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Adam Mesa
Did You Birth an Ishmael? | S3E42 BEYOND THE LETTER PODCAST
Adam MesaEpisode · 1 hr 20 min · July 28, 2025
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Sometimes we chase a promise so hard, we end up building something God never asked for. In this episode, the guys dive into the tension between trusting God’s timing and taking matters into our own hands. Using the story of Abraham, Sarah, and Hagar as a reference point, they explore what it means to accidentally
“birth an Ishmael”—a version of purpose that we have to sustain ourselves—when God is calling us to wait for His “Isaac.”It’s a conversation about patience, obedience, and surrender—especially for anyone navigating calling, relationships, or big life decisions. If you’ve ever been tempted to rush the process, this episode will challenge you to pause, seek clarity, and trust that what’s truly from God won’t need to be forced.--Connect with:Pastor Sammy https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod/Pastor Jeff Osborne https://www.instagram.com/jefftosborne/--Don't forget to stay connected with us:Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFgInstagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter--Get Aaron Levy's book, JOHN: 21 Daily Drips of Dialogue: https://a.co/d/7lGB90i--Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA--Get to know the team:@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/@andytakesl https://www.instagram.com/andytakesl/
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