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Stop Pressing Me: Our Most Raw Episode Yet... | S3E28 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

Apr 23 · 49 min

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Stop Pressing Me: Our Most Raw Episode Yet... | S3E28 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

April 23, 2026 · 49 min

In this episode, we unpack a topic every marriage runs into: rest. After coming back from Japan, we talk about the difference between a “vacation” and a family trip, and how family experiences can be meaningful—even when they’re not restful. Then we react to a viral clip of a husband sitting in the car for some quiet time before walking into the house, and we get real about why so many men (and honestly, so many people) need a few minutes to decompress.But it doesn’t stop there… because the conversation turns into a real-time argument about expectations, communication, and what happens when your spouse asks, “What time are you coming home?” (and you respond in a way you probably shouldn’t 😅). If you’ve ever felt overstimulated, misunderstood, or like you just needed 10 minutes to breathe—this one’s for you.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

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Adam Mesa492K followers

Adam Mesa is Lead Pastor of Patria Church and speaks to a congregation of 12,000 about how the gospel of Jesus Christ brings purpose to every life. Patria

Adam Mesa492K followers
Article · 8 min readWhen a Spouse Needs Rest: A Real Talk on Marriage and ExhaustionPastor Adam Mesa and his wife, Ashley, talk about a viral video of a husband in his car, why exhaustion looks different for each spouse, and a late dinner that ended in disagreement.

April 23, 2026 · 49 min · Beyond the Letter

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In this episode, we unpack a topic every marriage runs into: rest. After coming back from Japan, we talk about the difference between a “vacation” and a family trip, and how family experiences can be meaningful—even when they’re not restful. Then we react to a viral clip of a husband sitting in the car for some quiet time before walking into the house, and we get real about why so many men (and honestly, so many people) need a few minutes to decompress.But it doesn’t stop there… because the conversation turns into a real-time argument about expectations, communication, and what happens when your spouse asks, “What time are you coming home?” (and you respond in a way you probably shouldn’t 😅). If you’ve ever felt overstimulated, misunderstood, or like you just needed 10 minutes to breathe—this one’s for you.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

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