Seize the opportunities that beckon, for they are the keys that unlock the door to a tomorrow filled with promise and possibility. Dream bigger than you ever have before, for your dreams are the blueprint of the extraordinary life that awaits. So, my friend, rise and shine. Embrace the limitless possibilities that today offers, for it is yours for the taking. Let go of the past, live in the present, and dream bigger than yesterday. Your story is waiting to be written – make it a masterpiece. Create your now! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.8 min
  5. 7013501 No Matter What Happens NextLife has a way of veering off course just when we think we have everything figured out. How can you go from "I'm not good enough" to no matter what happens next? Moments of defeat can easily eclipse our enthusiasm and drown out our ambitions. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  However, it is in these pivotal moments that we have a choice - to wallow in self-doubt or to embrace the uncertainty with resilience and determination. Where are you normally? In fact, what has been a pivotable point where you shut down instead of rising up? Did you notice that football is back?!? Just like pre-season football--the team thinks they are ready, only to find themselves up against a team they should win against, but lost miserably to. No matter what happens next. Or is it the next that we think--the "next" out of defeat, or the "next" as in, let's do this, next! It's not about the setback that truly matters, but how you come back and approach what comes next. "No matter what happens next, it is your response that defines your direction." ~ Kristianne Wargo The K.I.S.S. ~ Define your direction! "You get to decide your direction by your decision." ~ Kristianne Wargo And your decision is comprised of many actions. Depending on what you do, depends on the direction you will go. 1. Embrace the Power of Resilience: Resilience is the cornerstone of coming back from setbacks. Instead of dwelling on past failures, shift your focus to how you can learn and grow from them. As Thomas Edison once said, "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work." "Every setback is an opportunity for a comeback." ~ Kristianne Wargo 2. Cultivate a Positive Mindset: Your outlook on life plays a significant role in shaping your experiences. By maintaining a positive mindset, you can navigate through challenges with grace and optimism. In the words of Winston Churchill, "The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty." Focus on the possibilities that lie ahead, no matter what the current circumstances may be. 3. Set Goals and Take A.I.M.: Channel your energy and enthusiasm into setting specific, achievable goals that align with your aspirations. Break down your goals into manageable steps and take consistent action towards achieving them. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo We live in a world filled with uncertainties and obstacles, but your determination and perseverance pave the way for a brighter future. Remember, no matter what happens next, it's the NEXT that counts!! In other words, no matter what happens .... next!!! So, embrace the challenges, cultivate resilience, maintain a positive mindset, and take proactive steps toward your goals. Your journey is defined by how you navigate through the twists and turns of life, with the unwavering belief that no matter what happens ... next! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.15 min
  6. 7023500 May Hope Begin to RiseToo many of our days are spent worrying and cringing about what we can't control. The patterns of this world become our focus. What if we stopped the worry and looked to God for the answers? May hope begin to rise. In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it's easy to get caught up in a whirlwind of worries and uncertainties. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  From looming deadlines to unexpected challenges, the weight of the world can often feel like a heavy burden on our shoulders. But what if, instead of succumbing to the overwhelming tide of anxiety, we turned our eyes towards a beacon of hope that transcends all earthly fears? There is a wellspring of wisdom and comfort in the Bible that reminds us of the power of faith over fear. In Matthew 6:25-34, Jesus himself speaks of the futility of worry, urging His followers to, "33  But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." The verse emphasizes the importance of turning our concerns over to God, who knows our needs and cares for us deeply. The K.I.S.S. ~ May hope begin to rise! The book of Psalms is also a treasure trove of hope-filled verses that remind us of God's faithfulness in the midst of chaos. Psalm 46:1 declares, "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble." This passage serves as a poignant reminder that we can find solace and strength in the unwavering presence of God, even when the world around us seems to be in turmoil. So, how can we let hope rise in the midst of chaos? By anchoring our hearts in the promises of God's Word and leaning into the unshakeable truth of God's love for us. Through prayer and meditation on God's Word, we can cultivate a sense of peace that surpasses all understanding, allowing hope to bloom even in the darkest of times. As you navigate the uncertainties of life, may you cling to the words of Jesus in John 16:33, "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." Let these words be a guiding light in your every day towards embracing hope, trusting in the One who holds the whole world in His hands, including holding you!!  May hope begin to rise! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.12 min
  7. 7033499 When Later Becomes NeverIn marriage, there are many days where we hit a dead end, like the 'I should do it.' But unfortunately, our minds and actions don't always equate to accomplishing what is needed; when later becomes never. Think about all those honey to-dos that never seem to get done. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  All the excuses that give you a reason not to, because you don't have to feel guilty. But in reality, those to-dos just keep getting longer, and the list can become a wedge in the cracks that were created because of another incident. Being married means there are always instances or incidents. However, you don't have to live in the pretenses of not doing or holding out for the excuses. Instead, you can double down. The K.I.S.S. ~ Double D.O.W.N.! It's easy to let things slide, especially in the realm of marriage. Procrastination can quickly become the norm, and before you know it, what was meant to turn into a "later" task has transformed into a permanent "never." Let's break this cycle with a strategic approach, where later becomes now, and never becomes a thing of the past. Hence, you get to double D.O.W.N.! D - Delegate "Two heads are better than one." - Unknown Delegate tasks between spouses to avoid the overwhelming feeling of having to do everything alone. From household chores to planning date nights, sharing responsibilities fosters teamwork and strengthens your bond. O - Organize "By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail." - Benjamin Franklin Create a shared calendar to coordinate schedules and avoid conflicts. Plan ahead for important events, anniversaries, and family gatherings to ensure both partners are on the same page and feel valued. W - Work Together "Alone we can do so little, together we can do so much." - Helen Keller Collaborate on projects, big or small, to achieve common goals and deepen your connection. Whether it's tackling a home improvement task or supporting each other in personal endeavors, working together builds trust and creates mutual respect. N - Nurture "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person." - Mignon McLaughlin Prioritize your relationship by investing time and effort into nurturing it. Communicate openly, express appreciation, and show affection regularly to keep the flame alive and weather any storm that comes your way. Remember, the key to a fulfilling marriage lies in taking proactive steps to address issues before they grow into insurmountable barriers. When you double D.O.W.N., you can transform "later becomes never" into "now becomes always." As I always say, "In marriage, the magic lies in the moments you create together." - Kristianne Wargo "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.20 min
  8. 7043498 Love Like You Mean ItParents are challenged to raise their kids in a world where everything is on camera and focused on "look at me." But the crazy thing is parents get sucked in, too. At some point, you must love like you mean it. In a society dominated by social media and instant gratification, the role of parents in nurturing and guiding their children has become increasingly challenging. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  The constant pressure to perform, be seen, and seek validation through likes and comments can easily lead us as parents astray as well. However, amidst this digital chaos, there remains a timeless truth: the importance of how to love like you mean it. As you navigate this ever-evolving landscape, it becomes crucial to resist the allure of superficial appearances and instead focus on cultivating genuine connections with your children. In a world where everything is on display, nurturing authentic relationships based on love, understanding, and respect is the most valuable gift you can offer. The K.I.S.S. ~ Nurture authentically! "To effectively compete against the relentless technology and provide children with the emotional nourishment they need, parents must prioritize presence over presents and sincerity over screen time." ~ Kristianne Wargo By embodying values rooted in empathy, communication, and genuine affection, you can instill in your children a solid foundation of emotional intelligence and resilience. 1. Unplug and Connect: Take intentional breaks from technology to engage in meaningful interactions with your children. Create opportunities for quality time, whether it's playing a game together, sharing a meal, or simply having a heartfelt conversation. "In a world full of distractions, true love is found in the moments of undivided attention." ~ Kristianne Wargo 2. Lead by Example: Show your children the importance of authenticity and integrity by living out these values in your everyday life. Be transparent about your own struggles and successes, and encourage open communication within the family. By demonstrating vulnerability and empathy, then you can teach your children the power of genuine connections. 3. Empower Through Empathy: Foster a nurturing environment where emotions are acknowledged, discussed, and validated. Help your children develop emotional intelligence by teaching them to identify and express their feelings in a healthy way. "Love like you mean it begins with understanding and embracing the uniqueness of each individual in your family. Love them where they're at." ~ Kristianne Wargo Parenting in the digital age requires a conscious effort to prioritize authentic relationships and meaningful connections over superficial validation. By choosing to love like you mean it, you can empower your children to navigate the complexities of the modern world with grace, resilience, and a deep sense of self-worth. "In a world that demands perfection, let your love be the imperfect masterpiece that shapes a beautiful future." ~ Kristianne Wargo "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.26 min
  9. 7053497 Speak the Truth in LoveYour spoken words matter; they have the power to lift up or tear down. Unfortunately, many only hear words that tear down. What if you could impact those around you, including yourself, and speak the truth in love? What if you could see the beauty in the middle of the messes? What if you could see the other side even if you disagree with it? What if you could overcome your own hesitations and limitations? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  And speak the truth in love! So much is happening in our world today. The world where we cut people off because we gotta be somewhere faster than them.  The world where we spit on those who don't agree with us.  The world where we pick fights online because doing it in high school wasn't enough.  The world where we see only our selfish desires and can't come to see the person in front of us.  The world where no manners exist but the one to be rude. This is our real world, but it doesn't have to be yours!! The K.I.S.S. ~ Speak the truth in love! So, what are you fighting internally? You might have a ton of stuff happening around you. But if you can look at yourself with kindness, empathy, and compassion, then you can impact the world you touch. Speak the truth in love! Take your thoughts captive, and don't let them stray to the point of being rude, disrespectful, and unkind. Condescending voices are muted.   What you have to say matters, whether it's in your own head, to the ones you love, or to those who cross your path. Speak the truth in love! CHALLENGE: What is one thing today you need to hear, but spoken in a manner that echoes so clear, with words of love and hope, that leave you inspired? Take your thoughts, write them down, and speak the truth in love! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.12 min
  10. 7063496 It's Not FairHow often do you find yourself muttering, "It's not fair"? It's not fair that you've got this body. It's not fair that you have to work harder than others. It's not fair that the scale is not your friend. It's not fair. But that's not the life to live. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  Yes, life is unfair. Who really wants to have to work hard at things? But in reality, that is how it is. Life is hard. Life is not fair. YET--life can be AH-MAZING if you make the choice, and decide to take the next step, whatever that is. So how's that working for you? Have you actually decided on moving forward toward healthy living? Or are you putting it off until another Monday? Be honest! When you hear the echoes of "It's not fair," those are the moments of frustration, disappointment, and even defeat. Failure does not need to happen before you even try. Things may not always go your way, but how you respond to these perceived injustices in your head can define your path forward. So, how can we shift our mindset from dwelling on what's unfair to embracing the possibilities ahead? The K.I.S.S. ~ Shift your mindset! You have gotta shift your mindset in order for your thoughts to direct your behaviors, which then become your actions, eventually turning into your habits. Healthy living habits are possible even when you think it's not fair! Here are three actionable steps to conquer the "it's not fair" scenario lingering in our minds: DO WHAT IT TAKES 1. Embrace Resilience: Instead of having these pity parties, build up your resilience to navigate through life's ups and downs. Understand that setbacks are not roadblocks; setbacks are detours for comebacks and opportunities. For instance, if you didn't lose those two pounds that week, instead of dwelling on what didn't work, recognize what did, and start from there. "Giving yourself constructive direction in the decision of your detour will expand your conviction to move forward with consistency." ~ Kristianne Wargo BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT IS 2. Practice Gratitude: You have to love your reflection. When you have moments of discontentment, you have to practice gratitude, which can shift your perspective toward positivity. Take time to appreciate the blessings in your life, no matter how small they may seem. It's not about what you don't have; it's about what you DO have! BE PRESENT IN YOUR ACTIONS 3. Take A.I.M. Rather than being paralyzed by the notion of unfairness, take proactive steps towards creating that healthy lifestyle you desire. Refine your goals, create a plan of action, and take incremental steps toward achieving them. Remember, progress is often born out of perseverance and determination. "Life can be AH-MAZING if you make the choice, and decide to take the next step, whatever that is. One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo When you look at the heartbeat of your life, the ability to adapt, grow, and create your now helps you face the challenges that will come every day. But when the echoes of "It's not fair" ring in the air, then you get to decide how you live your life and try. It's not fair, but here is why change begins with YOU! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.12 min
  11. 7073495 Trust Your InstinctsIn life's journey, there comes a time when you must bridge the gap between belief and action—choosing the next step wisely and then deciding to follow through. It's about how well you trust your instincts. This pivotal moment requires you to listen, to heed that inner voice guiding you toward the right decision for this season of your life. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  As the acclaimed novelist Agatha Christie once said, "Instinct is a marvelous thing. It can neither be explained nor ignored." Making decisions and taking action is not always about having all the answers upfront. It's about embracing the uncertainty and having faith in our instincts to lead us in the right direction. Trusting your gut feeling is a testament to your inner wisdom and the wisdom from God, a compass guiding you toward your divine purpose here on earth. And as you take the next step, you then can determine the direction you go and how far it will take you. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness." ~ Kristianne Wargo Each small decision, each moment of trusting our instincts, propels us forward on the path to achieving our dreams. It is through these trusting moments that we discover our resilience, our ability to pivot, and our capacity for growth. In the shortest sentence possible... You can do this!!! The K.I.S.S. ~ Trust your instincts! Remember, trusting your instincts is not about making the perfect choice every time. It's about being brave enough to take that step, knowing that each choice leads to valuable lessons and opportunities for growth. As you begin to trust yourself more and more, that's where the endless possibilities show up. Doors become wide open.  In the pursuit of your dreams, trust your instincts. Listen to that inner voice, follow your gut feeling, and believe in your ability to navigate the journey ahead with courage and conviction. Embrace the unknown, take that leap of faith, and watch as each decision brings you closer to the greatness that awaits. Trust yourself, trust your instincts, and trust in the limitless potential that lies within you. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.12 min
  12. 7083494 When You Believe, Then You SeeYour dreams matter. But what you believe matters more. When you believe, then you see. It's hard to go after what you want in life when your belief is less than. How can you do what you were created to do if you don't believe? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  Belief is the foundation upon which dreams are built. It is the unwavering faith in yourself and your abilities that propels you forward, even in the face of adversity. As author Napoleon Hill once said, "What the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve." Your belief sets the course for your actions and ultimately determines your success. How do you go after your dreams with the vigor and resolve when you fail or the results are not what you expected? Failure is not the opposite of success; it is a stepping stone on the path to success. Every setback, every disappointment is an opportunity to learn and grow. As motivational speaker Les Brown famously said, "Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it you will land among the stars." Believing in your dreams means believing in your ability to overcome obstacles and persevere in the face of adversity. Dreams come true when you take action on your thoughts. So what are you thinking? Are you believing you can do this? And what if it takes you not months but years to decades to accomplish? Patience and persistence are the keys to achieving your dreams. The road to success is not always easy, and there will be detours and roadblocks along the way. But if you stay true to your beliefs and keep moving forward, no goal is out of reach. "Believe in yourself and all that you are. You are capable of achieving greatness beyond your wildest dreams. One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo At some point, your belief must be stronger than the feelings when you fail. Nothing can hold you back, at least not for more than a few hours or a day. So ready yourself to take the next step. The K.I.S.S. ~Take the next step! Now understand: the way you chase your dreams will look different from the way I pursue mine. Think about what you do now, if anything. And what could you do differently? To deepen your belief, act smarter, and see what's possible, consider these three key steps: DEEPEN YOUR BELIEF 1. Surround yourself with positivity: Your environment plays a crucial role in shaping your beliefs. Surround yourself with people who support and uplift you, read inspiring books, and listen to motivational speeches. "You are the sum of the five people you hang out with." ~ Jim Rohn. Rohn emphasized the importance of surrounding yourself with positive influences and like-minded individuals who can inspire and support your personal growth and success. The people you choose to associate with have a significant impact on your mindset, behavior, and, ultimately, your achievements/failures. Keep in mind, positive influences will reinforce your belief in yourself and your dreams. ACT SMARTER 2. Take consistent A.I.M.: Belief without action is merely wishful thinking. Break down your goals into manageable steps and take consistent action towards them. Celebrate small victories along the way and use them as fuel to keep pushing forward. Action ignites motivation. Action breeds belief. And belief fuels action in a continuous cycle of growth and progress. SEE WHAT'S POSSIBLE 3. Visualize your success: Take time each day to visualize yourself achieving your goals. See yourself living the life of your dreams, feel the emotions of success, and believe in the reality of your vision. Visualization is a powerful tool that can strengthen your belief and keep you focused on your objectives. "When you believe, then you see." ~ Kristianne Wargo Your beliefs shape your reality, and with unwavering faith in yourself and your dreams, you can achieve anything you set your mind to. Remember, the power of belief lies within you. Embrace it, nurture it, and watch as your dreams come true. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.19 min
  13. 7093493 Take A Leap Of FaithLimitations can be precisely what keeps you where you are, leading you down the same path. But what if you had another way to do life? Would you be willing to take a leap of faith God's way? "For we walk by faith, not by sight." - 2 Corinthians 5:7 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  Or do you? Doing life is more than walking by faith, because we have to take steps daily and that gets in the way of our earthly emotions and feelings that linger. However, when you're experiencing chaos, challenges, or celebrations, what smooths out the rough edges is walking by faith, knowing that God does have your back. But at some point, we have to be willing to see it God's way, not our way. We have to remove the stigma that we place upon ourselves and what society sees for us.  The stepping stones in your life will appear when you make the decision, yet it comes by choice. Are you willing to choose a better way by doing it God's way. Then, and only then... "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo Each step we take in faith, no matter how small or uncertain, propels us toward days divinely designed. The K.I.S.S. ~ Take a leap of faith! At times, it may feel daunting to step into the unknown, to trust in something beyond our immediate vision. Yet, it is precisely in these moments that our faith is tested and nurtured. So, as we navigate through life's twists and turns, let us remember to take a leap God's way - with faith as our compass, trust as our anchor, and courage as our companion. And in doing so, we may just find ourselves walking on paths we never thought possible.  "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo **Bible Verse:** "For we walk by faith, not by sight." - 2 Corinthians 5:7 "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.13 min
  14. 7103492 Time TogetherAs the honeymoon phase of marriage fades and the realities of life set in, maintaining quality time together can become a challenge for many couples. How can you stay true to your promise of spending time together? How much time are you spending with your spouse? Is it as much as your first three years? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  For the majority of couples, this is not the case. You spend less time every year you remain married. However, in order to stay happily married (with work), you need to spend time together. We have been married now 31 years, been together for 34 1/2 years. That's a LONG time! But how much of that time has been spent together? That is really the question that we need to be asking ourselves. Because there is no way you can have a strong foundation in your marriage if you don't spend time together. So let's first look at some reasons why our time together is limited. The initial excitement and romance may dwindle amidst the responsibilities of life. A. Busy Schedules: Juggling work commitments, household responsibilities, children's activities, and social engagements can leave couples with little time for each other. Long work hours and demanding schedules can make it challenging to find moments of togetherness amidst the hustle and bustle of daily life. B. Technology Distractions: In today's digital age, constant connectivity through smartphones, tablets, and social media can detract from quality time spent with a partner. As couples get absorbed in their screens, meaningful face-to-face interactions and bonding experiences may be put on the back burner. C. Different Priorities: Each partner may have their own individual priorities, interests, and goals, which can sometimes lead to conflicting schedules and diverging paths. Balancing personal ambitions with shared time as a couple requires compromise, understanding, and a willingness to prioritize the relationship. D. Lack of Communication: Poor communication or misaligned expectations can hinder couples from effectively planning and coordinating their time together. Assumptions about each other's needs and preferences can lead to misunderstandings and missed opportunities for connection. E. Financial Constraints: Financial pressures and concerns about budgeting can limit the opportunities for couples to engage in activities that require spending money, such as dining out, attending events, or going on vacations. Strained finances can create added stress and barriers to quality time together. F. Parenting Responsibilities: Raising children adds another layer of complexity to spending time together as a couple. Parenting duties, childcare logistics, and the demands of nurturing a family can consume much of parents' time and energy, leaving little room for romantic or leisure activities. G. Relationship Struggles: Underlying issues within the relationship, such as unresolved conflicts, emotional distance, or lack of intimacy, can make it challenging for couples to prioritize spending time together. Relationship discord can create barriers to fostering connection and closeness. H. External Pressures: External stressors such as job insecurity, health concerns, family dynamics, or societal expectations can impact couples' ability to focus on their relationship and make time for shared experiences. These outside pressures can overshadow the importance of nurturing the marital bond. Navigating these challenges requires compassion, communication, and a mutual commitment to overcoming obstacles as a team. By acknowledging the various factors that can impede quality time together, couples can proactively address these issues and strengthen their relationship bonds. The K.I.S.S. ~ Just do it! In the midst of the chaos, how can spouses hold true to their promise of spending meaningful time together? 1. Prioritize Chats: Effective communication is key to navigating the complexities of marriage. Psychologist Dr. John Gottman once said, "Staying connected and feeling close is important for marital satisfaction." Regularly check in with your spouse about your schedules, feelings, and needs. Make time for open and honest conversations to ensure that you are on the same page about your priorities and commitments. 2. Schedule Quality Time: Life can get busy, but it is essential to carve out dedicated time for each other. Relationship expert Esther Perel emphasizes the importance of quality over quantity, stating, "It's not the amount of time spent together, but the quality of the interactions that truly matters." Plan date nights, weekend getaways, or simple activities like cooking together or taking a walk in the park. By intentionally setting aside time for each other, you can nurture your connection and strengthen your bond. 3. Show Appreciation and Affection: Small gestures of love and appreciation can go a long way in reaffirming your commitment to each other. "In the busyness of life, don't forget to pause and show gratitude for your partner." ~ Kristianne Wargo Express your love through kind words, thoughtful gestures, and physical touch. Acts of kindness and affection can reignite the spark in your relationship and remind your spouse that they are cherished. In the midst of life's challenges, staying true to your promise of spending time together requires effort, intentionality, and a genuine commitment to nurturing your relationship. By prioritizing communication, scheduling quality time, and showing appreciation and affection, you can strengthen your bond and weather any storm that comes your way. Remember, marriage is a journey that requires both partners to actively invest in each other's happiness and well-being. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.30 min
  15. 7113491 Your Best Days Are AheadWhen it comes to parenting, being in the thick of it can feel like you're never going to escape it. Dreams are forgotten, tempers are heightened, and change becomes the norm. But remember, your best days are ahead.  Parenting is a rollercoaster ride of highs and lows, laughter and tears, and victories and setbacks. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  It's a journey that tests your patience, resilience, and tenacity on a daily basis. As children grow and evolve, so do the challenges that come with each stage of their development. Just when you think you have figured it all out, a new curveball is thrown your way. It's during these moments of uncertainty and frustration that parents often find themselves questioning their abilities and wondering if they're on the right path. The key to surviving parenting lies in embracing the journey, staying true to yourself, and believing that your best days are ahead. So, what can parents do to navigate the ups and downs of parenting while maintaining their sanity and holding onto hope for brighter tomorrows? Embrace the parenting journey. The K.I.S.S. ~ Embrace the parenting journey! Here are three essential strategies to help you weather the storms and emerge stronger than ever when it comes to parenting: 1. Embrace Imperfection: Parenting is not about being perfect; it's about being present. Allow yourself the grace to make mistakes, learn from them, and grow alongside your children. Celebrate the small victories, laugh at the inevitable mishaps, and remember that imperfection is what makes your family unique and beautiful. 2. Prioritize Self-Care: Amidst the chaos of daily life, it's crucial for parents to prioritize self-care and carve out moments of rest and rejuvenation. Take time for yourself, whether it's indulging in a hobby, going for a walk, or simply enjoying a quiet cup of coffee in the morning. By nurturing your own well-being, you'll be better equipped to handle the demands of parenting with grace and resilience. 3. Cultivate Resilience: Parenting is a marathon, not a sprint. It's a journey filled with unexpected twists and turns, but it's also a testament to your strength and resilience as a parent. When faced with challenges, instead of giving up, dig deep, lean on your support system, and remind yourself that you have the power to overcome any obstacle that comes your way. "Resilience is not about never falling, but about rising every time you fall, knowing that your best days are ahead." ~ Kristianne Wargo So, dear parents, in the midst of the chaos and uncertainties, remember that your best days are indeed ahead. Embrace the imperfections, prioritize self-care, and cultivate resilience – for the journey of parenting is paved with challenges, but also with boundless opportunities for growth, love, and joy. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.20 min
  16. 7123490 Shine in the DarknessAre you the person who is trying to do everything right because what needs to happen is not? Unfortunately, this is something that can't be controlled by you, working hard to shine in the darkness--But there is hope! "Hope is not about controlling the uncontrollable, but about finding strength within to navigate the storm." - Kristianne Wargo Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  In the depths of despair, when all seems lost and the darkness threatens to consume you, a glimmer of hope is waiting to be rediscovered within yourself. Life's challenges can be overwhelming, pushing us to our limits and testing our resilience. But even in the midst of chaos and uncertainty, we have the power to rise above, to brightly shine in the darkness. How does one rediscover hope within when life is nothing but lemons? Finding that lemonade in the bowels of despair is so challenging. In fact, it can be debilitating. It's easy to feel defeated, to question your worth and capabilities. At some point, you have to draw the line so you can move forward.  True strength lies in your ability to adapt, to rise above our circumstances and find meaning even in the most challenging moments. It's about shifting your perspective, seeing beyond the darkness to the light in front of you. "Sometimes the boundaries may seem fuzzy, but it's in those moments of uncertainty that we discover the possibilities." - Kristianne Wargo The K.I.S.S. ~ Shine in the darkness! Life is a roller coaster with twists and turns, ups and downs, backwards and forwards. However, you don't have to let your feelings dictate your actions or behaviors. Keep your mind focused on what matters. Make sure you have a confidant you can speak with to get it off your chest if need be. Then, show up like you know how to shine in the darkness. Navigating that roller coaster of life requires resilience, determination, and unwavering faith in yourself. You must learn to trust in your own abilities, to embrace the twists and turns with courage and grace. Even when the path ahead seems impossible, you have what it takes to choose your response, to show up and shine in the darkness. "Your true strength shines through when you refuse to let your feelings dictate your actions." - Kristianne Wargo Shine in the Darkness by Kristianne Wargo In the chaos and the clutter, where darkness reigns supreme, I find myself lost in the mess, a mere fragment of a dream. Life's twists and turns have led me astray, But deep within, a flicker of hope still lights the way.   Boundaries blurred, uncertainties loom, Yet within me, a strength begins to bloom. I refuse to be defined by the chaos around, For in the heart of the storm, resilience is found.   When life hands me lemons, sour to the taste, I choose to rise above with unwavering grace. Through the twists and turns, I navigate with might, Embracing the challenges, basking in the light.   In the depths of despair, I uncover a spark, A beacon of hope that pierces through the dark. I let my light shine, radiant and true, Guiding me forward, illuminating the view.   So in the midst of the mess, I stand tall and bright, Rediscovering myself in the depths of the night. With courage and faith, I reclaim my own way, Finding strength in the chaos, where I choose to stay. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.8 min
  17. 7133489 The Unexpected WinIn the realm of healthy living, each individual's path is as unique as a fingerprint. While it's tempting to compare your progress, the key to success lies in running your own race.  And when you do, you get the unexpected win. "Healthy living is not a competition against others, but a journey towards your best self." ~ Kristianne Wargo Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  So let's talk a little about that comparison. Why do you get caught up in all the stuff of everyone else? Mostly, it can be curiosity. But when the desire to be better than someone, that's when the gloves come out. That's when the competition is on. And that's when you lose. You also can't forget that rampage of getting everything done quickly. Looking for that quick fix is a real deal. Or is it? One must think how long it took for you to get to where you are. Therefore, it's going to be a journey for sure. Don't get lost in someone else's journey. Stay the course designed for you. There, you will create your now and experience the unexpected win. The K.I.S.S. ~ Don't get lost! I am still having flashbacks of an incredible Olympics in Paris. And when I think about the 1500 Men's Race, it's one of those races that truly highlights in real life how not getting lost is the key to success. Cole Hocker came out ready to utilize his training and strategy to run the best race for him. It wasn't about the current world and olympic champion. This Olympic 1500m race was for him to go and show up and do what he trained to do. So let's take a page out of Cole Hocker's training manual. #1. Run Your Own Race: The Men's 1500 race serves as a poignant reminder that success is not dictated by external factors, but by our internal drive and dedication. The gold medalist didn't focus on outshining his competitors; instead, he devoted himself to rigorous training and staying true to his race strategy. Similarly, in the pursuit of a healthy lifestyle, it's essential to set personal goals, listen to your body, and stay committed to your wellness journey. Remember, the only person you should strive to be better than is the person you were yesterday. #2. Don't Be Intimidated by the Hype: In a world saturated with trends and influencers, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by the noise and pressure to conform. However, true success in healthy living comes from authenticity and self-assurance. Just like the underdog runner, Cole Hocker, who clinched the gold medal victory in the Men's 1500 race, don't be swayed by external validation or comparisons. Stay focused on your health goals, block out the distractions, and trust in your own capabilities. Your journey is unique, and your accomplishments are worth celebrating, regardless of the spotlight. #3. Expect the Unexpected: Life has a way of surprising us when we least expect it. The unexpected victory in the Men's 1500 race serves as a testament to the power of resilience and faith. Similarly, in the pursuit of a healthy lifestyle, be open to the possibility of unexpected breakthroughs. Sometimes, the most significant transformations come from unlikely sources or unforeseen circumstances. Embrace the unknown, trust in your journey, and believe in the potential for growth and positive change. CHALLENGE: Where are you in your health journey? Where are the struggles? Where are your celebrations? See what's possible because you're looking at your lane. Don't get lost in someone else's journey. Stay the course designed for you. There, you will create your now and experience the unexpected win! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.16 min
  18. 7143488 Seize Your FearHave you ever felt that stirring within you, a yearning to step into the unknown, to take that leap of faith, but fear holds you back? What if you could move past your comfort zone and seize your fear? Putting yourself out there means embracing vulnerability, uncertainty, and the thrill of possibility. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  It's about taking chances, boldly paving your way, and refusing to let fear dictate your choices. "Courage is not the absence of fear but the willingness to do it afraid." It's normal to feel apprehensive when venturing into uncharted territory, but true growth and transformation lie beyond your comfort zone. Embrace the fear, acknowledge it, and then take that courageous step forward. You may not have all the answers or a foolproof plan, but daring to start before you feel ready is the key to progress. Sometimes, all it takes is a leap of faith, a decision to trust yourself and walk with God. Perfectionism and overthinking can be paralyzing; instead, focus on taking small, intentional steps toward your goals.  "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo The K.I.S.S. ~ Seize your fear! Remember, growth begins at the edge of your comfort zone. Life coach Tony Robbins affirms, "If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten." Break free from the cycle of indecision and self-doubt. Seize your fear. Embrace the uncertainty and trust in your inherent resilience. The magic happens when you decide to step into your power and embrace the journey, challenges, and all. So, if you are the one who has been hesitating, debating, and waiting for the "perfect" moment – take this as your sign. Seize your fear, take that first step. It's time to create your now! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.10 min
  19. 7153487 Leave No Stone UnturnedGiving up and quitting shuts the doors to your possibilities. But what if you could keep the doors open and pivot in a way that changes everything? Change your thoughts, change your mind—leave no stone unturned. Giving up and quitting can feel like a weight lifted off your shoulders in the moment. It's a tempting escape from the challenges, setbacks, and uncertainties that come with pursuing your dreams. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  However, what is often overlooked is the aftermath of that decision - the lingering sense of unfulfilled potential, regret, and wondering "what if." The journey to success is rarely a straight path, and it's natural to encounter moments of doubt, fatigue, and frustration along the way. You can get yourself wrapped up in this cyclone of chaos. Acknowledging these feelings and the difficulties that come with persevering is essential in understanding the true value of not giving up. It requires a deep, introspective look at your motivations, fears, and aspirations. "Acknowledging your feelings is the first step towards transformation." ~ Kristianne Wargo By allowing yourself to sit with discomfort, uncertainty, and vulnerability, you pave the way for personal growth and resilience. Quitting may offer temporary relief, but it robs you of the opportunity to witness your own strength, resilience, and capacity for growth. It also denies the world the chance to experience the unique gifts and talents you have to offer. "Quitting shrinks your world, while persistence expands your horizons." ~ Kristianne Wargo The K.I.S.S. ~ Expand your horizons! Success leaves clues, and dreams leave an impression. Don't let what isn't working shut you out. 1. Face Challenges Head-On: To move past the urge of giving up, it's crucial to confront your fears and doubts head-on. Rather than avoiding obstacles, confront them with courage and determination. "Obstacles are opportunities in disguise." ~ Kristianne Wargo By reframing challenges as chances for growth and learning, you can navigate them more effectively and emerge stronger on the other side. Embrace discomfort as a sign of progress and push through difficulties. You must forge ahead.   Remember, the most significant growth often occurs outside your comfort zone. 2. Cultivate a Growth Mindset: Adopting a growth mindset is crucial in leaving no stone unturned. Rather than viewing your abilities and intelligence as fixed traits, recognize that they can be developed through dedication and effort.   "Success begins with a single thought." ~ Kristianne Wargo By believing in your capacity for improvement and embracing lifelong learning, you open yourself up to endless possibilities. As you navigate the ups and downs of your journey, remember that setbacks are not signs of failure but lessons in disguise. Every obstacle you encounter, every moment of doubt you confront, is an opportunity to strengthen your resolve, sharpen your skills, and deepen your understanding of yourself. By embracing the discomfort and choosing to persevere, you not only unlock your full potential but also inspire others to do the same. 3. Seek Support and Accountability: Surround yourself with a supportive community that encourages your journey toward success. Share your goals and aspirations with trusted friends, mentors, or coaches who can provide guidance, motivation, and accountability. "Strength in numbers is not just a statistic, it's a reality." ~ Kristianne Wargo By forming connections with individuals and a community that uplifts and inspires you, you create a network of allies who can help you stay focused, motivated, and committed to your path. As you and I both know, quitting may seem like an easy way out, but the true test of character lies in your ability to push through adversity, rise above challenges, and emerge stronger on the other side. So, when faced with the temptation to give up, remember that acknowledging your feelings and embracing the discomfort is the first step to leave no stone unturned. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.21 min
  20. 7163486 It's A Party Every Day!No matter how life shows up for you, God celebrates you. The joy beyond your circumstances doesn't happen as a result of your control. Because God loves you, it's a party every day! Are you familiar with the parable of the prodigal son told by Jesus? (Luke 15:11-32) Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  There lived a wealthy man with two sons. The younger son, full of restlessness and ambition, approached his father one day and demanded his share of the inheritance. Despite his father's sorrow, the inheritance was divided, and the young man set off to a distant country where he squandered his wealth on wild living. As misfortune befell him, the young son found himself destitute and hungry, yearning for the comfort of his father's home. With a heavy heart and tattered clothes, he journeyed back, rehearsing his apology and hoping for a place even as a servant in his father's house. But as he approached, his father saw him from afar and ran to meet him. With tears in his eyes and love in his heart, the father embraced his wayward son, showering him with forgiveness and grace. "Welcome home, my child," he proclaimed, "for you were lost, but now you are found." The older son, watching from a distance, harbored resentment towards his brother's return and the father's lavish welcome. But the father, in his wisdom, reminded him of the joy in redemption and the power of forgiveness. "All that I have is yours," he assured, "but today, let us celebrate the return of your brother, for he was lost and now is found." The K.I.S.S. ~ It's a party every day! God loves you! But for whatever reason, we want to control our own lives to the depths of screwing it up even more. In reading this parable, the Greek word used that talks about dividing up the property is "βίος" (pronounced as "baiyos"), and it means the sustenance of life or livelihood. It wasn't just material things. That's not the wealth Jesus was referring to. It literally was the sustenance that gives you life (food, clothing, shelter). The story of the Prodigal Son mirrors God's desire for us – to forgive those who have wronged us, to welcome back those who have strayed, and to show compassion and empathy to all, regardless of their past actions. God asks us to see it differently because He sees it differently. So maybe you're more lost than you thought you were. Maybe you need to look and see how tight your fists are holding on and trying to control everything. Are you screaming in your mind, "I can find myself. I can save myself."? Just Come Home. It's a party every day. God will be waiting to celebrate you! Give up what you can't control and let love multiply. It's a party every day! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.15 min
  21. 7173485 Is It Really Over?Marriage is a journey filled with highs and lows, twists and turns, love and conflict. When the path becomes rocky and the future seems uncertain, many couples find themselves asking, "Is it really over?" The truth is that the end of a marriage is not a sudden event that occurs out of the blue. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  Life doesn't stop on a dime unless it's death. Therefore, your marriage doesn't die overnight. It takes days, weeks, months, and years for the unraveling to appear--that gradual unraveling of the bond that once held two people together. But amidst the turmoil, there is always a glimmer of hope, a flicker of light that suggests all may not be lost. You have to go beyond the hurt. The K.I.S.S. ~ Go beyond the hurt! One crucial thing to remember is that marriage is not a static entity. It is a living, breathing entity that evolves over time. What once seemed insurmountable challenges may, in fact, be opportunities for growth and transformation. As relationships shift and change, so too can the dynamics within a marriage. It's important to recognize that things can change. Communication breakdowns, unresolved conflicts, and feelings of disconnect are not insurmountable obstacles. With commitment, effort, and a willingness to work through difficulties, couples can overcome seemingly insurmountable challenges and emerge stronger on the other side. However, change takes time. Healing old wounds, rebuilding trust, and rekindling intimacy requires patience, dedication, and perseverance. There are no quick fixes or easy solutions when it comes to repairing a fractured marriage. It is a process that unfolds gradually, requiring ongoing effort and a shared commitment to the relationship. "In the darkest moments of a marriage, there is always a glimmer of hope waiting to be nurtured and embraced." ~ Kristianne Wargo This sentiment encapsulates the essence of resilience, determination, and unwavering faith in the possibility of renewal and regeneration within a marriage. When faced with the uncertainty of a troubled marriage, remember that it is never truly over until both parties have exhausted every possible avenue for reconciliation. By acknowledging that marriage is a dynamic, ever-evolving entity, by believing that change is possible, and by committing to the long and often arduous journey of rebuilding a fractured relationship, couples can discover that there is indeed hope for a brighter tomorrow. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.26 min
  22. 7183484 Tame the Back-to-School ChaosWhy does back-to-school have to be so crazy? It doesn't matter if you have kids or not, life is disrupted all around. So, instead of driving yourself crazy, know that you can tame the back-to-school chaos. Transitioning from the laid-back days of summer to the hustle and bustle of a new school year can be a chaotic time for families. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  Whether you're a parent trying to juggle schedules or a student bracing for new challenges, the back-to-school season can feel overwhelming. But fear not, there are ways to tame the back-to-school chaos and make this transition smoother for everyone involved. The K.I.S.S. ~ Fear not! 1. RUN A ROUTINE--Establishing a routine is one key strategy for parents to stay organized during the back-to-school madness. Creating a consistent schedule helps children feel secure and prepares them for what to expect each day. By setting regular bedtimes, meal times, and study times, parents can help their children adjust to the new school year with less stress. 2. FEEL THE FEARS--Another effective way to tackle the back-to-school chaos is to communicate openly with your child about their fears and concerns. You want to encourage your child to share their feelings about school openly. Validate their emotions and offer reassurance that you are there to support them every step of the way. When you have this open dialogue, it can help your child feel heard and understood, easing their anxieties about the upcoming school year. 3. REST IN THE RUSH--Finally, one of the most powerful tools for taming the back-to-school chaos is to take care of yourself. Take time to relax and recharge, whether it's through exercise, meditation, or enjoying a hobby. "Remember that you can't pour from an empty cup. Taking care of yourself is not selfish, it's necessary for your well-being and the well-being of your family." ~ Kristianne Wargo The back-to-school season doesn't have to be synonymous with chaos and stress. By establishing routines, fostering open communication with your child, and prioritizing self-care, parents can navigate this busy time with greater ease and effectiveness. Remember, a little preparation and self-care can go a long way in taming the back-to-school chaos for a smoother transition into the new school year. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.16 min
  23. 7193483 Stay On TrackChange does not occur in someone else's lane, and you won't find what is meant for you either. Stay on track. Run your own race. This is your life to live. It reminds me of the "monkey see, monkey do." We have a cat and a dog; Snickers and Rhino. We were trying to get Rhino, the dog, to go to bed, but he had no interest. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  It reminds me of the "monkey see, monkey do." We have a cat and a dog; Snickers and Rhino. We were trying to get Rhino, the dog, to go to bed, but he had no interest. In fact, as he stretched out on the floor, Snickers did the same thing. I looked at my daughter and said, "Monkey see, monkey do." This is how we live most of our lives. You take what you see and then go and do. But how is that working for you? How is it going from one track to another, hoping for a different result? It's one thing to have role models and coaches with demonstrations and plans. But who stops long enough to track what is really working, even for the one who is being watched? The K.I.S.S. ~ Stay on track! Don't lose sight of YOUR goal. You are running your race. When you watch the Olympics, it's not about your competitors. It's about the heart that beats in the lane your body stands. If you are so worried about who you are running next to, you will miss the start of your own race. Comparison is a trap and will hold you back.  There's no reason in this season to settle.  Stay on track. See what's before you. Know where you came from, and keep looking forward.  Your presence is what will gain attention as you stay in your lane. Defeat is only on your heels if you look side to side.  Stay on track. Be ready for the attack. You get to run your race. So set the pace.  "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.9 min
  24. 7203482 Choose Your HardThe choices we make in life shape our reality. Each decision, whether big or small or even the ones we avoid, carries its own set of consequences. Healthy living is hard no matter how you live. Choose your hard.  As you know, the decisions you avoid have repercussions that impact your health and well-being. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  Life, in essence, is a series of trade-offs. We must navigate between various "hards" to determine our ultimate reality. Marriage, a bond built on love and commitment, requires effort and dedication. But so does divorce, with its own set of challenges and emotional toll. The decision between working on a relationship or walking away is a choice of two "hards" that individuals must confront. Financial stability is another aspect of life where choices impact our well-being. The burden of debt can be overwhelming, leading to stress and anxiety. Alternatively, practicing financial discipline and smart money management may seem challenging initially but paves the way for a secure and stable future. Choosing between the struggles of debt and the empowerment of financial freedom is a pivotal decision individuals face. Which hard would you rather have? Effective communication, a cornerstone of relationships and personal growth, often poses its own challenges. Confronting difficult conversations and expressing oneself authentically can be tough. However, the repercussions of not communicating effectively, such as misunderstandings and unaddressed issues, can lead to a different form of hardship. Selecting between the discomfort of communicating openly or the consequences of silence is a choice individuals must make. Similarly, the battle against obesity demands discipline, hard work, and self-control. Conversely, the journey to being fit and healthy requires dedication, perseverance, and a commitment to self-improvement. The choice between living with the consequences of being overweight or embracing a lifestyle of wellness presents itself as a significant "hard" to confront. In the journey of life, hardships are inevitable. Every path requires effort and resilience. The key lies in recognizing the power of choice and understanding that while life may not be easy, we have the agency to "choose our hard." By embracing the challenges that serve our well-being and lead us toward growth, we can shape a reality aligned with our values and aspirations. The K.I.S.S. ~ Choose your hard! "What do you need to consider doing because the pain of not doing it is greater than doing the same thing now?" ~ Kristianne Wargo The key here to advocate for yourself. You matter! And so does your health! So be willing to take control of your decisions that will impact and influence your entire life. Three Actions to Transform Your Health: 1. Prioritize Physical Activity: Incorporate regular exercise into your routine, whether it's walking, running, yoga, or strength training. Physical movement not only boosts your physical health but also enhances mental well-being. 2. Mindful Eating: Pay attention to what you consume and opt for nourishing, whole foods that fuel your body. Mindful eating promotes awareness of your eating habits and helps you make healthier choices. 3. Prioritize Self-Care: Take time for self-care activities that rejuvenate your mind, body, and spirit. Whether it's meditation, journaling, or spending time in nature, self-care plays a crucial role in maintaining overall health and balance. You need to lift 5 pounds before you can lift 100 pounds. 1. Define Your Goals: Clearly outline your objectives and align them with your values and aspirations. Understand what you aim to achieve and why it matters to you. Setting specific, measurable goals provides a roadmap for the steps needed to move forward. 2. Seek Support and Guidance: Don't hesitate to reach out to mentors, coaches, or trusted individuals who can offer guidance and perspective. Surround yourself with a supportive network that can provide insights, advice, and encouragement as you navigate through challenging decisions. Collaboration and support can make the journey less daunting. 3. Break It Down: Break down the intimidating next steps into smaller, manageable tasks. By dividing the process into actionable steps, you can create a sense of accomplishment with each milestone achieved. Focus on one task at a time, maintain momentum, and celebrate progress along the way. Remember, even the hardest journey begins with a single step. Embracing these strategies can empower you to navigate challenging next steps with clarity, confidence, and purpose. "Life is a series of choices. Choose the hard that leads you to growth, fulfillment, and a life well-lived." ~ Kristianne Wargo "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏  Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥  Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶  Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️  YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com  Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com   Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -  Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.23 min

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