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So Our “Argument” Went Viral... | S3E30 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

May 7 · 1 hr 4 min

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So Our “Argument” Went Viral... | S3E30 BEYOND I DO PODCAST

May 7, 2026 · 1 hr 4 min

Sometimes marriage moments look way crazier from the outside than they actually are. In this episode, Adam and Ashlee give the full context behind their “big argument” from two episodes ago—what was happening emotionally, why it escalated, what was misunderstood, and how playful conflict can still expose real needs like rest, stress, and feeling heard. They also talk about how easy it is for people to project their own relationship pain onto a clip—when they don’t know the full story.To wrap it up, they speed-run a couples Q&A pulled from TikTok—reacting to marriage opinions and questions with honesty (and plenty of laughs). They cover things like arguing in front of the kids and what it looks like to model reconciliation, plus practical wisdom for navigating conflict without letting it turn into something bigger than it needs to be.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

SeriesBeyond the Letter
Adam Mesa492K followers

Adam Mesa is Lead Pastor of Patria Church and speaks to a congregation of 12,000 about how the gospel of Jesus Christ brings purpose to every life. Patria

Article · 8 min readWhat Adam and Ashley Learned From a Viral Marriage ClipAfter a clip of their banter went viral, Adam and Ashley explain the context behind it: shared calendars, trust built over thirteen years, and why every marriage needs its own agreement.

May 7, 2026 · 1 hr 4 min · Beyond the Letter

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Sometimes marriage moments look way crazier from the outside than they actually are. In this episode, Adam and Ashlee give the full context behind their “big argument” from two episodes ago—what was happening emotionally, why it escalated, what was misunderstood, and how playful conflict can still expose real needs like rest, stress, and feeling heard. They also talk about how easy it is for people to project their own relationship pain onto a clip—when they don’t know the full story.To wrap it up, they speed-run a couples Q&A pulled from TikTok—reacting to marriage opinions and questions with honesty (and plenty of laughs). They cover things like arguing in front of the kids and what it looks like to model reconciliation, plus practical wisdom for navigating conflict without letting it turn into something bigger than it needs to be.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido--We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.How to get the exclusive discount?SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=enhttps://bybarnett.com

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