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  1. 121Episode 73: Successful Businessman Turned Evangelist Shares the Secret to Making God's Dreams (Not Ours) Come to Fruition"How do I ignite my relationship with God, and keep the flame burning?" It's a question we have asked ourselves many times, and perhaps you ask yourself that too.The truth is that it's the hard times, negative circumstances, even tragedy that shows the contrast between the light and darkness. Surrendering our will, our ego, our desires to God, allowing Him to lead us through the darkness is what makes us rejoice when we get to the other side and savor His goodness.Our guest today, Lautaro Churuvija, has seen both the good times and bad, and has made the decision to allow God, not material circumstances, to be the source of his joy. Having achieved success in the business world, he chose to leave it all behind and dedicate his life to bringing God's light to those who can find joy in their current darkness.In this episode, you'll hear:-Lautaro's personal history and the decision to move to the U.S...05:15-How an experience of sexual abuse led to a major breakthrough for Lautaro...08:00-The thing you're most of ashamed of is what needs to be brought to the light...10:452 Cor. 1:3-7 "Comfort in suffering"-Knowing our value as a child of God...14:29-Confessing the most awful sin against the one closest to him leads to discovering God's love...19:00-Three days of death in the soul leads to true rebirth in physical life and soul...23:26-Lautaro's experience being truly born again in Christ...26:15-The catalyst to Lautaro's major life change which on the surface spurns conventional wisdom regarding success...30:16-A creative and highly effective way to minister to those who are otherwise turned off by traditional ministry...35:30-How to identify God's calling to something more than what is found in your comfort zone...42:45Meet Lautaro Churuvija:Lautaro Churuvija was born in Argentina, raised in a good family, but decided to move to the US ten years ago. He is almost 33 years old. Led a sinful life. Met Jesus six years ago. Changed his life forever! Just a few months ago he quit a lucrative six-figure career of eleven years as a Project Manager in order to give his life to serve Jesus as a full-time missionary with Steiger MinistriesResources mentioned in this episode:-Steiger Ministries49 min
  2. 122Episode 72: Sometimes the Small Potatoes are the Field We're Called to Plow with Justin Roethlingshoefer and wife Alyse GaulinAll is not as it seems with those who have risen to the “top" of their profession. Many are content with their positions of prominence in society, yet some have a feeling of discontent in spite of their superficial success. Today we hear from a husband and wife team who individually had reached the height of their respective professions. Their Creator was gonna do something fulfilling and rewarding, not as “glamorous" as their previous careers. We invite you to sit back and enjoy this conversation with Justin Roethlingshoefer and Alyse Gaulin.In this episode, you'll learn:-Alyse's journey from the "big leagues" to a small coaching business...07:33-Why Justin felt like an underachiever while at the top of his game...13:35-Bumps and bruises from childhood that define Justin and Alyse as adults...19:15-How to take ownership of your contrarian ways and embrace your true self...26:21-Founding story of Justin's company Own It...29:00-Success stories from the Own It program...35:40-Fun facts about Justin and Alyse...40:28Resources mentioned:Justin's websiteAlyse's websiteGuest's bio and social handles:Alyse Instagram Justin Facebook __________About the hosts:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!47 min
  3. 123Episode 71: Wendie and Todd Recap Highlights from the Recent "Get Unstuck" SeriesThis episode marks the final installment of our "Get Unstuck" series of episodes. Wendie and Todd share their biggest takeaways, and personal highlights from each of the guests who shared ways in which we can break free from the bonds that enslave so many of us and keep us from reaching our potential.In this episode, you'll learn:-A recap of the things that keep us "stuck"...02:30Being "on call" 24/7Money managementTime managementSocial media management-Stick to the system...09:18-Software tools to use in our efforts to get unstuck...14:59-How people nickel and dime themselves to financial problems...16:00-Resources to seek in managing finances...18:36-How incorporating Cara Gallop's social media management advice has worked out for Wendie...20:41-How to use your smartphone to manage your smartphone use...23:30-How to connect with us the next time we do the "Get Unstuck" Challenge...26:00-And much more!Resources mentioned:Episode 67: The 30 Day Get Unstuck Challenge and What It's All AboutEpisode 68 with Al HamedEpisode 69 with Rylee MeekEpisode 70 with Cara Gallop28 min
  4. 124Episode 70: Use Your Screen Time to Fill Your Cup, Not Crush Your Soul with Cara Gibson-GallopYour day starts by scrolling social media for 25 minutes on the toilet. It seems every spare moment in your day is consumed with checking this, liking that, following “influencer X”, hoping you’ll be “followed” by people you’ll probably never meet face to face.It’s embarrassing to admit, but all too common in our day and age.In this episode of our 30 Day Getting Unstuck Challenge, we tackle Social Media with Cara Gibson-Gallop. Tune in to hear a relatable story of the subtle pull into the screen and her practical tips to breakthrough a scrolling addiction or too many screen time hours. Get back to being present in your life.In this episode, you'll discover:-What it looks like to be immersed in social media...04:45 -The telltale signs that Cara had a scrolling problem...06:38 -The compelling, powerful draw to Instagram...08:00-Self-esteem suffered first, then the guilt came...10:15-The Great Purge: courageously removing her competitors from IG feed...12:10-Screen time stats are a great indicator of screen-time health or disorder...15:20 -Cara's rooted, rebellious, and restored faith journey...19:20 -Opening Bible every Sunday , opening Instagram every hour: YIKES!...25:44 -How to check screen time usage on your device...27:20-Practical tips to start your digital detox...29:45The Great PurgeTime of Day: not first thing!Making additions that fill your cupSchedule social media time on calendar-"Social Dilemma" show is a great wake up call...37:40Resources mentioned:IG LinkedInFaceBookGuest's bio and social handles:Founder Cara Gibson-Gallop spent a decade in competitive global advertising agencies across New York, London and Toronto working with some of the most influential and profitable brands. After building Gibson Business Performance LLC in 2018 and creating time and financial freedom in full-time entrepreneurship, Cara then began to use her experiences and education to help others navigate their own.Tagline: “Taking profit strategies from times square corner offices to the basements of startups.”Cara's WebsiteJoin in on the 30 Day Get Unstuck Challenge. Listen to the entire series from Episode 67 - 71. Let's see how you do in getting unstuck in these areas in order to enhance your life and those around you.40 min
  5. 125Episode 69: Who's Waiting on Who? Biblical Principles on the Nature of Money and How to Build Real Wealth with Rylee MeekRylee Meek is the host of The King's Council Podcast and founder and CEO of the Social Dynamic Selling System. After responding to a small ad on Craigslist in 2009, and with a burning desire for more, he went on to produce over $150 million in sales over the past 9 years.But none of that really mattered as much as discovering what God has in mind when it comes to money. Now that Rylee has learned the Biblical principles for managing money, he is passionately sharing the meaning of being called a “Kingdom entrepreneur.” Perfecting his model through continual trial and error, he is now on a mission to help others learn and apply the four main principles governing money. Everything Rylee Meek teaches is tried, tested, refined, and proven to create a God-honoring system for making and managing money.In this episode, you'll learn:-Seeking "Kingdom principles" at a young age...04:45-The real value of money is that which we place on it...09:10-The primary reason for money problems...11:35-The first step to untangling the money mess you're currently in...18:40-Tithing a form of worship...22:15-Why harmony in the family is essential for financial success...30:45-Who's waiting on who?...34:31-One thing most people don't know about Rylee...38:40-And much more...-Resources mentioned:Rylee's websiteWendie and Todd's 30 Day Challenge_______________Call to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!43 min
  6. 126Episode 68: Be the Best at Work AND at Home With the 4 Quarter Operating System with Al HamedMost of us wear multiple hats in our lives: employee, boss, spouse, parent, coach, club member, congregant, child, sibling, etc. Today's guest, Al Hamed, will teach you how to wear one hat at a time with a rock star system for managing your roles in life. You will end up showing up for the people in your life, with your own cup already filled, and ready to be fully present. Get ready to start crushing it at work and at home!In this episode, you'll learn:-Al's story of burnout and recovery...06:20-A watching and waiting God was with him...11:25-Vitals assessment...14:10-Make an adjustment, not an excuse...16:30-Relationships are the priority, results are the byproduct of relationships...19:00-How overly driven work habits affect the family members...23:30-Why we are so driven and struggle to stop even when we know the consequences are severe...25:15-Al describes his burnout; what it did to him and his relationships..28:10-The operating system: Vitals, Vision, Vehicle...32:00-4Q Operating System...35:00Q1: ME: from 4:00 a.m. to 8:00 a.m.Q2: IN BUSINESS: from 8:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. Working on business endeavors for the immediate presentQ3: ON BUSINESS: from 12:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. Working on building business for the futureQ4: MY WHY: WE: 4:00 p.m. until bedtime. Sowing into family relationshipsQ5: REST: 8:00 p.m. to 4:00 a.m.-It's not too late for anyone to implement this system...49:00-A 3 month course is in the works; stay tuned on Al's social media accounts (See links below)...51:00-Encouragement for those who want to take on this new system, but may stumble at the beginning...54:55Resources mentioned:Host: The Driven Few PodcastConsultant, 4Q Operating SystemAgents of And (AoA) - High Performance CoachingGuest's bio and social handles:Professional Title • President, Hamed Homes | Founder, • Agents of And (AoA) - High Performance Coaching | • Consultant, 4Q Operating System | • Host, The Driven Few podcast After decades of 'the grind', Al realized that his legacy resided in 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘴, and 𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴 with my 𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺, not, the amount of zeros in his bank account. That, coupled with cortisol issues, and Phase 2 adrenal fatigue, was the HARD stop for him. He developed what is known as “the 4Q Operating System™️” which is needed in order to live in the AND. For Al that meant leading his business to the extent he wanted/needed to … AND be the best Father he can be, AND be the best Husband I can be, AND be the best man of God I can be🙌🏽 Al aligns with select executives and entrepreneurs, teaching them how to implement a series of systems to, simply put….get it all done - leading their businesses and their families in every pillar of life. Making adjustments, not excuses. Living life in the AND. By 𝘿𝙀𝙎𝙄𝙂𝙉never𝘿𝙀𝙁𝘼𝙐𝙇𝙏. 💯 📈CEO @hamedhomes ⁣⁣💯⁣The 𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘈𝘳𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘵𝘦𝘤𝘵 - living life in the 𝘈𝘯𝘥🏆Hall of Fame Dad hopefulFacebook Link Instagram Link Website Link LinkedIn Link ___________Ready For Your Biggest Breakthrough?Call to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!1 hr 1 min
  7. 127Episode 67: The "Stuck" Points that Prevent the Breakthrough You Crave with Todd and Wendie: TAKE THE GET UNSTUCK CHALLENGE!Maybe this is you...You perceive yourself as the picture of success.But in reality, you're actually moving like Molasses in January. It's because you're STUCK in a bad way. Thought patterns, physical habits, relationship obligations have just got you DOWN, and you don't know how to get back up.In this episode, we uncover the three main "stuck points" that keep you from having the freedom you want to enjoy life and live out your purpose.In this episode, you'll discover:-Stuck point #1: Accessibility...03:45Always "on call" to employees, clients, church, friends, even family-Stuck point #2: Social media addiction...11:37Helpful hint: You're not nearly as busy as you think!What could you do with the 2.47 hours you typically spend on social?-Stuck point #3: Financial mishaps...22:00Stress in body, relationships, healthAccountability with spouses, close friends, etc.-Getting unstuck...35:0030 day challenge Social media fastGet help with financesDon't try to do it alone!Resources mentioned:Financial Peace UniversityReady For Your Biggest Breakthrough?Find out exactly what stands between you and your biggest breakthrough and how you can achieve your next level of living. Get your FREE 12-page starter kit now!41 min
  8. 128Episode 66: The Miraculous Story of Overcoming Drug Addiction and Human Trafficking to Finding a Second Chance with Guest Lena CebulaLena Cebula is an author of the spiritual autobiography “Miraculous” and runs Love&BLoved, an organization that grew from her personal journey of overcoming drug addiction and human trafficking. Today Lena has a thriving marriage and is a proud mama of 3 beautiful children . Lena is also a blogger, speaker, and Advocate for women in need and victims of human trafficking. Together with Lena we invite you to share this story with others who need to hear stories of forgiveness and second chances.In this episode, you'll discover: - Learning to trust God’s plan 5:23 - Lena’s story of growing up in Ukraine dealing with hunger, poverty and struggle 8:45 - Dealing with post partum depression and loss 12:44 - Living with street junkies and having your moment when God speaks to you 16:20 - Dealing with vulnerability and providing unconditional love 22:22 - Sharing the gospel with an unlikely source 27:43 - Visiting the wailing wall and dealing doubt of worthiness 32:55 - Coping with imposter syndrome once things start going the right direction 39:40 - Practical tools and steps to dealing with trauma 42:18 - Understanding that your past is between you and God 46:00 - And much more...Call to action:Learn more about Lena Nebula by visiting her website loveandbloved.com______________To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people, and if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!54 min
  9. 129Episode 65: Circus Ring Master Turned Monk Shares Secrets to Answering Your True Calling, Reconciling Damaged Relationships, Finding Inner Peace and Much More.Brother Paul-Vincent Niebauer was a terrible student. So terrible that life as a circus ring-master - a profession he had earlier professed a desire to pursue - was the clear choice over studying to be a pastor.Paul-Vincent "hosted" over 6500 circus shows in his career. The secret to keeping it fresh for him? Imagine you're in the audience watching it for the first time. Put yourself in the shoes of your audience, and it's impossible for any message you're delivering to be boring.After his circus career was over, Paul-Vincent chose to reside at St. John's Benedictine monastery in St. Cloud, MN - where he resides and serves the Lord to this day.Circus ring master. Benedictine monk.Sounds like they're worlds apart. But when your focus is on God, you realize how small and similar these worlds really are.In this episode, you'll discover:-The road to service to God and the circus...04:32-Why the circus was the clear choice over the ministry...13:30-The secret to sharing a message (or show) 6500 times as though it's the first time..18:16-The contrast between life as a ring master and a Benedictine monk...25:07-How life in a monastery promotes unity, conflict resolution among your brothers...28:45-Why the monastery is NOT the only way to find God or inner peace...33:00-The one thing about monastery life Brother Paul-Vincent wishes everyone could experience...35:57-This life isn't the whole show; it's just the intermission...40:44-And much more...Call to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!49 min
  10. 130Episode 64: Nate Burkhalter on Adversity, Overcoming Injury, Our Limitless God, American Ninja Warrior and More!There is no limit to what God can do with a life when a person is not in it for their own credit, but fully committed to glorifying God. Nate Burkhalter has an incredible story of perseverance and resilience through adversity and learning to fully surrender his life to God.This episode will encourage you to dig deeper and press on in your own life. You may discover some of your own limiting beliefs where you can experience your very own big breakthrough!In this episode, you will discover:-"No Limit Nate" explains how we limit ourselves...04:45-Nate's "Early Life Crisis": a heart cry to God, "There has to be more!"...09:20-Giving everything to God might be the catalyst for real change...13:00-Adversity through college prepares him for the future...16:50-Stay faithful and God will put you in the place you need to be...19:00-Severe burn injury threatens Nate's life and identity...21:30-Finding gratitude even in the midst of hardship and trials...24:20-How God used adversity to grow Nate's faith in him. "Don't be a victim."...25:25-Spiritual boot camp with a pastor at a small church in Houston, TX...28:00-Advice for those struggling with porn: break the cycle of shame...30:00-How we are being programmed by our environment, pay attention!...34:15-American Ninja Warrior finds Nate: a journey begins!...38:05-Nate has a breakthrough about how to present himself to secure selection on the show...40:30-Consecutive years of American Ninja Warrior, missing wins by one spot and enduring injuries...42:00-Leaves his engineering job, God teaches him about being ALL IN...44:35-Nate gets called to join a Survivor style show in Latin America...47:00-"A Yes man for God," Nate's plans for 2022...49:45Call to action:No Limit Nate's InstagramTo learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!56 min
  11. 131Episode 63: Remembering the Big Story with the Good Ending Even When Your Little Story is Hard and Painful with Richard S. HippsGod is the great author writing the chapters of our lives. Richard and Patricia Hipps have an incredible life story full of chapters of love, adventure, missions, service, loss, grief, and finding purpose through their pain. Richard is a retired pastor, but you will still sense his pastoral care and deep love for God's sheep as he shares his personal story with honesty and vulnerability. He has a heart that remained tender and never hardened, despite great loss and suffering in his life and he shares his big breakthrough with suppressed grief that became depression and anxiety. Be encouraged by a man who not only survived tragedy, but thrived in life all because he zoomed out and remembered who was writing His story. The Good Story with a Good Ending. In this episode, you'll discover:-Richard's faith journey: a nebulous belief in God, boring sermons planting seeds, and a girl with rules...04:00-A mother battling breast cancer and the modeling of pastoral care from her roommate's clergy...07:30-God is good all the time, but there is no guarantee life will always be good...11:00-Losing a young child, seasons of deep grief, and the comfort of the Holy Spirit...14:00-Answered prayers that their pain not be wasted: Richard and Patricia offer good counsel for other grieving parents after child loss...18:50-Man makes his plans, but God orders his steps: signing blank contracts with trust God will fill in what is needed...21:30-A little girl's love for C.S. Lewis' "The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe" and Aslan's promise: There will be spring again...24:30-Angels: "you're going to get better soon and this depression will leave you."...30:00-God is very active in this world: small grace gifts in red birds and butterflies...33:00-The meta-narrative of God's good story: all of our little stories are part of a bigger, and good, story...37:00-Navigating God's call on their lives in this new season of retirement...40:45-Life challenges our theology: Richard talks about the theology of election and his new book...43:20Call to action:With These Words: A Pastor's Best Guesses About God's Good StoryRichard's WebsiteTo learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.comAll the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with being more visible to more people. And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!48 min
  12. 132Episode 62: Mel and Cherie Jones: Corporate Superstars Turned Full Time College Athletic Campus Ministers, Stewardship of Talents, Kingdom Living, and much more!What would you do if your heard the voice of the Lord say, "Your life is not your own. You are to leave your corporate job and enter full time ministry."? This is exactly the call Mel and Cherie Jones responded to in their lives. They upgraded their American dream for whole-hearted kingdom living. Mel and Cherie are full time staff with Athletes in Action campus ministries at the University of Minnesota. Listen in to their inspiring story of faith in action, walking in God's sovereignty, and stewarding their God-given talents and treasures.In this episode, you'll discover:-"Here I am Lord." Cherie's story of faith...03:10-"The good guy." Mel's story of faith...05:30-Living the American dream: marriage, kids, house, climbing the corporate ladder...08:50-Mel and Cherie's call to full time ministry...11:00-Holy burdened hearts for college students...13:30-A full year of volunteering on campus...15:00-"Your life is not your own." God's sovereign call on their lives...18:00-Former salaried corporate superstars embark on a journey to raise support for full time missions...21:20-Learning to trust the Lord on a whole new level...25:00-Changed hearts: new desires, loss of old desires, new priorities, and higher levels of stewardship...27:00-Learn about the current challenges college students face today and Mel and Cherie's process of discipleship...29:00-The Invite Challenge: Come in. Come Prepared...32:30-Mel and Cherie's perspective on what is preventing people from hearing and responding to God's call today...35:30Call to action:Athlete's in Action WebsiteTo learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.comAll the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with being more visible to more people. And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!43 min
  13. 133Episode 61: Gordon and Cherise Selley Talk About Chronic Pain, Caregiver Strain, the Importance of Attitude, the Suffering Savior and much more!Pain is inherently uncomfortable, but what happens if you or someone you love has to deal with pain every single day? People say they will pray for you, and then they run for the hills. There is a grieving process over all that is lost under such circumstances. There is also a choice: what will my attitude be? Gordon and Cherise Selley choose to praise the Lord each and every day, in the midst of extreme pain. They have discovered that pain is an instrument which is used in sharing the sufferings of Christ. Listen in for a deeply honest conversation about the challenges of chronic pain for the one suffering and those supporting and loving them. Learn to stay out of judgement and remain in curiosity with people suffering with chronic pain. If you, or someone you love, is in pain, trust the Lord and surrender. He may have a plan for your pain to reach many others. In this episode, you'll discover:-how to walk out practical aspects of faith through pain...06:00-the faith journey of a young man through multiple surgeries and losing everything...07:30-learn how Gordon and Cherise met and fell in love...11:00-identity crises through hardship as well as through merging lives together...16:00-how to prevent bitterness, self-pity, and resentment when things don't go as planned...19:00-what you should do with people who are uncomfortable with the pain and suffering of others...24:00-what can you do to reach out to someone who is in great pain?...27:30-How to practice practical positivity and hope with the wisdom of God...34:00-Pain is a great teacher and God redeems those times...38:00-Gordon's huge, courageous breakthrough regarding his body, the Holy Spirit's temple...42:00-Discipline through pain: turn pain over to the Lord in exchange for His joy...46:00-How growing up surrounded by a parent in chronic pain impacted their two sons...49:00Resources mentioned in this episode:Pursue Real Hope Gordon and Cherise's bookThe Gordon and Cherise Show, their podcast. https://gordonandcherise.com/podcasts/Call to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!54 min
  14. 134Episode 60: When Silence is Deafening: Todd Shares Lessons Learned in Solitude at a MonasterySilence is deafening, until you attune to the Lord and listen for His voice. Todd traveled to a Benedictine monastery for 10 days recently to enter into some peace and quiet as he worked on his latest book. Embracing the rituals and spiritual disciplines of the monks during his stay, he struggled, surrendered, and gained meaningful life lessons he wants to share with you in this episode. **Editor's note: For some inexplicable reason, we had a bit of a technical snafu about 21 minutes into the episode. You can still hear and understand us just fine, but you'll notice a slight change in our voices. As they say in the biz, "The show must go on..."In this episode, you will discover:-Todd spends 10 days at a monastery for silence and writing...03:00-Sometimes the best use of your time is to sit in silence and listen...07:00-At first, silence can be a deafening distraction...10:30-Long walks in the woods thinking about what matters the most...12:00-Talking with God vs. talking to God...14:00-Communal prayers and chanting with the monks; the value of rituals...16:00-The realization of dependency on technology; acknowledging addiction...19:00-What do you do when there is absolutely nothing to do? ...20:00-The spiritual discipline of solitude grows compassion for the lonely...23:00-Circus Ringmaster turned Benedictine monk (future podcast guest!)...25:00-Sacred space; how the architecture and structure is inspiring...29:00-Being uncomfortable in unfamiliar circumstances is extraordinarily tough...30:30-Monastic life is not for Todd, and that is OK!...32:00-Think before you speak, in fact... talk less!...34:00-Genuine humility and kindness; a culture worth duplicating at home...36:00Call to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!39 min
  15. 135Episode 59: Saved and Sober: A Transforming Journey out of the Stronghold of Addiction with Christian EdwardsWhen a young basketball player suffered a serious back injury, the medicine he was prescribed initially helped relieve physical pain from the injury, and graduated over years to numb the God size void in his heart. Listen to this stereotype shattering account of a long-term addiction; with the classic addiction markers of isolation, self-loathing, shame, projection, and denial; transformed by the steadfast love of a woman on a mission from the Holy Spirit. There is always hope and freedom available through surrender to the one true God. If you, or someone you know, is flirting with addiction or held captive in its grip, find hope and encouragement in Christian's testimony.In this episode, you'll learn:-Addiction is bondage and will hold a firm grip on your life...03:30-A wholesome, secular youth upheld false gods of family and sports...05:30-The big questions of life plague a young man without satisfying answers...08:30-Euphoria. The feeling of the first painkiller initiates the grip of addiction...10:45-Common stereotypes of an "addict" are deceptive and allow the enemy to wage war on anyone, because addiction does not discriminate...12:25-Addiction makes many excuses...16:45-Addiction likes to hide; isolation and alienation help keep shameful secrets safe...19:30-I Love Lucy. There is something noticeably different about this God-fearing woman...23:30-Encounters with a Christ-like love are perspective shifting...27:30-The Holy Spirit speaks; a specific charge to Lucy to reach Christian...29:00-"Do it again tomorrow" Amazing advice when God doesn't respond immediately...32:00-Setting healthy boundaries when the addict you love causes fear; "I'll help you, but from a distance." -Lucy...35:00-Discover the best advice for those living with and loving addicts...37:30-The ripple effect of Christian's surrender brings many good things...41:00-Don't allow 'good' to rob you from your best; discover, develop and deploy your God-given gifts...43:20-Deliverance from addiction is available to all through surrender and transformation; there is hope!...47:30Resources mentioned:7 Days of Creation worksheet: Text "7 Days" to (727)-472-3860Call to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!53 min
  16. 136Episode 58: Unexpected Loss Gives Way to Forgiveness and Resultant Grief Used as a Tool to Comfort Others in Need with Pam LundellIn today's episode, we welcome Pam Lundell, a popular personality among those who listen to KTIS radio, the local Christian radio station in the Twin Cities.Pam was devastated when her husband passed away after a drug overdose of prescription drugs in 2005. This loss left her angry, dejected. All the emotions one would expect a woman to experience - multiplied by 1,000 and you have what Pam felt.But to her surprise, her sharing her grief publicly on the radio allowed her to be something of an inspiration for other women in the area who were mourning the loss of their husbands, seemingly before their time to leave the earth had come.Pam's biggest takeaway from her loss? Forgiveness. Of the person whose actions resulted in loss of life. You can hate the drugs and still love the addict.That and much more will be shared in today's episode!In this episode, you'll discover:-Pam's faith breakthrough...04:05-How God's Spirit brought comfort after the death of Pam's first husband...08:08-How Pam's grief was used as a tool to comfort others...13:53-Advice for those grieving a great loss...21:15-The transition between two families blending together...25:00-Resources Pam relies on to keep on keepin' on...29:26-The one word that would sum up Pam's life...31:55-And much more!Resources mentioned in this episode:Episode 16https://myktis.com/programs/pam-lundellhttps://www.widowmight.orgCall to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!38 min
  17. 137Episode 57: When You Realize that Attitude Really is The Only Thing Between Victory and Brokenness with Pastor Jerry D. HobbsAttitude. It's everything, right? It's easy to recite a platitude like that when things are going well, or perhaps when we experience the inevitable speed bump in life.How about when everything you've invested in a person's spiritual development goes awry as they make poor choice after poor choice? There's nothing you can do about it. After all, it's not like you can live someone's life for them.In a situation like that, "attitude is everything" is not a platitude. It's the only way one can persevere through the situation.Our guest today, Pastor Jerry Hobbs has experienced this firsthand, and will share how the only way to find peace through an otherwise hopeless situation with a loved one was to simply release the individual - and the situation - to God and allow Him to do his great work.In our conversation with Pastor Jerry Hobbs, you'll hear:-Pastor Jerry's spiritual journey and some personal breakthroughs he's experienced...05:06-How to choose to not engage with a toxic situation in the home...12:30-Taking authority over a situation that on the surface is desperate...22:12-Moving forward without reflecting on what could have been done about a situation...27:30-The best piece of advice Jerry has ever received...33:18-Fun things about Jerry and a closing prayer...34:30Call to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!43 min
  18. 138Episode 56: A Persian Queen and a Dirty American Reveal Secrets to Drawing Nigh Each Other While Physically SeparatedEmail addresses on scrap paper...Courier pigeons on wayward cargo ships...Mutual friends from the far corners of the earth...Must make for one heck of a love story, right?Well, it's interesting how our Father works things out in that way. Sometimes it's the way we would least expect it.Our guests today, James Newcomb and Sana Dorry, couldn't be more different when it comes to lifestyle, background and family history. But they'll tell you that circumstances aside, God "arranged" their meeting and through relying on Him, has molded their souls into one flesh.In this conversation with James and Sana, you'll learn:-How to keep love alive and thriving while miles apart (physically or politically)...04:55-An unremarkable first meeting...10:45-Where Americans often get it wrong when it comes to the priorities in finding a mate...18:08-Bracing for a marriage knowing they'll be apart from the outset...26:45-Two separate souls become one flesh by making God the center of the relationship...33:30-Privacy is sacred in a marriage...38:15-And much more!To learn more about James and Sana and their adventures, visit jamesandsana.comCall to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!46 min
  19. 139Episode 55: Accusing vs. Excusing, A Gospel for Victims, Knowing True Forgiveness to Heal Your Soul with Cheryl Witham"Forgive and forget." That's the advice we're given as children, and as adults.But it's never quite that easy. We're offended by someone close to us, and we take on the mentality of the wronged victim in need of justice against the person who has wronged us. We take our case to God, the righteous judge, and tell Him to fix it, in the name of Jesus!But is that really the way we ought to think about such matters?Our guest today, Cheryl Witham will say the mentality just described is that of a victim. It is giving your perpetrator untoward power over your soul and is blocking your God-given right to true freedom and peace in your soul.Work out your own salvation, good Christian. Not that of the one who wronged you. For neglecting the need to forgive - even though you might never forget - will affect your own body, mind and soul for the worse.In this conversation with Cheryl, you'll discover:-How Cheryl realized that forgiveness is the true solution to our pain...05:00-Excusing vs. accusing, and how the former blocks our ability to forgive...13:15-The boots on the ground action steps of forgiveness...19:49-Symptoms of unresolved and unforgiven offenses (spoiler alert, you might die)...23:05-Forgiveness is not reconciliation; it precedes reconciliation...27:30-What happens when you know in your heart you've forgiven the perpetrator...29:45-The #1 thing people struggle to forgive...33:05-How our own self-image (for better or worse) affects our ability to forgive and live a joyful life...37:45Resources mentioned:Cheryl's book: Freedom, Forgiveness, HowTo learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!42 min
  20. 140Episode 54: Dr. Gene Bailey Tells Us Why We Might Be At The Start of The Next Christian Revival And How We Can Do Our PartSometimes we find ourselves in a really good place in life. A charmed life where we are amazed by all the blessings we are receiving and what God's doing in our lives.But is it possible that we also sometimes fool ourselves into thinking that life will always be this way, that nothing can break the perfect happy bubble you're living in right this moment. It's easy to get so comfortable in the charmed life that we lose perspective. So what happens when your perfect happy bubble pops and the downfall quickly becomes out of your control? Our guest today has experienced just this. After losing everything, Dr. Gene Bailey found hope and restoration. Dr. Gene Bailey is currently serving as executive director for Kenneth Copeland Ministries, The Victory Channel and is the executive pastor at Eagle Mountain International Church in Fort Worth, Texas. With a long history in ministry, Gene has traveled the world and experienced the power of God first hand. Whether it was dining with Kings in the middle east to being thrown in jail in West Africa for spreading the gospel, Gene has seen God truly open doors for the gospel like never before. In 2016 Revival Radio TV was born out of Gene's hunger to see and experience true revival comparable to the great moves of God in the past. His long history in the media allows Gene to see the history of revival as it applies to outpourings today. In 2020, Gene launched Flashpoint, which is a television program highlighting current events, prophecy and politics from a biblical perspective. Currently, Flashpoint and Revival Radio TV are seen on broadcast outlets and cable systems around the world. In this conversation, you'll hear...-The super simple first step to rebuilding your life after losing everything...04:00-The impact of prayer meetings on an 8 year old christian...06:15-When things started to go sideways for Gene and the key he discovered in moving on...11:20-Then things got worse: What happened to Gene and how he made it through...15:50-"Is there anything else?" A moment of breaking...18:45-Why Gene gave up goal setting...21:30-The birth and mission of Flashpoint...25:10Flashpoint -The biggest lesson Gene's learned about Revival and where Flashpoint fits in to that...28:15Revival TV-3 things we can do now to help our nation through this current revival...30:35-About Gene's new book...36:30Flashpoint of Revival-There's still hope! How we can help fix the nation by helping each other first...39:45-Something interesting about Gene...42:40Call to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!47 min
  21. 141Episode 53: The Seasons Change and So Do We; How To Embrace Change and Enter A Better Season of YouThe leaves are changing, the air feels different and the weather is getting cooler. Fall is upon us. With the crispy, colorful leaves everywhere in sight, it's hard not to think about how cool it is that the seasons change. Seasons change and so do we, so today, we talk about our different seasons. Change in our lives is inevitable. Sometimes we may feel like change has been imposed on us and other times there's an opportunity that jumps up in front of us and forces us to choose whether to change or not. Today, Wendie and Todd talk about how we can start embracing change so that it can usher in breakthroughs that we so desperately need, even if we don't know we need it. In this conversation, you'll hear...-Unwanted, blind-sided, imposed changes that shake up our lives...02:55-Choosing to be bitter or better; How to breakthrough to the other side of unwanted change...05:55Slow to speak, quick to listen-An imposed change that transformed Wendie's life...07:30Visibly Fit Program-A recent tragic change that has rocked Todd's world...09:55-What to do when opportunities come up that require us to make changes...14:05-The upside of making the change; Wendie and Todd share examples of changes they are making...18:00-How to embrace change and see it as an opportunity for growth...26:15A quote by Jack Canfield-The most dependable constant of all...27:15-Todd and Wendie share a review...28:30Call to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!31 min
  22. 142Episode 52: Breaking Through Unimaginable Trauma and Keeping A Beautiful Childlike Faith with Misty PhillipTrauma and obstacles...we all have them, but not everyone is lucky enough to have a breakthrough to get beyond them. For some, we may get stuck on the 'why' of it all instead of wondering how God can use that trauma or obstacle for good. Our trauma does not have to define us and we don't have to go at it alone. We are over-comers in Christ. Our guest today can speak from many points of trauma. You'll hear how she was able to achieve breakthroughs in the obstacles that faced her. Misty Phillip is a dreamer and a doer who is passionate about helping people spark their soul message. Misty encourages people to use their story to give God glory. The founder of Spark Media, Misty equips Christian communicators and podcasters through virtual and live events, podcast network, magazine and a thriving membership community. She is the host of By His Grace Podcast which is ranked in the top 1.5% of all podcasts. She's a sought after international speaker and the author of the award winning, number one Amazon new release bible study, The Struggle is Real, But So is God and she's also got the Spark Podcast Planner.In this episode, you'll discover...-The first action step toward overcoming an obstacle that seems impossible to overcome...03:20Misty's book: The Struggle Is Real, But So Is God-From 'Christmas Christians' to the tragic loss of a family member, drugs, rape and more...05:10-How Misty dealt with the emotions she had following her brother's passing...11:05-The stranger that helped change Misty's life...12:10-How Misty surrendered and allowed God to take control, even through endless struggles...14:00"When I became a believer, the struggles in my life did not end"2 Corinthians 12:9-How Misty addresses the question, "How can a good God let these bad things happen?"...18:30-Misty's advice to people who are struggling, alone and don't know how to experience God's grace...20:35-How Misty learned to live a life of forgiveness...22:40-About Misty and her traditionally catholic husband growing in their faith...24:30-The importance of having and leaning on supportive community in overcoming obstacles...25:55-How Misty helps people activate God's word in their lives...28:45Free printable declarationsMisty's website-Something fun that most people don't know about Misty...29:20Proverbs 3:5-6Call to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!35 min
  23. 143Episode 51: Crushing Insecurities and Trusting in The Word of God To Find Your Voice With Connor MeadInsecurities breed inadequacy. Inadequacy breeds insecurity.It's a vicious cycle, isn't it? Just about every single one of us has some kind of insecurity that creeps up and tries to hold us back from accomplishing our goals. But the truth is, if you don't feel adequate because you're insecure, you can't have confidence to go forward toward something that might be a little scary.It stops you cold and you end up walking away from opportunities. Has this happened to you?It's generally known that public speaking is the number one fear of people in America. That's what makes this the perfect topic for today's guest, who has overcome his own insecurities countless times to get where he is today. Connor Mead is a young 24 year old man of honor, faithfulness, discipline and servant-heartedness. In addition to being a public speaker and a coach for King's Council, Connor is a pastor at Awaken Church in San Diego. Connor speaks with us today about the many challenges he faced with public speaking and how he has now beat that fear through God's word. In this conversation, you'll hear...-Where to find the root to our insecurities and fears...03:45-How divorce helped Connor become the responsible man he is today...06:50Romans 8:28-The fear that propelled Connor into public speaking...10:30"God places the best things in life on the other side of fear"-How Connor transformed from a silent team captain to a fearless heart-spoken 24 year old...13:20-What the enemy tried to steal in Connor's life...17:00-What happened at church camp that changed Connor's life forever...19:45-The power of mentorship in building confidence...28:25Steve WeatherfordKing's Counsil Coaching-Connor's advise for young people who feel undervalued...32:50-Something most people don't know about Connor...35:35Call to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!42 min
  24. 144Episode 50: Truth Never Fears Investigation: How A Media and Technology Entrepreneur, Michael Boerner, Has Learned to Scale Grace to The WorldPeople say, "The truth shall set you free." But what about the quality of that truth? What if the truth you're hearing is actually just leverage used for someone else's gain? In today's world of media, the truth can be hard to come by. Today's guest has learned some things about the real truth that he's been able to apply in his personal and business life. Michael Boerner is an innovative thinker, leader and founder of many media and technology companies. He is TedMed scholar as well as a National award winning film and video producer and technologist. Michael is a truth-telling christian who is passionate about spreading trustworthy information to others for the simple purpose of serving. He has taken the time today to talk to us about how he has utilized media and technology to unify communities, spread the Word of God and serve exponentially. In this conversation, you'll hear...-Michael's background and how he became a TedMed Scholar...03:40-Why Michael began to question his childhood faith and how transformed faith changed his life...05:35"I don't want you to believe anything that I've told you. Truth never fears investigation."John 17John 8:32 "How do we scale grace to the world?"-The simplicity of understanding faith and who God is...14:15-What motivated Michael to becoming the "Media missionary" that he is now...15:30"Truth isn't just about a faith-based or spiritual truth. In God's world, there's truth about leadership, marriage, parenting, the way God made our digestive system, health and vitality."Mission Media-How Mission Media united 80 christian churches to come together for a bigger mission...20:05Christian Churches of the Treasure Valley Association-What 11 christian pastors did for an entire city to demonstrate grace...24:55-How to keep unity within christian communities during such isolated times...27:15-What very innovative technology Michael is working on now...30:45Engage Media-How to feel more confident about serving...36:10-The new technology Michael is working on to help serve people even greater...39:10Mission Media: Real Life Engagement About Michael:Michael Boerner is the founder and CEO of Engaged Technologies Group. Michael has over 25 year of experience founding and leading technology and media companies. He's an entrepreneur, responsible for innovating several short form video based technologies, enabling data driven video personalization and mobile engagement. Michael is TedMed front line scholar as well as a National award winning film and video producer and technologist. Some of the companies he's worked for include: Johnson & Johnson, CVS, Ford, Samsung, United Healthcare and many more. He's appeared nationally on CNN, Fox News, ABC Radio Network as well as numerous press articles covering his media and technology innovations. He spent many years on Gary Smalley's Board of Directors as well as on the Board of the National Institute of Marriage. Michael is married to his amazing wife, Natalie of 32 years. Together, they have four beautiful adult daughters and two son-in-laws and reside in Boise, Idaho. Call to action:To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.comTo find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!46 min
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