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Sparking the Marriage Fires, Pt. 2 | Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage
Focus On The Family With Jim DalyVideo · 34 min · July 9, 2026
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Get ready for Part Two of how to spark the fire in your marriage! Want to make your spouse feel special? Todd and Carolyn Petka share the "rocket fuel” for thriving marriages, and describe obstacles like unrealistic expectations, busy lives without margin, conflict styles, and family-of-origin wounds, that naturally
leak energy and require intentional refueling.
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