The Grace Message with Dr. Andrew Farley
Andrew Farley
"I've done something almost unspeakable..."
Andrew FarleyEpisode · 26 min · August 7, 2026
About this episode
I've struggled with pornography and lust, and now I'm dealing with some painful consequences. I know Jesus forgives, but I still feel like I've done something almost unspeakable, and I'm not sure where I stand with God. I've been crying out to Him, but how can I know I'm truly forgiven and still secure in Christ when
my sin feels this serious?
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