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  1. 481Should We Orgasm Together? // Hump Day Q&AWelcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: Should We Orgasm Together ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices7 min
  2. 482Trust in Marriage: Are We as Strong as We Think?Welcome to the Naked Marriage Podcast! We are Dave and Ashley Willis, and we are thrilled to continue our intimacy series. In this series, we are diving deep into the essentials of intimacy—emotional, physical, and spiritual—and explore the vital role of communication and trust in fostering a healthy marriage. Each episode is designed to help couples build unbreakable trust and deepen their connection through transparent and open dialogue. We share insights from our own marriage and biblical principles to guide you through common challenges and improve your relationship. Join us as we help you remove barriers and embrace a fully intimate, "naked" marriage free from secrets and full of lifelong love. Tune in to grow closer to your spouse and strengthen your marital bond as we dive in on what trust adds to your marriage. --------------------------- FREE Book: What Kind of In-Laws Do You Have? Need Marriage Help?: www.xomarriage.com/help Should your spouse be able to check your phone?: https://xomarriage.com/articles/can-i-check-my-spouses-phone/ Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------------------- Chapters 00:00 - Introduction to Intimacy Types  Overview of emotional, sexual/physical, and spiritual intimacy. 02:50 - The Importance of Communication and Trust  How active communication and trust are foundational to intimacy. 04:33- The Digital Dilemma: Presence Over Screens  Challenges of digital distractions and the importance of mindfulness. 06:58 - Secrets: The Enemy of Intimacy  Why secrecy sabotages intimacy and how transparency can rebuild it. 09:22 - Restoring Trust After It’s Broken  Strategies for rebuilding trust with honesty and frequent check-ins. 11:37- Healing and Forgiveness Post-Betrayal  The process of healing, the necessity of forgiveness, and managing challenging emotions. 13:55 - Practical Steps to Rebuild Trust  Guidance on restoring trust through consistent and transparent actions. 16:15 - The Role of Apology and Repentance  The importance of genuine apologies and repentance in trust restoration. 18:34 - Navigating Recovery and Rebuilding Intimacy  Gradual rebuilding of intimacy, akin to healing a physical injury, including setting boundaries. 20:58 - Support Systems and Counseling  Using counseling and support systems to aid the recovery process. 23:22 - Grief and Emotion Management  Handling emotional and grief processes in relationship rebuilding. 25:34 - Empowering the Wronged Spouse  Supporting the wronged spouse through emotional expression and prayer. 27:57 - Forgiveness and Re-Earning Trust  Distinguishing between forgiveness and trust, and methods for re-earning trust for enhanced intimacy. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices33 min
  3. 483Can I Save My Marriage from Addiction? // Hump Day Q&AWelcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: what do I do when I think my spouse has an addiction ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices7 min
  4. 484Cultivating Love and Sex in MarriageWe are so excited to continue in our intimacy series here on the Naked Marriage Podcast. In this episode, we delve into the essential ways to rekindle romance and amplify intimacy in your marriage..... yes we mean SEX. We discuss the pivotal role of physical touch and its immense benefits for a couple’s emotional and physical bond. We also explore how engaging all five senses can significantly enhance your sexual intimacy, and we’re thrilled to share a special bonus sex tip with you! Join us as we emphasize the importance of making intimacy a priority and the power of open communication to fulfill each other's needs and desires. Get ready to take actionable steps to deepen your connection and enjoy a more fulfilling marital relationship. ------------------------- FREE Resource: What Kind of In-Laws Do You Have? Need Marriage Help?: www.xomarriage.com/help Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 10:24 The Importance of Physical Touch: Building Trust and Connection 26:17 Prioritizing Intimacy: Breaking the Cycle of Mismatched Sex Drives Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices32 min
  5. 485Flirting with Danger? // Hump Day Q&AWelcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: I'm Attracted To Someone At Work What Now? ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices10 min
  6. 486Intimacy Anchored in FaithWelcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast, with, Dave and Ashley Willis. In today’s episode, we explore the essential role of faith in enriching your marriage. We invite you and your partner to join us in building a relationship grounded in God’s Word, engaging together in prayer, Bible study, and active participation in your church community. We also discuss how serving together can deepen your bond. To support you on this journey, we’re excited to offer a free prayer guide. We'll share some uplifting statistics on how faith can anchor your marriage, making it stronger and more resilient. Join us as we delve into these transformative practices that can bring you and your spouse closer, not just to each other, but also to God. -------------------------- Grab Your Free Prayer Guide:https://dl.bookfunnel.com/dtad9cbfib Grab a copy of I Will:https://store.xomarriage.com/products/i-will For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------- Chapters 00:02 Welcome and Overview  01:30 Building a Marriage on Faith  02:27 Faith Through the Storms  04:53 Engaging in Community and Church  07:15 Benefits of Serving Together  09:34 Experiencing Growth Through Service  16:33 Faith in Daily Life and Resources for Growth  25:56 The Power of Prayer in Marriage  28:00 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices30 min
  7. 487My Spouse Is Using OnlyFans..... // Hump Day Q&AWelcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: My Spouse Is On OnlyFans. What do I do? ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices10 min
  8. 488Hope in the WaitingWelcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast. In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis sit down with Denis and Kara Duncan to delve into their heartfelt journey through infertility and adoption. The Duncans open up about their love story, the hurdles they encountered while trying to begin their family, and the significant emotional impact it had on their marriage. They emphasize the critical role of communication, the benefits of counseling, and the strength they drew from their faith during challenging times. The episode concludes with a touching prayer for others facing similar struggles. --------------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Welcoming the Guests 02:15 Starting the Journey and Facing Infertility 08:21 Communication and Counseling 13:06 Support from Friends and Family 21:14 The Journey to Adoption 26:26 Prayer for Those Going Through Infertility and Adoption Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices30 min
  9. 489The Art of TouchWelcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast! We're Dave and Ashley, and in this episode, we're diving into a topic close to our hearts: alternative forms of physical intimacy and spicing up your sex life. We've found that non-sexual physical touch, like massage, cuddling, and kissing, is so crucial in building the intimacy and closeness we all crave. We're sharing our own tips and techniques for enhancing foreplay and exploring sensuality, all while stressing the importance of open communication and understanding each other's desires. Let's prioritize our sex life and tackle any challenges together, because a thriving marriage deserves nothing less. ---------------------------- The Secret to Great Sex:https://youtu.be/MfWrHvoBjI8 Need Marriage Help?: Xomarriage.com/help Want More Resources?: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/new-releases/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1 ---------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:20 Exploring Alternative Forms of Physical Intimacy 12:50 Enhancing Sexual Intimacy: Tips and Techniques Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices34 min
  10. 490We Are Deep In Debt... How Do We Get Out // Hump Day Q&AWelcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: We Are Deep In Debt... How Do We Get Out? ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices7 min
  11. 491Embracing the SeasonsHello and welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In today's episode, we're exploring an important topic: the significance of friendships between married individuals and their single friends. We'll address common myths that frequently arise in this context. Additionally, we have Marcus with us today, who will share his personal insights from the dating world as a single person, along with some valuable tips. ------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Marcus' Background 08:10 The Importance of Friendship Between Single and Married Individuals 12:28 Navigating the Challenges of the Modern Dating Scene 27:22 Embracing the Season of Singleness 32:08 Building Lifelong Connections and Serving One Another Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices37 min
  12. 492Building a Resilient MarriageWelcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast with Davw & Ashley Willis! In this episode, Jon and Kathryn Gordon share their love story and the challenges they've faced, focusing on the crucial role of open and honest communication, especially regarding sex and intimacy. They delve into how faith has been transformative for their relationship, a theme that's central in their book, *Relationship Grit*. The Gordons highlight the importance of perseverance, prayer, and practical tools in overcoming marital challenges, including betrayal, emphasizing the need to invest in and fight for one’s relationship. They also discuss the significance of praying together and how it strengthens intimacy and connection between partners. ------------------------ Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to John and Catherine Gordon 03:22 The Importance of Open and Honest Communication 05:14 Addressing Issues of Sex and Intimacy 14:15 The Healing Power of Faith 22:12 The Power of Perseverance and Resolve 24:10 Investing in Your Relationship 31:48 Praying Together: Strengthening the Bond 33:12 Healing and Growth Through Sharing Struggles 34:37 Tools and Resources for Navigating Difficult Times Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices46 min
  13. 493My Husband is Masterbating but Won't Have Sex With Me // Hump Day Q&AWelcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: My husband won't have sex with me but is masterbating what should I do? ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices7 min
  14. 494Healthy You, Healthy MarriageWelcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast wihtDave and Ashley Willis. Today we will dive into the crucial connection between intimacy and self-care, with a special focus on mental and emotional health. We discuss the importance of prioritizing physical, mental, and spiritual well-being to foster a healthy marriage. Addressing common insecurities and challenges related to body image, we explore how these issues can impact intimacy. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication, mutual support between spouses, and the importance of seeking professional help when necessary. ---------------------- Grab a copy of Naked & Healthy:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ---------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 01:23 The Connection Between Intimacy and Self-Care 10:21 The Importance of Open Communication and Support 26:06 Tip for Increasing Emotional Intimacy 27:28 Conclusion and Book Recommendation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices30 min
  15. 495The Nagging CureWelcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: How Do I Get My Wife to Stop Nagging Me? ------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices10 min
  16. 496Prioritizing Your Marriage in a Busy WorldWelcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis. Today we are going to tackle the topic of intimacy killers in marriage. we'll begin by exploring how phones and digital distractions can impact intimacy, stressing the importance of putting down the phone and being fully present with your spouse. The discussion then shifts to the dangers of connecting with others outside of the marriage via social media, including the risk of emotional infidelity. we also delve into controlling behavior, emphasizing the need to recognize and address these patterns to maintain intimacy. Finally, they discuss how stress affects intimacy and share practical tips for managing stress to prioritize connection in your marriage. --------------------- Grab a copy of Naked & Healthy:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Visit XONow.com/naked to sign up and get 25% off your first month plus a 7-day free trial! ---------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:00 The Impact of Phones and Digital Distractions on Intimacy 09:32 Recognizing and Addressing Patterns of Control in the Marriage 16:04 Managing Stress to Prioritize Connection Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices26 min
  17. 497Navigating Social Media Boundaries in MarriageWelcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: The Women My Husband is Following On Social Media Makes Me Uncomfortable -------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices6 min
  18. 498Overcoming Emotional WithholdingWelcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis conclude their intimacy series by addressing key issues like loneliness in marriage, emotional withholding, unresolved conflict, and the hidden enemies of intimacy. They also share three practical strategies they use to meet each other's intimacy needs. The episode wraps up with a meaningful discussion on spiritual intimacy and the importance of trusting God with finances. Join us for an insightful conversation that aims to strengthen your marriage and deepen your connection. ------------------ Watch our interview with Mark Batterson: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flsdEixdVQI Get our book, Naked & Healthy! https://store.xomarriage.com/products/naked-and-healthy Visit XONow.com/naked to sign up and get 25% off your first month plus a 7-day free trial! ------------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Graduation Celebration 02:24 Navigating Loneliness in Marriage 13:32 The Hidden Enemy of Intimacy 21:30 The Importance of Spiritual Intimacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices25 min
  19. 499We're Bored In Our Marriage // Hump Day Q&AWelcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: We're Bored In Our Marriage what do we do now? -------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices7 min
  20. 500Strengthening Parent-Child RelationshipsWelcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! Today we sit down with Don Manning, the founder of Crazy Cool Family, to discuss the nuances of parenting and fostering strong relationships with children. Don, a father of seven, shares his journey from being a controlling parent to becoming a supportive friend and mentor. He emphasizes the value of close-knit relationships, open communication, and vulnerability with children. Don also introduces Basecamp, a free membership site filled with courses and resources designed to help parents navigate the challenges of raising a Christian family. Don't miss this insightful conversation! ----------------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background of Crazy Cool Family 07:02 Transitioning from Controlling Parent to Friend and Mentor 11:22 Navigating the Teenage Years and Building a Strong Relationship 23:17 Sharing Age-Appropriate Stories and Experiences 26:08 Introduction to Basecamp: A Resource for Building Strong Christian Families Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices33 min
  21. 501Favorite Romantic Getaways // Hump Day Q&AWelcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: What are your Favorite Romantic Getaways? -------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices9 min
  22. 502Let's Talk Oral SexWelcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! Today we are going to dive into the topic of oral sex in marriage. We'll address common misconceptions, individual preferences, and the significance of oral sex in enhancing marital intimacy. Emphasizing open communication, consent, and mutual pleasure, Dave and Ashley also explore the reasons behind reservations or insecurities some might have about oral sex. They provide valuable guidance on navigating these issues and encourage couples to prioritize emotional connection and respect in their sexual relationship. ---------------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ---------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Popular Demand for Oral Sex Episode 02:50 Exploring the Role of Oral Sex in Marital Intimacy 08:08 Addressing Misconceptions and Reservations about Oral Sex 11:00 The Importance of Open Communication and Consent 13:48 Navigating Insecurities and Seeking Professional Help 18:00 Emphasizing Emotional Connection and Respect in the Sexual Relationship Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices21 min
  23. 503Is Testosterone playing a role in our Sex Life?Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!! Today's question: How can I tell if my Testosterone is low?   -------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices6 min
  24. 504Are You Feeling Lonely in Your Marriage?Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis dive into the critical topic of staying connected in marriage and avoiding the trap of becoming emotionally or physically absent. They explore different forms of absence, such as physical avoidance and emotional disconnection, and provide practical tips for recognizing red flags and reestablishing connection. Emphasizing the importance of quality time and prioritizing the relationship over other commitments, they encourage open communication and vulnerability. The episode concludes with a reminder that help is available for couples facing challenges, ensuring that no one has to navigate these struggles alone. --------------- For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Importance of Staying Connected in Marriage 01:25 Different Forms of Absence: Physical and Emotional 08:25 Prioritizing Quality Time for a Strong Connection 11:48 Open Communication: Expressing the Need for Connection 13:40 Conclusion: Seeking Help and Support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices16 min
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