My Wife Has a Spending Problem… and Wants a Farm | S3E21 BEYOND I DO PODCAST
Mar 5 · 40 min
Article · 7 min readHow One Couple Handed Over the Budget After Ten Years of MarriageAfter ten years of marriage, Pastor Adam Mesa and his wife Ashley talk about a shopping habit, a new allowance system and a farm dream that keeps growing.
March 5, 2026 · 40 min · Beyond the Letter
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This episode is pure chaos in the best way. Adam and Ashlee bounce from marriage money talk to “Mrs. Adam Mesa” identity jokes, to why taking your spouse to their “dream place” might actually make things worse. Ashlee opens up about her shopping habits (hello, TikTok dopamine), what it felt like realizing it was getting out of hand, and why letting Adam take the wheel financially has actually brought peace—not punishment.Then the conversation takes a HARD left into the dream farm era: Highland cows, goats, chickens, barns from Lowe’s, and why Adam is now publicly refusing responsibility for “the cow fund.” Oh—and somewhere in the middle, a homeless man in Nashville confirms Adam is a black man (his words, not ours), and the episode ends with… both Adam and Ashlee casually admitting they’ve been arrested before. Yeah. It’s one of those episodes.--Contribute to Ashlee's Cow Farm:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aq5WXmQQooo--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com
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