Don’t Try To Pray Like Her: Breaking Free from Prayer Insecurity With Shellie Rushing Tomlinson
Episode · 33 min · April 9, 2026
About this episode
Have you ever struggled with prayer insecurity? Maybe you’ve compared yourself to others, overly concerned about saying the right words, or felt pressure to sound more polished or spiritual—especially when praying out loud.In today’s episode I sit down with author and speaker Shellie Rushing Tomlinson to have an
honest, freeing conversation about what it really means to have a genuine prayer life. Inspired by her book Don’t Try to Pray Like Her, Shellie shares how we can let go of comparison, release the need for perfection, and break free from the fear of others’ opinions.Together, we open up about our personal journeys with prayer and invite you into a simpler, richer, and more authentic relationship with God—one where you can come just as you are.If you’ve ever held back in prayer or felt like you didn’t measure up, this episode will encourage you to step into confidence and enjoy God’s presence without pressure.In this episode, you’ll learn:How to overcome comparison in your prayer lifeWhy God isn’t looking for perfect or polished prayersHow to release fear when praying out loudSimple habits to help you enjoy a more real and intimate relationship with GodCome be reminded: your voice matters, and God delights in hearing from you—just as you are.Amazon: Don't Try To Pray Like Her: 15 Simple Habits To Enjoy A Realer, Richer, Prayer LifeConnect with Shellie Rushing Tomlinson: https://belleofallthingssouthern.com/
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