How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You

How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You

October 28, 2026 · 31 min

Through Christ, we can forgive anyone for anything, but forgiveness is a journey, and it doesn't always end in reconciliation. What do we do when we're not ready to forgive, or when going back isn't safe?We reread Jesus' parable of the unforgiving servant in Matthew 18 and look at what forgiveness is and what it isn't. Then we talk about how to start when we're not ready, and one surprising prayer that can set us free.0:00 Can You Forgive Anyone for Anything?4:55 What Does Matthew 18:35 Really Mean?9:19 Forgiveness Is a Solo Decision, Not Forgetting15:20 Forgiveness Is Not Reconciliation21:03 How Do You Forgive When You're Not Ready?25:21 Pray for Blessing on the One Who Hurt You Support the showDr. Shah writes a personal letter every week — reflections on Scripture, faith, and living it out with clarity and purpose. GET THE LETTER If you enjoyed the show, please like and follow our Facebook and Instagram pages, and also subscribe to our YouTube channel. This is an excellent way to stay connected to the Clearview team and ensure you don't miss a thing.PRE-ORDER BYZANTINE TEXTFORM: https://subsplash.com/u/-MPJ586/forms/d/1090d08a-49c0-498a-ad97-5c0fd575fa9eSUPPORT OUR SPONSORS:MIGHTY MUSCADINE SUPPLEMENTSLEBLEU ULTRA-PURE WATERKEEP YOUR KIDS PROTECTED ONLINE--->> DR SHAH'S BOOKS>> SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE>> CHECK OUT ALL OUR SHOWS

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Dr. Abidan Shah is a New Testament text critic, author, professor, and pastor of Clearview Church in North Carolina. His desire is to make biblical scholarship accessible and applicable to all people.