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Are you truly living like you're engaged to Jesus... or just casually connected? In this episode of the I AM HER Podcast, Pastor Lisa Kai and Bekah dive into the powerful analogy of engagement, both in relationships and in our walk with Christ. From hilarious proposal stories to deep spiritual truths, this conversation

will challenge you to examine how you're living in the "waiting season." This isn't just about waiting... It's about preparing. Whether you've just said "yes" to Jesus or you've been walking with Him for years, this episode will stir your heart to live with urgency, devotion, and purpose. __________________________________ 00:00 – Welcome + podcast banter 00:55 – Engagement topic introduction 01:24 – Ice cream sundae proposal story 04:37 – Beach surprise proposal 11:19 – Engaged to Jesus: the bigger picture 12:10 – Preparing as the bride 13:46 – Jewish wedding traditions explained 16:28 – Your first "yes" to Jesus 17:01 – Waiting with purpose (Part 1) 17:40 – Waiting with purpose (Part 2) 18:44 – Lessons in preparation 20:04 – Warning against casual faith 21:40 – Jesus prepares a place for us 23:38 – Wedding planning & spiritual parallels 25:12 – Undivided devotion to God 28:32 – Inviting others to the wedding feast 31:28 – Keeping your lamp full 34:33 – You need your own oil 37:57 – Encouragement + closing prayer

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